Hi Guys! Sorry For Most Of My Recent Posts Being Reblogs, Lol.

hi guys! sorry for most of my recent posts being reblogs, lol.

moodboard coming soon ;)

A STARTER GUIDE FOR NEW CAREGIVERS

this guide goes for any new caregivers out there that want to start caring for a kiddo so badly but don't even know where to start :]

🫐 first of all: don't freak out, learning is always important and this is your time!

🫐 make sure to establish boundaries and/or rules with the kiddo you're gonna take care of

🫐 ask if the relationship will stay platonic or romantic beforehand (very important!!!)

🫐 be careful with your words, don't cuss, be kind and respectful to them

🫐 allow yourself to take time off your caregiver duty

🫐 ask which games they like to play, which toys they enjoy playing with

🫐 get to know your kiddo, it's important to know their triggers or phobias

🫐 if you have time, write down the routine you and your kiddo should follow

🫐 if you're long distance make sure to reassure them that you are there, call if you feel comfy with that, send pictures, tag them in nice posts

🫐 reassurance is important also if you take care of more than one kiddo

🫐 ask them about their day even if it's just happy nonsense babbles please listen to them

🫐 listen to their concerns and tricky questions

🫐 respect their alone time and they should respect yours as well

🫐 clean their baby gear, put their stuffies all neatly in bed, make them yummy snacks

🫐 learn about their allergies and the foods they just can't eat!!

🫐 reward them for their good behavior or if they try hard enough staying big during the day!

🫐 spend time outside, make sure to protect them from the weather everytime

🫐 talk to them about your interests they will love it!

🫐 stablish a healthy bedtime schedule

🫐 put your mental health as a priority, this shouldn't be a weight on your shoulders, listen to your needs

🫐 don't make them tell you things about their past or things that are traumatic, if they refuse just let it go, don't pressure them

🫐 always listen, it's more important than you think

also for caregivers of pet regressors:

🫐 get the food they like the most

🫐 give them treats snacks

🫐 teach them tricks!

🫐 take them out for a nice walk around the park if they like it!

and last but not least, enjoy yourself, allow yourself to slip into that caregiver headspace and have fun! even when it's a hard time it should still be something enjoyable to do for both you and your kiddo <3

let me know if you want me to add anything else to the list :D

Tips for CGs with POC(Specifically Black) Littles.

-You can’t always run your fingers through their hair cause it’s normally treated or too curly and will end up hurting. (Also having box braids and other hair extensions can get messy with constant play)

-Hair products that help with dry hair will work better then the generic ones in stores (Their are black owned businesses that sell sweet kiddy smelling shampoo for curly hair) and you’ll be able to play with your littles hair during this time!

-Cocoa butter is good for all skin types.(also reduces stretch marks and it’s vegan/cruelly free)

-if your little is from a different country then America (Caribbean, Brazil, africa etc.) Try eating the traditional foods that they eat (asking your littles what they ate/did when they were younger can point you in the right direction) It can help them feel smol from nostalgia

-Always be sensitive when they talk about their skin/hair/features many poc kids/adults still struggle with loving their features and having someone being understanding helps TREMENDOUSLY!

-And last but not least, be kind to your little and make sure that they are as happy as they CAN be!

~Nannies Alexander and Boris

(Please no nsfw/ dd//lg (or VARIENTS) kink, or 18+ thank you)

“Littles With” Masterpost

Hey babies! Here you will find a link to every “Littles with…” post that has been done so far, wether by me or by the original creator of the series, @littlesmentalhealth ! I’ll try to update often so that it’s always relevant!

**These links will take you to Instagram**

By Me (@/babyboyollie on insta)

Hallucinations

Chronic Fatigue

POTS

Hypermobility

Fear of the Doctors

ARFID

IBS

Child Abuse

Psychosis

Dyspraxia

Executive Dysfunction

Emotional Abuse

Germophobia

Sensory Processing Disorder

Haphephobia

Suicidal (TW)

Audio Processing Disorder

Joint Pain

Anger Issues

Low Self-Esteem

Intrusive Thoughts

Depersonalization-Derealization

Dysmorphia

Night Terrors

Anorexia (TW)

Claustrophobia

Tourettes

MtF / Transfem Dysphoria

Paranoia

FtM / Transmasc Dysphoria

PTSD

Introverted

Migranes

Mute

Dissociation

Self Harm (TW)

Asthma

Schizophrenia

Abandonment Issues

Colourblindness

Dyscalculia

Dietary Restrictions / Allergies

Hard of Hearing

Seperation Anxiety

Chronic Pain / Illness

Binge Eating (TW)

By @littlesmentalhealth ( @/venereandove on insta)

Depression

Molestation (TW)

PTSD

Autism

Dyslexia

ADHD

OCD

Sensory Issues

Eating Disorder (TW)

Anxiety

Dating Abuse 

Gender Dysphoria (general)

Borderline Personality

Psychosis

Addiction

Takes Medication

Bipolar

DID

Service Animal

PMDD 

Insomnia

System Little

Self-Harm (TW)

Social Anxiety

Bulimia (TW)

Hypersexual

Trust Issues

Sleep Paralysis