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I hate when I see a video of like a really sugary dessert and the comments are all yapping about diabetes.
Like iswr some ppl r actually so slow, u won't get diabetes from one meal man
like it's consistently eating unhealthy shit like that that will get u diabetes omd
yk despite being a very opinionated person I don't call out every single bit of ignorant/offensive shit ppl say cus it's a lot and it's very tiring to try to explain why I'm uncomfortable by things certain ppl say, I try to remind myself like it's with good intentions BUT I truly think ppl need to be more culturally sensitive and not comment on everything they see on someone else like hair or culturally stuff ifykwim
Just think before u talk, I'm not saying I'm innocent and I've never made an ignorant comment in my life I just think it's important to point out and learn from 🫠
As a black girl one of these insensitive things ppl always mention Is hair and it's quite annoying because there's sm discourse surrounding our hair :/
today I had a friend of mine who I know is not racist make a pretty ignorant comment about black girl's hair, I didn't wanna say anything but I was so irritated by it lol cus what's wrong with it lol....
Happy birthday BAE 😍😍
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reblog if you believe fanfics are as valid as books that were published and sold by authors who write as their main careers. I'm trying to prove a point
my ambition and goals are the only thing keeping me alive at this moment tbh
the thought of being someone that can help not only herself but others is just so enticing
but at times even the thought of death itself is enticing, I just want to pass away peacefully and be let go of all my problems while knowing I've made something of myself with my little time on earth
as most girls do
The Internet needs to redefine its new smart girl icons ASAP
They always show that insufferable bitch Rory Gilmore or some other white celebrity/character that has never had to work a day in their life like Kim k
oh she studied for a law exam
okay bro....
Like I can excuse characters like Elle woods & Hermione Granger but I think it's high time we celebrate actual smart women and especially women who've made contributions to ensure other women have access to quality education for exam Malala who is literally a noble prize winner who's made a great contribution to female youth education
not wonyoung or some random kpop idol that got an A+ in their building block math class that is specially made for idols to learn the basics and nothing that serious.....
And most we only acknowledge smart women when they fit the beauty standards? like I do believe there are smart female celebrities (Emma Watson, Natalie portman) but put more respect on those that aren't the most conventionally attractive people on earth because then you are putting more weight on their looks than their academic achievements which people always do
And mentioning Malala proves that being "smart" isn't just from academic achievements but how you contribute to the world
This whole Diddy situation is absolutely disgusting I hope everyone involved in the committing the horrible crimes truly suffer a painful death
what's especially sad is that people are making a joke out of this situation and just using this as an opportunity to cancel celebrities they don't already like instead of acknowledging the victims and expressing sympathy towards them I feel 8000 800 bad for the women that fell victim to that disgusting piece of shit
And the whole canceling celebrities thing isn't being done well at all.
because the thing with Diddy's parties is that he had private & public parties
public parties which were usually taped for an audience every known public figure had to be at, while the private parties were where the sex trafficking and all the other weird shit happened.
Not everyone attended these private parties and at these point ppl r just throwing random accusations at people who just seemed to even glance at Diddy once which sometimes the assumptions are justified
like for public figure like naomi campbell, drake and trump who r known not only to be VERY Problematic but most likely pedophiles themselves
keep in mind naomi and trump were both very close with eipstein, so if I had to guess they were definitely in on this.
But some other accusations/assumptions are just absurd, I'm not here to blindly defend any celebrities or anything but considering that some of the celebrity event attendees were VICTIMS while should we be assuming their perpetuators without knowing the full story? Like look at Justin Bieber, I have a feeling people would have assumed he was in on it too if someone didn't speak up for him and if he wasn't a minor at that time
and that's another thing, it's not just the minors that were even affected (it gets more disgusting)
Terry Crews a 240 POUND man got sexually assaulted at one of these big Hollywood parties, if he hadn't came out as a victim a very long time ago ppl would have easily assumed he was part of those pedophiles
so what I'm tryna say here is ppl really take their time and understand the situation before throwing at accusations, like I said something attendees are very much clearly affiliated with Diddy and should probably be investigated as soon as possible!!!
I'm not saying idolize the others who have seen like angels their whole lives, just don't idolize any celebrities at this moment and also don't rush to "cancel" them without much factual proof to it or confession from a victim
Once again my hearts out to the victims, they truly deserve better.
okay so we all know the entertainment industry is currently in flames RN considering every celebrity we might know is a fucking demon spawn who likes to touch kids
with the whole Diddy arrest and finding out he's eipstein 2.0 everyone else is coming down with him
ppl r mentioning all his connections and celebrities who r just pedos in general
usher, megan fox, naomi campbell, Jay z, nicki, drake e.t.c
And these are all mostly celebs from the golden age of Hollywood
around 2000s & 2010s btw
and it really got me thinking, why do kids need to be exploited for Hollywood to thrive
no no no hear me out here
look at Nickelodeon and kids TV in general, they've fallen off so bad after Dan Schneider (a known pedo) left and isn't working on anymore projects
it's so disgusting how these Hollywood producers have exploited so many young stars and some of these young stars grow up and aid in their pedophilic/grapist behavior
like look at Megan Fox who has had strong connections with Diddy for a long time and has suddenly deleted a bunch of her tweets once he got arrested, she was very much also exploited cus she was underage and acting as a stripper In some show
honestly ik we don't know the full story as of this moment but Hollywood is clearly full of demons....
open and behind doors cus their fans will defend them for everything or ppl won't mention when something creepy is happening (especially back in the 00s) OR the celebrities r just really secretive about it...
Look at Jay z, he dated 18 year old Beyonce when he was 30
30!?
And now ppl are calling him out for partying with a 16 year old and being very touchy with her..
and keep in mind it doesn't just stop at celebrities but politicians too
trump, unsurprisingly is also another one of diddy's associates.
Overall it's mostly people in power and the disgusting part of it all is that they r gonna get away with it 🤦🏾♀️
Sigh.
I can go on for days on how the whole affirmative action issue was just a ruse to further divide people of colour and fuel the white supremacy agenda but for now I'll just start with this.
I've noticed a pattern, where anytime an underachieving Asian or white ivy league student is posted on the Internet to be judged or dissected people often have these two excuses/reasoning for how tf said student got into a top school
1. They are a legacy (extremely possible)
2. They r just rich ASF & donated a building (extremely possible)
and by underachieving I mean their grades/extracurriculars aren't up to par with the average ivy league student
But for an underachieving black student that somehow managed to weasel their way into a top university people just simply assume they got in cus they're black. And I just can't begin to understand such silly reasoning lol
Whoever makes the decisions at these top schools I can guarantee u is some old conservative white person who does not in any way have the interest of black students in mind and all their decisions are highly driven by how much money they'll make from it
Most underachieving black students at top schools r just rich and it's the case for all the other races too.
In fact the current existing population of black students at top unis in America are all children of African politicians or just in general rich kids, if they happen to be incompetent/mediocre it has absolutely nothing to do with their race but more to do with their economic standing
the notion that black students don't have to put as much effort into university applications is wrong. The only people who don't have to try as much are the top 1%
I rest my case
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Today I saw another post on an exceptional student accepted into good schools
she had pretty mid grades, like a 3.2 gpa & 1200 sat which r obviously very low but her stats were extremely good so she got a bunch of scholarships to good schools
And everyone in the comments was like that makes sense cus her ecs r good yk!
I remember seeing a post just like that on the same account (limmy) except it was a black student with mid grades and amazing ecs
the entire comment section was just barking about his grades and refused to acknowledge his amazing extracurriculars and how they probably played a significant part in his application
it's so devastating because it's all driven by racism considering the double standards, I wish people just took a second and tried to understand the perspectives of black students who r working their but off in HS just to have their achievements undermined and linked to their race
it's honestly frustrating because all reasoning drops when it comes to black people...
Finally brought up lgbtq support & Black activism discourse into this account!!!!
Both very sensitive topics but important to discuss and disect.
I feel like the main issue with these two topics is that ppl keep trying to create this good vs evil battle not understanding that both communities despite being minorities won't always be right but at the same time their voices deserve to be heard and for me it all comes down to standing up against dehumanization & hypocrisy not painting good versus evil
Black and Gay people aren't foreign entities.
They are people.
A flaw in the Black American Culture & flaws in different cultures overall
As an African woman I love African Americans and their culture but like many groups they genuinely have their own flaws and issues they need to really fix
and one of them happens to be the fact they simply don't value education as much as they should...
Yes systematic racism will always be a small part of the reason things are the way they are, meaning black schools are generally underfunded but the kids have no willingness to learn.
Many teachers at these majority black schools have claimed that being high achieving at school is seen as a "whitewashed" trait for black Americans and it's honestly saddening
I recently saw a video speaking on how 66% of black twelfth grades do not possess even partial mastery of basic twelfth grade math skills
and like I said it's pretty sad
Of course white supremacists never fail to add their useless commentary to stuff like this, they claim its "genetics" and black ppl are just naturally stupid
and that in itself is a stupid statement.
When people talk about "black" they assume we are all the same and obviously African Americans & Africans share similarities in culture but we still have different cultural values
As a Nigerian one thing ik and love about my country is that we really don't play when it comes to academics, most of us start exams by the first grade and we do it all throughout our school years. Usually three per each grade and depending on your school they can be very difficult/advanced. Nigerians are hardworking and any time we move to other countries we excel because of the skills we learn from our country and also by utilizing the opportunities we get from foreign countries (that we can't get from ours unfortunately)
Please keep in mind I'm not saying all this to degrade African Americans in the name of lifting up Africans.
Nigerians (and other Africans) have their own cultural flaws, ACTUALLY a lot of them actually and in some cases African Americans do it better than we do and it's important to acknowledge these things then learn from each other.
I'm just saying people love to group all black people together by not recognizing that there are different cultures within the black community as a whole. They do it to claim we are some genetic mistake that is unworthy of the title "human" and it's wrong
Every culture has its own flaws.
Someone tell the whites their biggest issue is narcissism and it is what is destroying our earth, people are only ready to see black people's flaws because it has made us "less fortunate" but what ppl don't notice is that the white community's flaws has cost the entire earth
I will go more into this on another day but to summarize their colonization of the entire earth was based of the fact they saw the way of living of other cultures as "barbaric" because they preserved the earth and didn't believe in industrialization
Keep in mind it is that industrialization and capitalist mindset that is destroying our earth today. Yes it caused evolution (according to white ppl) but who said Africans couldn't have evolved in their own way without destroying the earth and its natural resources?
And it does not just stop at the white community, even Asians, Latinos, Hispanics have their own flaws.
If only people learnt to respect, educate and support one another. If the Europeans back in the time of colonization just lent their support & collaborated to African nations to help with evolution by utilizing their nature preserves and then having a normal trade system where they could borrow from Africa/Asia's resources while providing them with technology that could support evolution
Sorry I've gone off topic but till date I wonder what the earth would be today if Europeans didn't have such a hostile narcissistic mindset back then
they had little natural resources and instead of collaborating, they stole & destroyed. It's greed and corruption.
ik it's a naive thought to wish for peace considering the big difference in cultures back then, like people didn't even understand the concept of human decency back then. Considering how most African, Asians and European countries did not agree with the way they all did things back then, we'd never really reach a state of peaceful co-existence.
but it's fun to dream!
Human nature is cruel anyway
Debunking & Countering the "Black ppl commit more crimes argument"
People with this bigoted belief usually bring up this particular stat
This data shows that black ppl (just in the US btw) commit the most murders, not crimes just the most murders. Which obviously isn't good but like I said if u r gonna make a specific claim at least present specific data that supports that claim
Which is actually real and true for the most part, but something funny about racists is that they love to ignore other stats that actually give the full story
Fortunately for common sense users like myself there is another stat that literally contradicts the entire statement of black ppl commit more CRIMES
Despite the unfortunate truth of the first stat racist aren't looking at the big picture here, first of this is just from the USA. Black ppl don't just exist there and even if they did let's not forget systematic racism which further creates a wealth divide between black communities in the USA and everybody else, And when black communities continue to be underfunded, under resourced & overall poor they tend to commit more crimes
it's common sense, obviously its not a justification for their actions but it proves that black ppl don't have this "genetic" urge to commit violence like white supremacists believe
ALSO more black ppl arrested for certain crimes doesn't necessarily mean they actually committed these crimes, if anything it just shows the injustice in America
white ppl r 10x more likely to get away with crime because they r rich and powerful in America and Black ppl being a minority are more often wrongfully convicted
The whole bridgerton gender swap issue is a case of women being selective lgbtq allies, let's talk about it!
So a love Interest for one of the female Bridgerton has been gender swapped from a man to a woman in the show and fans r absolutely enranged
it's just hilarious to me how hypocritical ppl can be, cus when one of the male characters was made to be gay and into men the majority female viewers of the show did not bark as much
But when there was wlw rep Twitter burst into flames
Some women are genuinely selective allies and most of the time they rjust homophobes who happen to have a fetish with mlm relationships..
like I understand wanting to stick to the canon material which is the original books but in the canon material the male character that was changed to female in the show wasn't that great at all
ironically what female bridgerton fans doing is exactiy what men do, fetishize lesbians but then hate gay men?? at the end of the day both r horrible!
I'm a big lesbian ally simply because I believe we need less man lovers in this world - said by a man lover herself
To me this is women when they can't self insert themselves into a fictional relationship;
like u don't have to love the relationship or even agree with the gender swap, but the dramatics ppl r showing over it is weird & screams homophobia imo!!
anyways I'm very late to this discourse as this account was made after my bridgerton binge watch but it still needed to be said and I brought it up cus I still see ppl fuming over the issue till date
embarrassing for y'all dare I say
The world will be a better place when not just men stop being racist & misogynistic pieces of shit but also when women stop supporting and ESPECIALLY dating these kinds of men
As a woman it absolutely pains me to see a fellow female who I know is genuinely a good person to date the worst specimen of man to step foot on earth and i’ll never understand why they do so
I know why but do not understand such ridiculous reasoning
As a teenage girl it is very hard to find guys who meet the basic standard of having common human decency and honestly dare I say teenage girls in general r extremely desperate for a relationship so they will literally date anyone regardless of morals
what especially angers me is when said women claim to be feminist but still date horrible men like Ik some women who r genuinely bad ppl ans actually enjoy their BFs bitchy personalities and casual racism so it's expected of them to date awful ppl.
It is the opposite for self proclaimed feminist
either way both are bad....
This issue is especially prevalent for female celebrities, I don't have any examples in mind RN but I'm sure there's a good amount of female celebrities who have claimed to be feminists then proceed to date a horrible person
I believe in holding both parties accountable, meaning shit talking both the man and the woman. Especially the man if I'm gonna be honest
Actually now I do have a perfect example, a kpop idol , Hyuna who has always presented herself as a progressive person suddenly dating a Grapist is absolutely insane to me
Another thing I really hate, especially as a teenage girl is seeing girls date guys who they know fetishize their race
to the snow bunnies out there let go of the black man who is just dating u out of a fetish and hate for his own ppl, it's weird u continue to fuel the ego of men who treat other women badly
Anyways women please let go of your desperation, don't drop ur morals or common sense and stop dating horrible men
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I start tweaking a little bit
Us against the world
just me and you
everybody says that you're not good for me
snowbunny this! snowbunny that!
sometimes I really feel like black men wanna go back to the days of slavery!
cus what's the weird fetish with anybody but ur own ppl is actually insane
like u wanna be whipped by a white woman SO BAD DON'T U?
jk
but they r so annoying, I seriously don't understand not being into ur own ppl. it's genuinely self hate and insecurity
finding out what the great shift was and wondering why tf it didn't apply to black women 😐
It's a new month and the internet as found another woman to massively hate on for a dumb fucking reason. It's Blake lively who has said some weird shit but is quite overhated imo!
I wish WISH ppl used the same energy they use to hate on women for being annoying onto men who r genuine horrible ppl, LIKE honestly every month there's a new female celebrity who hasn't done anything really that bad maybe was a little annoying or rude but nothing THAT bad, but the male celebrity grapist & pdfiles get away with everything and no one talks about them or massively hates them its so infuriating.
The one time a female celebrity got cancelled for being a really bad person (amber heard) everyone was saying we should treat male abuse victims and avoid double standards which I agree with, but ppl like to act like male celebrities and men in general don't get away with horrible shit. Johnny Depp Himself who was the male abuse victim is a horrible person, but no one was talking about that....
Double standards have always affected women 10x more but y'all ain't ready for that convo yet
that whole amber heard situation was just an excuse for men to confidently let out their misogynistic rants about women without facing criticism but this time it
and it always pains me to have women participate in these hate trains (some times we even tend to be the majority gender hating on said celebrity)
Like I believe that ppl who r allowed to dislike certain celebrities for being "annoying" but having such a strong hate towards someone for something ridiculous is annoying
ppl got mad at Blake lively for overly promoting her self and acting a little self centered, something a lot of men in the industry do but it's a "joke" or it's "hot" when they do it....
toxic hate trains on the internet just piss me off in general, cus even when justified ppl ALWAYS go overboard esp when it comes to women