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enoughdonegone
7 years ago

Blamed for my bruises

Every time he left a mark he became distraught. I would have to invest so much energy into consoling him - telling him it would be alright, I'd wear a turtleneck. No one would know.

He told me that he made calculated decisions about how hard to throw, squeeze, or hit and I was just too fragile.

Marks just showed up on my skin far too easy.

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domestic violence domestic abuse traumatized victim blaming survivor i survived him PTSD cptsd normalized calculated abuse wrap your head around that wtf fucked up violent sorry my fault
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enoughdonegone
7 years ago
Im Reading Why Does He Do That And This Last Part Has Been ON FIRE, I Am Hollering In My House.
Im Reading Why Does He Do That And This Last Part Has Been ON FIRE, I Am Hollering In My House.
Im Reading Why Does He Do That And This Last Part Has Been ON FIRE, I Am Hollering In My House.

i’m reading why does he do that and this last part has been ON FIRE, i am hollering in my house.

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calculated abuse distorted reality gaslighting
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