He Looks So Cozy

he looks so cozy

"The more we define ourselves in relation to the people around us, the more lost we are."

I heard this on a podcast and realised how lost I actually was. Lately it's been hard to look at someone and not think of how they seem to have it better than me, this bitterness had accumulated so much I couldn't enjoy the little things I once used to enjoy.

I've been thinking of how the world nowadays is isolating in one way and is collapsed in another way, have you noticed how much the 'influence', people miles away form us have on us? It's confusing and hard to develop your own opinion when everyone have ready made answers for you to ingrain into your brain. To feel lonely yet have other's opinions go round and round in your mind is suffocating, and I want it to stop.

To "think out of the box" is the new 'idea', but I feel like everyone is out of 'the box' and we are on top of eachother, crushing eachother, each trying to view the sky a little bit more clearer.

To be yourself, I've realised is actually hard.

To clear all that clutter I have in my brain, I need time, I believe everyone does. To declutter millions of opinions, views, criticism and gossip. Social media is not bad, I think it is just hard to manage all the content we are constantly dumped with. How can someone create beautiful and unique ideas that symbolise them if all they are shown are other people, their beliefs, their opinions and their views?

In conclusion, taking time off and restructuring your thoughts and ideas with your qualities and the way you wish to live is necessary.

Many people on social media have inspired me and made me dream big and bright, I love media for that. I'm learning to be a bigger and better version of myself and I believe to do that I first have to know and understand what my opinions, views,qualities and beliefs are.

I hope you have an amazing time ahead ✨.Thank you for reading ❤️

- Avil Hopes

I did this spread when I was feeling like the amount of self care I require is too much and everybody seemed to be fine without that work. But, I'm beginning to completely understand that each human is soo far different than the one you live beside or the one have in your life, we are all unique and I think it's time I realised. I am who I am, the care I give myself is worth it cause I need it. If you are struggling with giving yourself time or being nice to yourself, always remember to treat yourself the way you'd treat someone dear to you. Would you demand your friend to work hard when she is hurting and is on the brim of tears? Then why do you do it to yourself? When you treat yourself special and care for yourself, everybody will slowly but surely see you, the way you see yourself ✨

The lesson of this year was : I need myself the most

And I look forward to understanding,knowing and loving myself dearly

Sending you lots of love 💙✨

Have an amazing end of the year Homo sapiens!

Words Used to Describe Someone's Face or Facial Expressions

Absent

Appealing

Baby-faced

Beatific

Black

Bleak

Brooding

Bug-Eyed

Chiseled

Craggy

Curious

Dark

Darkly

Deadpan

Doleful

Downcast

Dreamy

Etched

Expressionless

Faint

Fine

Fixed

Fresh-Faced

Full-Face

Furrowed

Glazed

Glowering

Good Looking

Grave

Handsome

Hatchet-Faced

Haunted

Hunted

Lived-In

Made-Up

Meaningful

Mild

Mischievous

Mobile

Mona Lisa

Negroid

Pained

Pitying

Pleading

Pleadingly

Quizzical

Radient

Roguish

Sardonic

Sculpted

Seamed

Set

Shame Faced

Slack Jawed

Sly

Smiley

Snub-Nosed

Straight Faced

Sullen

Taut

Thin

Thoughtful

Tight-Lipped

Unblinking

Unlined

Vacant

Wan

Wanly

Weak

Weather-Beaten

Wide-Eyed

Withering

Wolfish

Worried

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"What's my thang? Tell me now". Do you wonder why things are the way it is? Do you wish you were somewhere else, than right here?