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October in’s -> good grades, manifesting, a fitness routine, learning more makeup techniques/styles, finance, taking good risks, softball, a good diet, organization, balance, timeliness, positive self talk, confidence, positive energy.

October outs -> negative self talk, unnecessary/toxic people, laziness, a poor diet, fast food, unorganized areas of my life, lateness, lack of confidence, and negative energy.

Hey girlies and ghosties! I made an Instagram, please go check it out! It’s based on my blog here so I’ll try to add some stuff from here to there 🎀

Linktree Is in pinned post

I’ve been dressing more scene and scene everyday!!

How to get the confidence to dress alternative in public: LONG POST {from a scene king!!}

I hear a lot of young teens online saying things along the lines of, “I would love to dress like that but I’m scared”. We’ve all been there, it takes bravery to step outside the box. Since 2020, there has been an uptick in alternative fashion, which makes things a little better, but it doesn’t mitigate the fear some people feel.

As someone who has been dressing alternative all throughout highschool and who I’d like to think has some 17 year old wisdom, this is how you can get the confidence to dress how you want. This can apply to other alternative fashion types like decora, punk, goth ect ect.

This post goes with a youtube video!! You can just watch it if you dont wanna read

Realize why you’re scared: Is it because you’re afraid of being different or picked on? Are you afraid of change? Do you think your friends/peers won’t care about you anymore? These are all valid reasons, and once you know why, you can start to tackle it. Change isn’t bad, everyone changes, change is natural. Look around at nature, seasons change, we grow and age, animals migrate and go through metamorphosis. You don’t have to be confined to one thing forever just because you weren’t born that way. As for the fear of being picked on, fuck those people. Do you know why people tease others? It’s because they’re insecure. Hurt people hurt people. When people see you being yourself and they wish they could do that, they take it out on you because in their heart, they’re jealous. You’re not the problem, they are. (If you’re afraid of being physically hurt, that is completely different and I would not advise putting your safety in jeopardy)

Start slow. While you’re still building your wardrobe, you can start slowly stepping out with small accessories and such. Add some kandi to your outfit or a tattoo choker. This is mainly to ease yourself into it. Big changes can be pretty scary and jarring, so easing into it can help you.

Have some role models. By this I mean, have people you look up to, people that are inspiration to you. Me? Some of mine here on tumblr are @xx-may4-malic3-xx , @xx-k1tsun3-k1d-xx , @xxdespairfactionashtonxx , @cigsnvalentines to name a few. Theres also some old scene queens, musicians, ect. Find whoever you want. I’m reccomending this, because when you see other people doing the same as you, it makes you go “if they can do it, so can I”. Most people probably wont even mind if you send them an ask about specific things (ik i dont, i love them).

Kinda the same point, but build a community. We have a pretty good community here on tumblr. Community is the backbone to everything. Ideally it would be someone irl, but not everyone is lucky enough to have cool irl friendz.

Fake it till you make it. Nobody has to know you’re scared but you. I’m not saying get super extroverted if you’re introverted and go around exuding confidence like a lazar beam. Dance in your mirror, hype yourself up. Take cool pictures and edit them, even if you don’t post them online. Learn to walk with your head up, again SLOWLY. As you start introducing more alternative elements into your wardrobe, wear them with pride.

Be the change you want to see. What I mean is if you want people to be kinder, you be kinder. Try to compliment someone every day. People actually aren’t as rude as you think, maybe I’m an optimist, but I think the average person isn’t terrible. Complimenting other people also makes you feel good, try it. Piggybacking off this point, don’t take things so personally. I know if can be easier to harp on the negative looks and comments you got versus the good ones, but you have to look past this. There are gonna be bad apples always, but their misdeeds can blind you from the people who think you’re pretty cool. Don’t let one bad apple ruin the bunch.

Lastly, realize being cringe is okay. Not just realize it, but internalize it. What even is cringe? Define cringe… Weird? Different? Everyone is different, everyone is weird about something. As I said earlier, some people are just too scared to be themselves. In 80 years when you’re old and looking back on your life, would you rather regret not being your authentic self, or think of all the fond memories of your life? Regret is one of the worse things in life, it’s terrible. There is nobody you can be but yourself. You’re you, so be you.

Remember that this is something that can take months or years. I feel like this past year and a half I have become fully confident in my fashion. I have been dressing alternative for 5 years for reference. I hope this could help someone.

If I wasnt clear on anything, feel free to send me an ask! Im more than happy to help!!

Avril Lavigne in 2003 ･ﾟﾟ･｡ᡣ𐭩

Will work on this soon 😭😭

30 DAYS MUSIC CHALLENGE: 2024 edition

Hi guys, hope you are well! So here we go, here’s the first challenge I propose to do on this blog!

For quite some years, I have save in my computer a similar challenge, and never started or do it (I check and the original creator has deactivate his blog). I change some of the prompts and I decide to bring it now, to boost this blog a little!

RULES:

• the challenge begins September 1st and concludes September 30th;

• tag your posts with #30daysmusicchallenge2024 in one of the first five tags so that I can find and reblog it more easily;

• all kinds of content is welcomed, gifs, edits… - the only limit is your imagination;

• although this blog is dedicated to rock and metal, this challenge will be open to any music genre.

SCHEDULE FOR THE MONTH:

Day 1: A song you like with a color in the title Day 2: A song you like with a number in the title Day 3: A favorite song with a person’s name in the title Day 4:A song you know all the lyrics to Day 5: A song that reminds you of a loved one Day 6:A song that reminds you of someone you would rather forget about Day 7: A song that needs to be played LOUD Day 8: A song that makes you want to dance Day 9: A song that makes you happy Day 10: A song that makes you sad Day 11: A song that you never get tired of Day 12: A song that you’ve listened to lots of time recently Day 13: A song that is a cover by another artist Day 14:A song with an amazing or your favorite music video Day 15: A song that hasn’t got a music video but you wish it had Day 16: A song that moves you forward Day 17: A song that you think everybody should listen to Day 18: A song by a band you wish were still together Day 19: A song by an artist no longer living Day 20: A song by an artist with a voice that you love Day 21: The 1st song you listen from a band Day 22: A song by a band (artist) you’ve seen live Day 23: A song by a band (artist) you want to see live Day 24: A song from a soundtrack Day 25: A non-english song Day 26: A song by a band (artist) of your country Day 27: A song that you would sing on karaoke Day 28: A song to drive to Day 29: A song that reminds you of yourself Day 30: Free Choice Day

I know, this is a massive challenge! I only remember completing a challenge like this once or twice, long time ago. That’s why I’m posting now so you guys can start thinking/choosing and preparing your choices! Have fun!

If you have any questions, please don’t hesitate to contact me!

September in’s ——❥ Self love, better boundaries, workout, reading, meditation, journaling, self-evaluations, a better diet, good risk taking, studying, good grades, good high school credit, confrontation, not being walked all over, learning makeup, taking care of my body and mind 💗

September outs ——❥ negative self talk, drama, laziness, suppressing my feelings, procrastination, bad grades, people pleasing, avoiding my feelings, neglecting my body and mind.

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Good morning girlies and ghosties ! I I’ve been on a hiatus for a while but will be posting soon again. I’ve been busy with my senior year such as applying to colleges and such.

Hope you all have a good day or night!

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SO CUTEEE

Cute gyaru wallpapers!

pretty girl handbook⋆.ೃ࿔*:･🧁

♡ double cleansing in the evening for gorgeous skin

♡ body glitter

♡ exfoliating ur skin on a weekly basis (2-3x) for baby soft skin

♡ incorporate pretty words into ur vocabulary

♡ sweet smelling body butters and oils and lotions

♡ sunscreen on ur face and body (neck, hands, chest etc)

♡ buy a cute journal and journal with scented glitter pens and stickers

♡ carry around ur favorite lipglosses because glossy, soft lips 24/7 is an absolute MUST

♡ jewelry makes you GLITTER. things like belly rings, waist chains, bracelets, earrings, nose rings, nail gems etc

prioritize sleep (sleep 8-12 hours a night)

drink at least 1L of water a day

eat a fruit or veggie with every meal to glow from the inside out

use coconut oil/castor oil on ur lashes and brows every night

facial massage everyday and practice mewing

move your body in a way that feels natural (for example, i go to a school where we have to walk a lot bcuz the campus is big so subconsciously i do LOTS of walking without even thinking of it)

if ur wearing ur hair up/in a protective style, use a hair mask

HOW TO GLOW ;

♡ prioritize hydration

♡ sleep 8-12 hours of sleep a night

a hot tip...from me to you, in the morning as soon as u wake up have a glass of lukewarm water and before bed drink a cup of spearmint/peppermint tea. also another good drink for skincare is chlorophyll. i drink a 16oz of chlorophyll a day or sometimes i'll just have a little chlorophyll shot and its good for ur skin…💬🎀

♡ apply lotion onto slightly damp skin, not completely dry skin. also if u have, use a body oil before the body lotion

♡ smile, duhh :)

♡ try slugging ur body + face before bed

♡ take ur vitamins/supplements. i recommend collagen for hair skin and nails and other vitamins like vitamin C and E. take ur wellness shots and dont eat garbage

SQUEAKY CLEAN ;

♡ double cleanse ur body when showering. the way i do it is i use a bar soap/dr bronners and then i use a liquid soap

♡ when ur washing and exfoliating ur feet do not and i repeat DO NOT. use the tool that looks like a cheese grater. idk what its called but it makes the skin on ur heels grow back 10x harder so just stick to the exfoliating rock thingy

♡ dont sleep on oil perfumes, personally i find them to be very rich and SO LONG LASTING?? they're absolutely amazing

♡ when applying fragrance onto ur body dont ever rub, bcuz then ur just blending in the scent notes

Why tf are people dressing as Joan of arc in skirts and slutty dresses like she did not die for people to sexualized her and make fun of her, she's a Saint not a feminist baddie. Joan of arc is a woman who fought for her country and wear men's clothes to represent how strong females can be too also for nuns they're a religious figure not a costume for you to make fun of.

Rokku gyaru is what I would wear but I would incorporate colors of pink or purple!! 🎀

d.i.a store for tsuyome gyaru!

This will be an amazing month for me

This will be an amazing month for me

This will be an amazing month for me

This will be an amazing month for me

This will be an amazing month for me

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I’ve been applying to colleges and I can decide between these two majors 😭

🌺Fashion design/styling

Or

🌺Political Science

Yes pretty! This would be so nice to have 🎀

Hii beauties, I had this question in my mind for a long time, but would you guys want me to start a podcast where I talk about anything?

NEED ASAP 💳💥💳💥

♡ Web Heart Bat Winged Bag from Claire's ♡

Senior Year Goals! 📓

Hi pretties welcome back to another post! This is one about academics specifically my senior year. I have started school already and have these few goals in mind.

Cut off toxic people

I will do this by placing down boundaries for myself along with enacting them and putting these certain people in their places!

Learn to have better self-respect and reevaluate my values.

Have Amazing Grades

Stay on top of my assignments and homework!

Write assignments/homework in my digital planner and reminders

Balance out clubs and classes

Use my free periods for study sessions

Turn in things on time

Style my Uniform to be Cuter

Wear jewelry that I love: juicy couture, pandora, silver or gold, PINK PINK PINK,etc!

Wear studded belts

Customize my skirts: wear black or navy ones (which are the school colors), leg warmers, charms/keychains.

Have Cute Stationary

Pink pens, markers, book bag/purse/pencil pouch.

Decorate my locker with: Polaroids, stickers, magnets, etc!!

Take good Risks

Step out of my comfort zone: be a leader, present projects/assignments on my own, read aloud, participate in debates, etc!

Choose new things: a new lunch item, class or club

That’s all for today, I hope you liked this post and lmk if you’d like more of these! Drink water, go for your hot walks and journal!

With love,

Ur ghostgirl 💋

An icon ♡♡

Her insta : brinathedoll

Welcome to my Masterlist! 🗞️

Welcome to my Masterlist! Here are my main posts along with other things as well!

My 💗linktree💗

𐙚Reblogs꒱

🌸reblog 1

🌸reblog 2

🌸reblog 3

🌸reblog 4

𐙚cute finds/buys꒱

🎀cute pink clothes

🎀cute things I bought this week! 9/2/24

𐙚Start of the month꒱

💋October in’s & outs

💋September in’s & outs

𐙚Selfcare꒱

🎀September in’s & outs

𐙚Academics꒱

📓Senior Year Goals!

𐙚Romance꒱

🎀My Romantic Standards

Cute things I bought this week ! 9/2/24 ᯓ ᡣ𐭩

Hi pretties, welcome back to another post, this one will be things i bought this week just like the one from last week! This will have some images of them! Enjoy 💗

Hello kitty milk chocolate bag from 5 below 💗

Liquid star charm from 5 below

A fuzzy headband and wristbands for when I wash my face ! 🧴

Linkin park cd (which was the only one at the shop)

Starbucks pumpkin spice latte with whip cream

Some iridescent and a Marilyn Monroe stickers

That’s all for today pretties ! I hoped you enjoyed this list, I’ll try to post more like these and a lot more!

With love,

Ur ghostgirl 💋

If I could buy these I would for prom

junko shimada 𝜗𝜚 spring 2009