Please Hand Me The Aux!!!! I Can Be Trusted I Promise. Please, Please Please Pleeeeease, Please Please

please hand me the aux!!!! i can be trusted i promise. please, please please pleeeeease, please please pls-- omg really? :3 you're so sweet! dont worry you won't regret it i swear! [loops this for 2 hours]

We've all seen a feelings wheel, but have you ever seen a NEEDS wheel?

This was a first for me when my therapist showed it to me—so now I'm sharing it with you.

Like!!

I'm allowed to need "Make"?

And "For"?!

All jokes aside, this thing is changing the way I view my needs.

I hope it changes yours, too.

it doesn't have to be botulism of course. it could also be mushroom poisoning

reoccurring fantasy where i fly to europe or japan and enroll in one of those programs where you get free room & board in exchange for working at a little hippie farm or hostel or whatever. the change of scenery and lack of internet access and physical labor reforms my brain and personality into something unrecognizable. i find peace in growing organic kale and fall in love with the older crunchy granola lesbian who runs the farm. we have 10 kids by which i mean we adopt some goats. after a year or so i die from acute botulism poisoning resulting from my awful attempts at canning, preferably before i realize how stupid all of this is

Julia Soboleva (Latvian, born 1990)

the thing is, a lot of ~bad behaviour~ in animals is self-advocacy. if your animals are ~acting out~ you're supposed to pay attention