Those Times When You're Not Even Horny Per Say But... That Person Just Makes You Feel Safe And In Love

Those times when you're not even horny per say but... that person just makes you feel safe and in love and happy. So you're attracted to them anyway.

Feeling that sensation in your vagina with the same comfort and warmth that comes from the touch of their hands to your hair and the weight of their shoulders resting on yours, chests pressed together like cuddling but better.

Sex because you love the closeness of touching another person. Penetration because you love it when someone you love cums. A feeling of tiredness and comfort, low sex drive but a love for sex.

I guess sex is just a part of who I am. And nothing can take away my desire for it, even the fact that I'm on my period and masturbated three times a day for the last week.

it's ok to be horny! it's good to be perverted! your sexuality isn't shameful and the things that turn you on are good and should be celebrated!!! even if its weird!!!! especially if it's weird and fucked up!!!!!!!!!!!!! FUCK!

If I ever say something like

"My sex drive has been low recently"

Or

"I'm not horny rn"

Do not believe me. I just like to play pretend sometimes😇

shoutout to all the bitches who constantly leave lil wet spots on their underwear bc they’re so needy n desperate all the time! i see u! i love u! im one of u! <3

When I talk about sex positivity, the basis of pretty much all of it is the idea that we all control our own bodies, and we should all be respected, and we have the choice of if or how much we'd like to engage in sexual activities with our bodies.

It's about consent.

And it is impossible to give affirmative consent if there is no option to say no forever. If you can't say no, then what does yes even mean?

Sex positivity is entirely dependent on accepting the rights of people uninterested in sex because we have no good sex without consent.

When I first heard the word asexual over a decade ago, as a teenager dealing with the twin manifestations of compulsory sexuality that are purity culture and hookup culture, it was a weight off of my back. It was a light in the darkness that said you do not ever have to compromise on this boundary. Not now, not later, not ever. You can live a life where your body only belongs to you and no one else can tell you what to do with it.

This is the most important thing we can fight for, in my opinion. A world where everyone can do whatever they want with their own bodies forever— including never have sex.

There is no sexual freedom without indefinite refusal. Those who choose indefinite refusal are not your enemy. You only stand to gain from recognizing and fighting for us.