Mashriqiyyah

میں پیہم ہار کر یہ سوچتا ہوں،

وہ کیا شے ہے جو ہاری جا رہی ہے؟

ہے سینے میں عجب اک حشر برپا،

کہ دل سے بے قراری جا رہی ہے

~ جون ایلیا

Whoever controls his desires during his youth, Allaah will make him (like) a king during his old age.

Ad-Daqaaq, Thamm al-Hawaa (31)

i tried to dm you .. but you only allow dm to the accounts you follow 🥲

Oh..right!

DM me on Instagram or Wattpad then.

Before you speak your mind, feel the feelings of the person hearing it.

Zeenat....do u think we ever can get over a trauma...? have u evr been in a situation where u donno if it is ur instinct or u r just seeing at situation frm the eyes of ur traumatic experience...why is life so confusing? does it ver get easy?

What I think is my perception, I ain't a student of psychology...but...we do 'get over' it in a sense, that it doesn't affect our routine for most days. On some days though, it can come crashing down. Idk how do I explain it, but traumatic experiences never actually leave the mind...you just learn to cope up with it in different ways. A friend of mine who is a professional therapist recently told me some signs of how I was behaving due to a trauma response...and it wasn't actually healthy. But, I guess our lives cannot be completely 'healthy' in all aspects. If something works for you, let it work. And I do struggle a lot most of the times to decide if it's real or fake. Like, any situation...if I'm looking at it is or I'm framing something that isn't real...so, the confusion sucks. But, when taking decisions, refer to what Quran and Sunnah say about the matter. I learnt to pray istikhara for this very reason, to take decisions and pray it turns out khayr for me. That way, I don't get confused later. Just accept it n move ahead. Alhamdulillah. and hardest pill...it never gets easy. Like a video game, next level is harder than the previous one😂 you just gotta tighten your waistband. Waise bhi kitne din rehna hai yahah?!🙃 Eternal joy is with Allah. Keep working. Be patient until you feel your heart is ripping open n leave everything as it is. Allah ko humari humse zyada fikr hai. He takes care of us even when we fail to do so ourselves. Alhamdulillah 🥺