Kimmy's Digital Diary: Things Are Better Than They Seem Because I'm In Control Of My Reality.

Kimmy's Digital Diary: things are better than they seem because i'm in control of my reality.

i think it's easy to start spiralling after one thing goes wrong in life.

"I didn't start this habit on this day, therefore I'm a failure"

"I haven't accomplished this yet so I'm never gonna get there"

"I don't know what to do"

And then the decision paralysis comes in and I freeze.

tick tock tick tock - time is ticking and I know I need to make a decision or do something but I'm so scared of my next move I don't do anything at all.

But then I remember - I'm in control of my reality. I choose what and how everything will play out. If I want to be that girl, I can become that girl by believing I am and showing up as her.

So I needed to get in the habit of tracking my habits because we all know that knowing what you want makes it that much easier to manifest

Becoming 'THAT' GIRL

Haircare Regimen

monthly hair dates – because a fresh braid set can fix anything✨

maintaining my braids using hot oil treatments and hair masks at home

finding hair products that vibe with my texture, not just the viral stuff.

Fitness Regimen

gym time at least 3x a week – gotta keep this ass I've worked hard for

move for at least 10 minutes daily, even if it's not a full-on workout.

Skincare Regimen

doing morning and nighttime routines everyday

finding products that work for my skin concerns (if you guys want i'll share my skincare routine i have combination/oily skin)

getting a facial once a month

Study Regimen

finding new courses to study every quarter.

setting aside 1hr every day to study something new

And a little reminder: Next time you're feeling down for not being where you want to be, just remember – as long as you're showing up and striving to be better than yesterday, you're doing just fine. 💖

Welcome 2024!!!

I've been falling behind everything for the last... ehm, since Mabon, and manifest it not to be repeated in this fresh and good new year. I have big plans, even bigger dreams and some scary deadlines, blessed they be. Also, I created a Notion template – this always motivates me, a new scratch – and new me. Shall this be my productive energy manifestation

Gumroad

Witch Planning Notion Template

Minimalistic Notion Planning template to support your productivity according to the Wheel of the Year and Days of the Week magick. Suitable

A Burst of Light, Audre Lorde

For your new year glowup…

Confidence Tips ⋆.ೃ࿔*:･

• Be optimistic, positive, and grateful. Gratitude and positivity are such good traits to have, having them, and expressing them will make you happier and more confident.

•Stop comparing yourself to others! Instead of being envious of another person’s success, learn from them and their success. Comparison is the thief of joy. Focus on your strengths, learn to compete with yourself rather than other others, celebrate others’ victories, and practice gratitude.

• Good posture. It is scientifically proven that having good posture will make a person feel more powerful, calm, and confident.

•Eye contact. I don’t think I need to explain this one too much. Eye contact is extremely powerful. Practicing eye contact in conversations will help you feel more confident, simple as that.

•Speak slowly and thoughtfully. This is actually something I am currently working on. Be mindful of what you are saying, and speak calmly. Don’t worry about needing to rush and spit out your words.

•Embrace and accept yourself. Many people think confidence is about changing everything about yourself until you finally like yourself. NO. Confidence is about loving and trusting yourself, realizing that you are enough.

Practice self love!!! Drink some water!!! Compliment yourself!!!

minamarlena