Probably The Best Way To Interact With These People Tbh.

Probably the best way to interact with these people tbh.

showing you guys this twitter interaction I just had and reminding you to be normal about trans people who use "wrong" labels please and thank you

one of my pet peeves is monogender trans people agreeing that 'men can't be women' (because, well, they aren't men trying to be women and vice versa like how transphobes mean it) because while that is true in the case of being monogender it's not a universal experience to be a single gender in general.

Can monogender people please get it through their skulls that not all multigender people are genderfluid and it's possible to be more than one gender at a time

same situation with PCOS. A lot of the people I've seen be against PCOS being an intersex variation are obsessed with the concept of 'real women', because to them being intersex would mean they're less than women. it's sad that so many people seem deal with this type of intersexism.

I believe that the choice to use the intersex label is and should always be a personal one, however I have noticed many people with Turner Syndrome not wanting to call themselves intersex because 'We are real women' and 'It's a female only condition - We don't have male parts'

Not only is this incredibly transphobic as we don't all identify as women but it also completely misunderstands what intersex actually means (any variation in sex characteristic considered which is not typical for males/females)

Being intersex has never made me less of a woman, I can be an intersex woman and I AM an intersex woman. They aren't exclusive terms?

Hey, cis women who say "I wish I was a man but definitely not a trans way, haha! I would never be a man :)"

I say this with all the gentleness in my heart: It is okay for you to be a man. If you want to be a man, you can just be one. You also don't have to stop being a woman to be a man. Multigender people exist. You can be a man and a woman at the same time. Or you can be just a man, or a non-binary man, or non-binary, or something entirely different. You can do and be whatever you want and whatever makes you happy.

Becoming a man is not a betrayal of womanhood and feminism. And everyone who makes you feel like it is an absolute asshole, and you should not ever listen to them. You do not have to push your own happiness aside for other peoples' comfort.

If you want to be a man, try it out! See where it gets you. Maybe it turns out that you really weren't trans, or not a trans man but something else entirely, and that's fine, too. Maybe it turns out you are a trans man. In any case, following those thoughts might get you to a happier and better place in the end. And if you turn out to be happier as a man than you were as a woman, that is wonderful.

Please don't feel forced to stay a cis woman for feminism - any feminism that mistreats or hates trans men and transmasculine people is bad feminism. Being a trans man or transmasc is not a moral failure.

Trans manhood and masculinity are wonderful, and you deserve happiness. And if you find that happiness in manhood/masculinity, you don't deserve to be shamed or harassed for it, and you should not be made to feel the need to put yourself down for it, either.

When I finally accepted the fact i’m trans, I was scared i couldn’t identify as a lesbian anymore. I was so happy to learn about lesboys and boydykes, it’s really helped me feel comfortable in my identity :)

another reason why lesboys rule <3

You guys do know that trans guys in relationships with people who try to convince them not to transition are in abusive relationships. And it’s not really a funny joke you can just casually make.

Maybe I’m just on Twitter too much but I keep seeing people say certain cis women look like they are trans men in abusive relationships.