Dos And Don'ts Of Love Spells

Dos and don'ts of love spells

DO research. It applies to all spells and being a witch as a whole.

DON'T make a love spell to make someone fall in love with you. It isn't ethical. Just put yourself in that person's position. You like them, so why you think about affecting their free will?

DO ask a person if you can do a spell affecting them. There is something off in your relationship and you want to help it with magick? Ask your partner first.

DON'T start from doing love spells. Learn about protection first and always remember about it. Being safe should be your highest priority.

DO make a spell for finding a partner. If you're reading this, you're probably interested in having a relationship. You would find someone sooner or later, so you will just help this process. Just keep in mind the first "don't" - no specific person in mind, just a loving relationship with someone.

DON'T make a spell when you feel bad or tired. It can negatively impact it.

DO make a self-love spell. You want to be in a loving relationship with someone? Be in a loving relationship with yourself first.

+ Something that isn't a love spell as such, but can help you - you can use glamour magick to rise your attractiveness or self-confidence, for example by wearing something red with this intention. Read more about it if you're interested.

Color Correspondences

This is a common topic for beginners to research, and I would argue can be important when starting your practice. There are dozens of posts online about color correspondences, but I thought I'd share my own perspective on the topic. Just about every post I see on this topic is the same regurgitated information; all of which lacking in sharing the baneful aspects of color correspondences.

When researching something like color correspondences, I like to consider the psychological connections between colors and what they are associated with. By looking at color correspondences from this perspective, we can get a better idea of how we can utilize colors in our practices. That being said, here is a list of colors and what I associate them with. Anything before the semicolon are potential positive associations; anything after the semicolon are potential negative associations.

White: Purification, Peace, New Beginnings; Isolation

Grey: Neutrality, Balance, Compromise; Depression, Detachment, Indecision

Black: Protection, Banishment, Binding, Cursing, Power; Fear, Pessimism

Purple: Inspiration, Creativity, Individuality, Intuition, Spirituality; Arrogance, Delusion

Blue: Communication, Truth, Intellect, Wisdom, Calm; Deceit, Manipulation

Green: Abundance, Prosperity, Growth, Wealth, Fertility, Restoration; Envy, Greed

Brown: Grounding, Stability, Strength, Warmth; Materialistic, Stingy

Yellow: Optimism, Joy, Confidence; Anxiety, Impulsive, Cowardly

Orange: Adventurous, Friendship, Vitality; Indulgent, Cynical

Pink: Compassion, Nurturing, Hope, Innocence; Weakness, Naïve

Red: Passion, Assertiveness, Power, Determination, Courage, Energy; Aggression, Violence

Silver: Reflection, Illumination, Dignity; Lonely

Gold: Success, Charisma; Egocentric

Now, this doesn't share my full thoughts on each color. We all have our own personal opinions of every color, which can change what they mean to us. Therefore, it can change how we utilize color correspondences in our practices.

I mention baneful correspondences because I know there are people out there who do baneful workings, or may do baneful workings one day. I don't have a problem with such things, though I do have strict morals that help me determine when something is worth baneful magick. Most circumstances don't need such things, but sometimes they might.

I'd also like to mention my own little unpopular opinion here: white isn't an all-purpose color. You may have differing opinions, and that is okay, but I don't believe it to be an all purpose color. I do feel that multiple colors can serve a similar purpose, depending on how you view the colors.

Green, brown and gold can all be used for wealth, abundance and prosperity. Yellow and orange can be used for travel related spellwork and confidence. White and silver can be used for healing. See what I mean?

I still encourage you to do your own research and come to your own conclusions. This is only meant to offer some perspective.

Tarot & Oracle Spread Masterpost

This is a masterpost of tarot & oracle card spreads. None of them are mine; this is solely a compilation of various spreads found on tumblr. I’ve broken them down into sections to sort through them with ease. This is not a full list, but do enjoy the spreads listed below. Note: Witchcraft is NOT a replacement for medical care. Seek the services in your area if you need help.

Enjoy!

Daily Spreads:

Good Morning Spread

Harmonious Day Spread

Daily Brew

Morning Mug

One Day At A Time

Love/Luck/Truth:

Soulmate Spread

Relationship Insight

how to make friends

Luck Ducky

Illuminate the Truth

Bat Tarot Spread

two halves of the same heart

confusion in a relationship

Love Tarot Spread

Single and Looking

A Way Back into Love

Where is my love life going?

Self Love/Self Care/Spirituality:

The New You

What’s Up My Dude?

The Unicorn Spread

Mirrored Heart Spread

Breathe Deeply

Inner Empress Spread

Shine Like a Star

Self-Love Spread

Self-Exploration Spread

May Your Self-Confidence Rise Like the Moon

Self-Care Spread

A spread for healing from hurtful words

Forgiveness Spread

For Gaining Closure & Letting Go

Let Your Soul Shine

calm the f@%k down

hierarchy of needs

Pyramid of Present Introspection

Unlock yourself

Walking Away

Stop Being Bad To Yourself

For Empaths

I Can’t F@%king Sleep

Up All Night

Reprogram your Subconscious

Higher Self & Purpose Spread

Spiritual Growth

Spiritual Check-up

Spiritual Progress

connecting with the gods/goddesses

The Baking Sun

Enlightened Perspective

Temper Temper

Loneliness Spread

Self Love Spread

Personal Protection Spread

Self Image Spread

Wholeness Spread

Aphrodite’s Pearl

Hidden Self

Change/Fear:

The New Adventure Spread

Evolve Your Blog

The Tree of Life & The Sprout of Fear

Go With the Flow: A Guide for Change

Keys to Courage

Terrified

Classic Tarot Spreads/Based on Tarot:

Classic Tarot Spreads

Star Spread

100 Variations of the 3-Card Spread

Simple and classic spreads

The Empress

The Fool

The Tower

Eviction Notice

The World

Connect with your Tarot Deck:

Bond with Your Tarot Deck

Hello New Friend (Tarot Deck)

Get to Know Your Deck

Pop Culture: 

Harry Potter Hogwarts Houses

Rapunzel Spread

Happy Little Trees

The Princess and the Pea

The Princess Bride

Brainstorming/Productiveness/Success:

Achieve Your Dreams

Plan Your Goals

Job Search

Solution Spread

The Right Choice

for busy motherf@%kers

Busy Bee

Toxic Workplace Spread

Quick Coffee Break

growth and goals

Problem Solving Spread

Focus Spread

Holiday/Specific Time Period/Date:

August 2017 Solar Eclipse

New Year’s Spread

Imbolc Spread of Growth

Imbolc Spread for Goal Setting

Valentine’s Day Spread

Valentine’s Day Self-Love Spread

Be Your Own Damn Valentine

Galentine’s Day Spread

Ostara Tarot Spread

For Beltane

Lammas Spread

Back to School Bag

Holiday Survival Spread

Tarot Spread for Yule

Neptune Retrograde

Embracing Mercury Retrograde Part 1 & Part 2

How to Survive Mercury Retrograde

Beginning, Middle, & End of the Month

New Moon Reflection Spread

New Moon Spread

New Moon New Start Spread

Full Moon Spread

Near to Distant future Spread

Creativity:

Paint Palette Tarot Spread

Protagonist Spread

Sunny Creativity

Storytelling through Tarot

The Artist Spread

Find Your Muse

writing tip

Realize Special Talents

Quick Tarot Fixes/Tricks:

Fix My Wifi

Goals & Desires

Stalker Stand Still

Spiderweb Spread

for when you’re stuck between two choices

Easy Tarot Tricks

The Hermit

doing the right thing?

fix a f@%k up

Wheel of Fortune

goals and desires

41 Quick Spreads for any situation

For When You’re Lost/Going through a Hard Time:

Putting the Faith in the Universe

Well, Now What?

Finding Balance

A Light In the Dark

Radical Acceptance

Fork In the Road

When You’re Laying On Your Bed Wondering Where the F@%K You’re Going In Life

What are my next steps?

Self-Discovery

When the World is Cruel

This Too Will Pass

Bottled Up

“Strongest Person I Know”

Difficult Conversation Spread

What the Actual F@%K?!

Past-Lives:

Pyramid of a Past Life

Past Life Spread

A Glimpse into Past Lives

Miscellaneous:

RGB Spread

Conquering a Bad Habit

12 Olympians Spread

Spread for Hobbies

Zodiac

Planetary Tarot Spread

Seven Sisters

Setting Intentions

The Lessons

How to Handle a Situation Getting Out of Hand

Remove the Blinders

I Want to Know You

Chakra Spread

What You’re Attracting in Life

Mending the Communication Gap

Crystals: Card Reading Aids

Druidry is fun because there isn't any doctrine. You can be a druid in so many different ways and I find that fucking beautiful.