I Found Home In The Femme Identity. Found My Place In The World, Found My Authentic Self. Me, A Femme.

i found home in the femme identity. found my place in the world, found my authentic self. me, a femme. wow. ✨️

i think we could all use a reminder that butchfemme is a subculture within an already marginalized identity. it's completely okay if you have no interest in participating in butchfemme culture itself as long as you are respectful. butches historically faced persecution for being gender non-conforming. lesbians are victims of violence for failure to comply with patriarchy. to paint butchfemme culture as heteronormative (and butches and femmes as upholders of patriarchy) is ignorant and homophobic. our active resistance of a system that oppresses us is not heteronormative. calling a butch or a femme gender-conforming or claiming that they uphold patriarchal standards is homophobic. educate yourself on the history of violence our community has faced.

What I want for all lesbians is to be financially independent, have a supportive community, find a lover, and live wonderful, meaningful lives.

pretty bedbound today after a flare up, but made this cute lil thing i’m thinking of making merch of if anyone would be interested?

butch and masc are not interchangeable butch and masc are not interchangeable butch and masc are not interchangeable butch and masc are not interchangeable

i need a butch who will hold me and be patient with me when i cry