No You Don't Understand, We Have To Protect The Precious Monogender Lesbians And Gays Who Have An Internalized

no you don't understand, we have to protect the precious monogender lesbians and gays who have an internalized hatred of the 'opposite' gender from the scary multigender genderfuckers or we'll poison their pure one gender only spaces/sar

Would love if sapphic posts could stop posting "men dni" and achillean posts stop posting "women dni" because as someone who's sapphic and achillean, man and woman and neither, it's very awkward to sit and try and figure out if I'm "man enough" or "woman enough" because I'm literally duel-wielding genders here ;-;

same. I know personally what it's like to not have my pronouns respected, so why would I do that to somebody else?

'nobody's gonna call you frog/frogself irl lol' did you know. did you know that auxiliary(link) pronouns are a thing, and neopronoun users tend to have them? did you know that people like me will accept the usage of 'normal' pronouns in the place of our heavily preferred neopronouns, because we know how much hassle it can be to get people to use them? did you know that we also fucking exist in the real world, or have you convinced yourself that neopronouns are simply an online fad only seen in online spaces?

I love when I find a post in the wild and go to reblog from the OP, but find out I'm blocked like what did I do to you?💀

chop suy guy

C H O P S U Y

nobody listens to trans men or thinks about trans men, that's why some people don't even realize we exist. The absolute erasure of trans men and their experiences makes people say this kind of shit. 'It's easier to be a trans man' or 'it's easier to go stealth as a trans man' or 'there's no consequence to being a trans man or outed as such'. it is so fucking brainless; do these people think we aren't clockable at all? I was clocked as a 'tomboy' by our neighbor and unless you've been living under a rock people really don't like masc women, either. So if you fail for one second to perform feminine womanhood, you are fucked. Gender noncomformity is just as dangerous to perform as performing another gender than the one people expect you to be. So even if the trans man in question gets clocked as a butch woman instead, he's still not gonna have a good fucking time. And, even if the trans man manages to present as a hyperfem woman, he's still gonna hate his fucking life and that is not an easy thing to live through. So the risk there would be fucking suicide.

"But its easier for trans men to closet themselves and if they get found out there isn't as much risk"

can you talk to trans men please

'oh, so I'm a queerphobe now because I think xenogenders and neopronouns are fake?' yes.

'I'm queerphobic because I think mspec lesbians, turigirls, and the like are invalid and appropriating the labels of lesbian, bi etc?' yes.

what you are doing is misunderstanding a queer identity, failing to enlighten yourself, and weaponizing your own ignorance against a queer person and painting them as the problem. You are writing off the existence of a queer person because you don't understand, or maybe do not even want to understand, their identity. You brush it off as fake and nonsensical. You think it's appropriating your own experience.

That is precisely what transphobes do to all trans people, what transmeds do to the 'wrong' type of trans person. That is precisely what homophobes do to all lesbians and gay men. Make no mistake, that bigotry affects you too no matter how much of a 'good' or 'correct' trans person/gay person you are. And if you are an ally espousing this kind of blatantly queerphobic rhetoric, I hope you feel ashamed. Where you claim to be in support of the LGBTQ community, you throw certain members of it under the bus because it's too much for you. You don't get to make that call; you either support all queer people in their identities, or you do not support queer people. That makes you queerphobic.