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nothing wrong with preferring healthy relationships but it really is astounding to me how often i'll go into the tags for The Unhealthy Relationships Show and see people posting "but what if the relationships were healthy though"

idk if you’ve been asked this before but what are your thoughts on reid lashing out at jj about the whole emily thing in season 7?

my thoughts are that it's too complicated to say i'm on either one's side </3

JJ fucking pissed me off with the later Jeid storyline but I liked her at the beginning of the show -> onwards until p much right there, so I tried not to let that letdown influence my retrospective on the s7 situation.

JJ was following highly classified, highly important government orders. Her boss told her to keep her mouth shut for safety reasons, and as someone who's seen countless friends and family members suffer because intel got loose, I can understand why she'd adhere so firmly to the guidelines. She was a good agent.

However, Reid requires stability and consistency in his environment, as he is at a high risk for slipping back into his addiction + developing symptoms of his mother's illness (which, if i remember correctly, were teased but never actually confirmed in him. My point is, he's an at-risk individual who was thrown into grief). I can completely understand how finding out that the shoulder you cried on for months and months and months was actually lying to you about the source of your grief would make someone angry. I actually think he deserved to be angry, he had the right to be angry, but then things become muddled when you ask me if i think he had the right to be angry at JJ.

Personally, I think I'd initially feel very betrayed if I were Spencer, even if i worked it out later. But again, JJ was following orders to keep Emily alive, and if she had confessed and compromised the undercover operation, Emily would have been killed.

I think, in the actual scene, JJ had absolutely no right to tell him that if he was a better profiler, he'd have been able to figure things out. I thought it was a really low blow for her, especially knowing that he'd been so devastated over his friend's 'death'. I understand that his anger caught her off guard, and she felt unjustly blamed, and I might have been upset or torn too in her position. But the way that she handled it was highly unprofessional and something a petty teenager would say and then reluctantly apologize for once they discover their actions have consequences.

I think that Reid basically pouting during work hours and letting his personal feelings affect his work (y'know, saving lives) was also highly unprofessional. However, the issue was that the entire situation revolved around his work in the first place, and Emily just like slipped right back in?? so he had zero time to process anything and I don't know if I'd be able to separate my feelings from my job either.

I don't blame Spencer for not feeling like he could trust JJ/his team after that, at least not as deeply as he used to. I don't blame JJ for feeling hurt that Spencer took his anger out on her rather than the general situation/even Hotch who gave JJ the orders, and told Spencer he was responsible for it.

it bothers me when Spencer stans will demonize JJ for it while refusing to acknowledge Spencer's missteps, and it pisses me off when JJ likers use it to call Reid a petty toddler without considering his feelings on the matter. All in all, it was a complicated, messy situation with no completely right or wrong side, in my opinion.

I think Wade's aware of what kind of impression he's giving to the kids, so he'd make sure they don't take after him when fighting

when funkyfrogbait said “how many einsteins have spent their lives washing dishes, how many mozarts bent over stoves instead of pianos because they had the misfortune of being born a woman.”

i might mostly post smut on this account, but i write SO much more than just fanfic, and every word i write is for every woman that came before me that couldn’t write what they wanted. it’s for my mother, my grandmother and my great-grandmother as well as the women that came before.

The Crows: “oh you know Jesper, he’s just soooo dramatic all the time!”

Jesper, who had not been trying to be dramatic and had been trying to be taken seriously: “Yep. Haha. That’s…. That’s me!”

hate it when I'm doing things I really want to do and I encounter the tiniest speedbump in the process and my brain goes "I shan't!" and fucks off for a month at a time to avoid those speedbumps.

His cheeks are just so squishable

Pats all of them 🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰

"Nice characters are boring" to YOU. I love characters who no matter what, will always have genuine love for humanity in their heart. Characters who dance and laugh and sing with sincerity. Characters who believe in others, and are willing to extend a helping hand to people when no one gave them the same luxury. Characters who have gone through so much but believe, no matter what, that humanity and life is something beautiful and worth protecting

When I first heard Holy Ground as a kid I was like “Omgthat’s a bop!” And then a year later I really thought about the lyrics more and had an intense phase of being obsessed with it because I loved how many emotions were in it. The nostalgia, melancholy, and hopefulness of it all. I actually became really personally invested in Taylor singing it on piano (back when she didn’t do that with a lot of songs!) and when it actually happened in 2019 I lost it lol

yes!! i loooove those songs that have a little complexity about grief or the past: red is so good about this, but holy ground, happiness, and i almost do stand out to me because of that. i almost do is a whole song about that tension when you ALMOST pick up the phone, and the intimate regret of choosing not to, but wanting the person to know how hard it was not to, because that means something too. happiness... no words needed. holy ground is about thinking of that innocent relationship in its early days: when you didn't know how and it could get, you didn't have fear of gaining scars, and how that relationship (even when it no longer exists) is preserved in that innocence. like, no, we didn't last, but it was good, being young and foolish, huh?

Saw a post about how wild it is that Inej's probably gonna be a saint while Kaz will be a story to scare children, but you know what will be REALLY wild? The legends that get told when people find out they knew each other.

It will probably be half "Kaz kidnapped/ tortured/ corrupted/ killed Inej" and half "Inej redeemed Kaz because by meeting her he realised how much of a sinner he was and that he wanted to be a better man". Hell, I can even imagine people worshipping Kaz, too, because he got to meet Sankta Inej, the blessed, the wraith, patron of thieves and hookers, holy empress of the True Sea, nightmare of slave traders and pirate queen with a heart untouched by sin.

And they'll probably be depicted together very often, kinda the GrishaVerse version of Yin and Yang.

one time i was having sex and i was going “i’m yours i’m yours i’m yours” and then my partner stopped all of a sudden and said “can we talk about new kinks before we introduce them during sex” and i was like yeah what but it turned out she thought i was saying im a horse im a horse im a horse

while it's all well and good to teach people how to understand and criticize the messages and morals in fictional media, i think it's ultimately more important to teach people that they shouldn't be getting their understanding of ethics from fiction full stop period.

you’re going to love again, find a job again, create art again, do what you love again, feel powerful again. you’re going to be back on track. i don’t know when, but you are going to feel like yourself again, eventually. this isn’t the end. hang in there.

if u feel the first cramp and think "i dont need a painkiller yet, itll pass" ? that the devil speaking, take that painkiller immediately

Actually my favorite replacement for both 'kill myself' jokes and jokes about reacting violently to things/people that upset me is "I'm going to end up on the news" like it's versatile, it's vague, it's not going to get me in trouble with any censors or websites that take joke threats seriously, it's family friendly while still getting the point across, what's not to love???

w/every reinvention of the self you will realize the version of you that you thought would be fun and cool at age 5 was perfect and every attempt to deviate from it leads to the dissatisfaction that results in another reinvention.

we all joke about and objectify this man, but do we stop to think how sad his story is? he grew up friendless and ruthlessly bullied for being a literal genius. constantly picked on by his coworkers, and he’s never in on the joke. he’s always being laughed at, never laughed with because no one understands his existentialist humor. he never has plans or places to go on the weekend after work. he goes to work then goes to his lonely home with all his books to keep him company. on occasion, he haunts the chess table at the park or meets with an old professor. no one takes the time to appreciate his weird little quirks. no one took the time to ask him if he was okay after the several traumatic incidents he endured. no one takes care of him because everyone’s too busy leaving. he could be a male model, yet he’s never thought of himself as attractive. when he does find love, he’s brutally stripped of it before he can blink. spencer reid, the lonely genius who learned of love too late and loss too soon.

Can't stop thinking about Wylan and Colm.

Thinking about how Colm sees this terrified but vengeful child willing to take beating after beatings just to prove a point to others. Beatings that were ordered by Van Eck, his father.

Thinking about how if he was in on the plan, he couldn't do anything to help and had to wait. Or if he wasn't in on it had to watch this child be kidnapped from his grasp. Maybe it felt like loosing Aditi all over again.

Thinking about how after the auction, after Matthias's funeral where time seems to stop, how these children seemed so small inside this mansion. How a child was suppose to take over a whole business instead of—well being a child.

Thinking how Wylan learns he can talk to Colm without any fears of being ridiculed, how he can mess up, or even come to him for advice.

Maybe he asks Colm for help on tying a tie, or while visting to Noyi Zem, he asks him Jespers favorite meal, and if he could help preapre it for him.

Or even how Jesper is busy one day in the farm, and Wylan comes to Colm asking if he could review this document for him without a second thought.

Thinking about how Wylan finally has a father figure that doesn't care he can't read. Just that he's making Jesper laugh and smile for the first time in years again, and thats all Colm ever wanted.

Friend: Wait so you like criminal minds, right?

Me: Yeah-?

Friend: That show about like crazy killers right?

The show:

Me: ...

Me: Yeah. Crazy, scary killers.

ssa aaron hotchner you will always be famous

This took about five hours, reblog if you are so inclined!! I do not know if there is a big fandom here but hi it's me again