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Gotta have someone that can be both.

Good girls are both.

Hi, how can I know that I'm in a toxic relationship?

Some signs you’re in a toxic relationship:

1. Lack of support (they don’t help you succeed)

2. Toxic communication (sarcasm, criticism, hostility)

3. Jealousy (a common emotion but handled by people very differently. Here we talk about toxic jealousy, and behaviors that express it)

4. Controlling behaviors (demanding your whereabouts, forbidding you to go places or see people, constantly limiting your personal choices)

5. Resentment (too much is toxic)

6. Patterns of disrespect (forgetting events and other behaviors that demonstrate they don’t respect your time)

7. Negative financial behaviors (Big financial decisions which effect your life together without consulting you)

8. Ignoring your needs (but tends to all his own just fine)

9. You’ve lost relationships (you stop spending time with friends and family to keep from exposing them to your toxic relationship)

10. Lack of self care (you drop hobbies and other things that used to personally bring you joy)

11. Eternal hope for change (when you fool yourself in to thinking if you change yourself and your actions, that it will create positive change in them)

12. Walking on eggshells (to avoid problems, arguments, and issues)

I hope this helps.

Fucking love this game. Need to replay it.

You’re not a bad sub if:

Edging isn’t for you.

Denial isn’t for you.

Pain isn’t for you.

Anal isn’t for you.

Oral isn’t for you.

You’re also not a bad sub if you need to safeword, if your limits are different today, if you have chronic conditions or mental health struggles that limit you more than you’d like.

There’s so many posts that talk about the “ways to be a good sub” and honestly there is no one way and it’s okay to do what’s right for you. You’re not a bad sub at all.

yeah I would cum inside you raw, as a friend

Yeah yeah he has no morals but he has long hair

as much as i love hornyposting i would also like to hold hands and kiss

reblog this for me to suddenly appear completely nude tied up on your bed with my pussy already covered in lube

you have to eat her pussy every time she wears a dress… i don’t make the rules

If you lose interest in someone, tell them. 

If you’re not looking for a relationship, tell the person you’re seeing.

If you’re thinking of ghosting someone, tell them.

If you can’t handle meeting up with someone after all, tell them.

If you’re terrible at responding to messages, tell people.

If you prefer talking in person to texting, tell people. 

If you’re seeing several people at the same time, tell them.

If you’re looking for sex rather than dating, tell the person you’re seeing.

It is not difficult to be a decent and honest, open, communicative human being. Respect those whom you interact with and have relationships with by telling the truth instead of leading them on or being deceitful.

There is no submission without real trust

Real submission doesn't exist without real trust. That's why you can't truly submit to someone you've just met. Relationships that start that way do their best to imitate a power dynamic that the relationship has never experienced, but impatient kinksters will never understand the true power within their relationship until that foundation of trust gets laid.

Unless specifically stated as an invitation, please behave.

Her Nudes Are Not Your Invitation...

Women who post nudes of themselves on Tumblr, do so for many reasons. Some do it to inspire more self love. Some do it to increase follower numbers, which enables them to have more interaction on their blogs. Still others do it for cold hard cash. Whatever a woman’s reason is for bearing it all in the hallowed halls of Tumblr, try to keep in mind that their purpose IS NOT to specifically seduce you, or invite you to act more personal towards them, than is appropriate between two people who have never met. While on Tumblr, and in the face of naked beauty, please remain in your seat, enjoy the view, make polite comments, and move on.

JD🌹

This sounds like a shitpost but people should be allowed to be horny. As in, sexuality is just part of life for most people and there’s no reason for consensual sexual behavior to be punished. A celebrity getting “caught” at a sex club shouldn’t be a scandal. No one should be fired for having a fetlife profile outside of work. Nudes getting leaked shouldn’t be career-ending. Denying and hiding (consensual) sexual interests doesn’t make anyone more professional, it just makes everyone more repressed. And sterilizing ourselves to be better work drones isn’t productive, it’s just creepy. I’d rather my surgeon get absolutely railed on camera and come to work in a good mood, frankly.

yeah we can sext but I also need educated conversations

reblog if you remember what it felt like to walk into blockbuster

Fuck, I need a little slut like this.

Thinking about kneeling at his feet underneath his desk on a dog bed warming his cock with my throat as I’m forced to edge myself on my dildo while he works or plays video games. I could be wearing one of his hoodies with a pretty dog collar on and every once in a while he pulls on my collar to choke me and make my throat tighter for his cock

Let's do all the nasty shit you post on Tumblr

Why am I here, stroking my dick, when I could have a cute submissive on their knees in front of me with my cock down their throat?