How Is Your Absence Making Them Feel? Pick A Pile!

How is your absence making them feel? Pick a pile!

I’m back with another pick a pile and we’re doing a “how is your absence making them feel, no contact. Do they miss you? Are they coming back?

Take a deep breath and let your intuition guide you towards the right pile for you🤍

1. 2. 3.

PILE 1

For a big part of you guys this no contact period could’ve started due to either one of you giving out silent treatment, or they are the type of person to be giving out silent treatment when an argument/ conflict occurs, but your person is feeling stuck nonetheless they know now, they should’ve expressed how they felt first hand instead of ghosting on you, or giving you silent treatment until you stopped trying to fix things, because for a majority part of you guys, seeing that there must’ve been a clash of opinions that must’ve happened and they’ve all of a sudden turned cold on you even thought most of you were open to discussing it further, they wouldn’t budge and thought that they were in the right, anyways since then they’ve been feeling stuck if they should come back towards you,not with an apology though, they miss what you two used to have and they feel that they missed out on a good thing, but regardless of this their pride won’t let them come through with an apology, they’re very much in their feelings and you are someone that’s living in their head rent free, but too stubborn and prideful to make a move towards you, they’re also feeling guilt and shame for how they reacted/ went about this and that’s another thing that’s holding them back, as they feel that you will be rejecting them, they feel very burdened and lost without you in their life though,very specific message but if you have shared playlists with this person before they check it to see if you’re listening to anything that would remind you of them, they will be coming back with an offer towards you but ngl it will take a whileeee, possibly a couple more months until they feel that this whole thing is forgotten about.

PILE 2

Whoever this person is, you did a good thing, going no contact with them, because it looks like to me, this is someone that was in a way kinda of an emotional vampire, they would dump and dump all of their troubles and traumas onto you, but when it came to you needing to talk to someone they were never there for you to the same extent or at all for the looks of it, they do feel very unbalanced without you in their life, and they miss getting advice from you specially, they feel that you’re someone that’s very emotionally mature, for some of you, you could also be working as a therapist or in similar sectors? Very specific so take what resonates, but they’re feeling jealous, if this was a relationship and you’ve broken up with this person, they think you’ve met someone new and that’s fuelling their codependency, they want to go back to the moment you two have met and get a redo, do it all over again, but I’m not seeing you taking them back ngl, you look like you have moved on from this and you felt that it was never enough to begin with, expect a phone call/message sooner than you think, they’re obsessed.

Pile 3

Picking up on message a little bit similar as to pile 2, so if you have been thinking of pile 2 as well or been attracted to that one, possibly give that one a read as well, but from the looks of pile 3 your person feels left out in the colddddd by you, cut out, cold Turkey, some of you could’ve even blocked this person, picking up on an angry feeling from the collective that picked pile 3😅, with the lovers being here though there’s a lot of love that’s mutual between the two of you, for some of you this could’ve been a very long term relationship that,crumbled all of a sudden or you feel that after you’ve done so much for this person they’ve packed up and left without giving you any notice prior, but your person believes that this ending that’s gone on between the two of you will turn into a new beginning, seeing your person working on themselves currently wanting to become the best version of themselves,and then come back towards you? They feel like they have to prove something here, and they want to feel that they can make you proud, seeing your person realising that the grass ain’t green where they don’t water it though and start missing what they had with you, now that they can’t see you,touch or talk to you it’s getting very lonely for them and nothing that they were chasing prior compares, this person really loves you pile 3 and they regret everything, they want a reconciliation as soon as possible.

What can the fire signs expect this week! 7/02– 14/02.

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Seeing you guys feeling abit bored this upcoming week, craving excitement and adventure, you might find yourself this week kinda feeling isolated from your friends or family, feeling that everyone is busy and no one has a lot of time for you, some of you guys might even be grieving a connection that ended recently and you feel that you have no one to talk it through with, finding yourself making spontaneous decisions such as booking flights or overspending alotttt (be careful with your money!) or overindulging in things that you know might not be good for you, feeling rebellious and planning how to bring yourself out of your comfort zone which is never a bad thing but be careful of people taking advantage of that or pushing your limits.

I’m so tired of TikTok videos that are like “this person is in love with you and will be reaching out within the next 2-3 weeks” like babes, I don’t care. Pls just tell me I have a lot of money coming in and I’m going to start getting 8 hours of sleep a night. That’s all I want. Possibly a good skin care routine if it’s in the cards for me, as well.

Your next relationship! Pick a pile ✨

Disclaimer- please take what resonates leave what doesn’t, take a big breath and choose which one you think has your message for you,if you feel that it doesn’t resonate or you feel it doesn’t fit your narrative, feel free to pick a different pile🫶🏼

Pile 1 - selenite

For some of you this is a same sex relationship, seeing that when you will be meeting this person it looks like either you will have just gotten out of a relationship or they have, so this connection will have a lot of healing that the two of you will be bringing to each other, it looks like this person is someone that will be teaching you a lot of lessons surrounding heartbreak, a very raw relationship brought to you to help you grow, to fully understand what it is what you are needing to heal in yourself, as in this pile I’m seeing some of you feeling that you’re unlucky in love or you might feel that in love matters you haven’t found anyone that’s fulfilling to you, and this is due to you not learning your lessons, jumping from one relationship to another, and this person is also the same, you both are very mirrored from the good aspects to the bad past experiences and struggles, this will be a very challenging journey, but you both will be together to kinda recognise the patterns in each other in yourself if that makes sense and in turn switching that button into realising how to fix things or how to collaborate in a relationship, and helping each other , some of you might even be meeting them abroad or long distance.

Pile 2

Okay guys this is someone that you have manifested for a long time for some of you seeing that you have done it accidentally by thinking of what your ideal sp person is however most of you I feel that you have been manifesting this person using specific methods, in a way very logical the way you went about it, but your next relationship will be so harmonious and it looks like your partner will be one that would be the main provider in this relationship, very masculine energy whenever you’re a female or a male it doesn’t matter, it just that your future next person is all about taking care of you, putting their needs aside as long as you are the one that’s happy, seeing you though having some trust issues from previous relationships but that’s what they will be there to help you with, they’ll be able to guide you into knowing that not everyone can be a horrible person to you, l a lot of travelling and fun activities in this pile, you could be dealing with a Earth sign or a fire sign, it’ll start of as something quite innocent, none of you thinking that this could turn into a relationship especially you,slowly But surely stealing each others hearts and not looking back.

Pile 3

This is someone that will come into your life very unexpectedly, this isn’t someone that you know through friends, it’s a whole brand new person, you could be meeting them at the most random places such as your normal shopping trip going to get milk for example and you bump into them🤣, this person I love their energy they are full of excitement and joy, very spontaneous and will sweep you of your feet, picking up weirdly that they are a good cook so this person could be working as a chef of some sort or even meeting them at a restaurant that they work at! They will love spoiling you through gifts or monetary ways, very calculated individual, it looks like this person is not very talkative as in not someone that would be all up in your face type of way but they pay attention to all the small things, when you least expect it to learn all the small quirks there are about you to make sure that they can do those things right, this person is a charmer and very mentally strong, and emotionally intelligent, they’ll be able to tell if you’re not okay just by one look.

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