I'm A Detransitioner And Tbh My Experience Only Made Me More Supportive Of Trans People And Understanding

I'm a detransitioner and tbh my experience only made me more supportive of trans people and understanding of their experiences.

Like, you wanna know why I detransitioned? Because presenting as male gave me real gender dysphoria and made me uncomfortable in my skin. I would tear my clothes away and desperately grasp my curves and my boobs and my pussy to make sure they were still there. I would go into public imagining that others were perceiving me as male and, despite pressuring myself to feel otherwise, feel extremely uncomfortable with the notion.

He/him made me feel a pang of dread and unease.

And now, unlike most cis people, I know what gender dysphoria feels like. And I'm going to use that knowledge to fight for my trans siblings.

Someone anonymously messaged me to tell me that writing about detrans folks makes me a traitor to trans people, because all detrans people want to push conversion therapy on us and forcibly detransition us.

That’s precisely the kind of narrative that ends up pushing detransitioners into the arms of TERFs and the religious far-right.

There’s nothing inherently wrong with detransitioning. Sometimes people realize that transitioning no longer suits them, or never really did. And that’s fine.

When we systematically push them away regardless of their politics, we make people feel like the only places they can get support are among transphobes. That’s not a good thing. Building de/trans solidarity is an critical tool for disarming anti-trans movements.

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It's literally just about consent. If your partner consented to polyamory then it's not cheating, if they did not consent to polyamory then it is cheating.

Me tryna be romantic like...

Me writing a script for my upcoming sexual encounter to show to my partner and give him an idea of what I want to do.

I feel like I can't fit in both a part where he eats my pussy and a part where he sucks my strap-on, so my automatic decision was that my clit is fine, I want him to suck my strap. (My man gives insanely good head.)

Guys I'm vanilla I swear