Do The Things That You Enjoy. Learn What Interests You. Listen To YOUR Needs.

Do the things that you enjoy. Learn what interests you. Listen to YOUR needs.

I've been stuck for a long time and today I decided to change my mindset and look at the glass as being half full instead of half empty. I have spent so much time pouring into everyone else around me to please them. To be liked. I wasn't pouring into myself. I created this blog because I want to build my self-confidence and work through my insecurities. I want to look back and see how far I've come. So welcome to my safe space and my healing journey 💜

I decided today that I'm going to quit my job. I have nothing to fall back on. I do feel selfish and irresponsible. I have a family and bills to take care of. But I also have never done anything for me. I have been struggling with my mental health for a while now. Just last year I started doing something about it because I left one job and hopped right into another without taking any time off. I didn't want to do that again. I don't want to carry the same ill feelings into another space. It defeats the purpose of me starting over. I honestly don't know what my next step is. Am I worried and scared? Yes. Surprisingly I'm not as much as I thought I would be. I'm mostly relieved. I like a lot of weight is lifted off of my shoulders. Anxiety is caused by the fear of the unknown. I'm letting that go. I am doing what's best for me and not what I think is best for me. This is my first major step in making changes in my life. If you have any advice or encouraging words, please feel free to comment. They may come in hand on bad days.

Take Care, Be Considerate, Have Compassion💜

For the first time in a long time I actually believe that I am going to be okay.

For the first time I truly do not care what anyone thinks or says about me.

For the first time I'm finally pouring into me.

Having all 3 of those at the same time is the best feeling anyone could ever have.

My support for other's wasn't because I was a hater and that I didn't want them to make it. I was because I saw that shine and I was mad that I couldn't get that feeling for myself.

I let fear get in the way of that feeling.

But not anymore. 💜

This is exactly where I am in my journey.

I hope you wake up & go get the life you want so you aren’t miserable in the life you settled for

You have to remind yourself to remain soft when life starts to get hard 💜