myfandomrealitea - My Fandom Reality
My Fandom Reality

Welcome to my fandom reality. A discussion, debate and discourse blog based on fandom spaces and experiences.

643 posts

Begging Pleading Needing People To Let Billy Hargrove Exist Without Max Mayfield. Write It On My Grave

Begging pleading needing people to let Billy Hargrove exist without Max Mayfield. Write it on my grave header. Tattoo it on my forehead.

Not everything in context of Billy has to be about, revolve around or relate to Max.

He's his own person. Neil Hargrove forcibly made Billy's life revolve around and to a degree be controlled by Max. I'm literally begging you to stop carrying that trend into fandom and how you interact with fandom content. There's nothing wrong with creating a better, healthier relationship between them but I'm dog-sick of seeing people acting like Billy's entire existence relies on Max. Like there's no feasible value in Billy surviving and thriving unless he's still shackled to Max and to the idea of being her responsible, doting brother.

He was an abused teen shoved into a replacement family that was weaponised against him. Whatever responsibilities you think Billy has to Max I can assure you don't exist.

  • oresmoons
    oresmoons liked this · 1 year ago
  • liriko
    liriko reblogged this · 1 year ago
  • liriko
    liriko liked this · 1 year ago
  • cutelittledarkshadows
    cutelittledarkshadows liked this · 2 years ago
  • exotic-lantern
    exotic-lantern liked this · 2 years ago
  • igraine-aux-blanches-tresses
    igraine-aux-blanches-tresses liked this · 2 years ago
  • boldlyshadowytrash
    boldlyshadowytrash liked this · 2 years ago
  • license2thrilll
    license2thrilll liked this · 2 years ago
  • distillandofiori
    distillandofiori liked this · 2 years ago
  • walking-on-gallows-ground
    walking-on-gallows-ground liked this · 2 years ago
  • decadentworld
    decadentworld reblogged this · 2 years ago
  • trans-siberian-marching-band
    trans-siberian-marching-band liked this · 2 years ago
  • kiraixi
    kiraixi liked this · 2 years ago
  • faraum
    faraum reblogged this · 2 years ago
  • faraum
    faraum liked this · 2 years ago
  • imsodishy
    imsodishy liked this · 2 years ago
  • every-dayiwakeup
    every-dayiwakeup liked this · 2 years ago
  • jacksonseymour13
    jacksonseymour13 liked this · 2 years ago
  • spacecasehobbit
    spacecasehobbit liked this · 2 years ago
  • scary-tiny-butterfly
    scary-tiny-butterfly liked this · 2 years ago
  • sunsetpixels
    sunsetpixels liked this · 2 years ago
  • kittyphoenix12-xx
    kittyphoenix12-xx liked this · 2 years ago
  • booknerd42
    booknerd42 liked this · 2 years ago
  • eloquenteel
    eloquenteel reblogged this · 2 years ago
  • propheticalleg
    propheticalleg liked this · 2 years ago
  • forget-me-ghost
    forget-me-ghost liked this · 2 years ago
  • 80svhstapes
    80svhstapes reblogged this · 2 years ago
  • 80svhstapes
    80svhstapes liked this · 2 years ago
  • im-psycho-btw
    im-psycho-btw liked this · 2 years ago
  • orphisthedragon
    orphisthedragon liked this · 2 years ago
  • kaffeeaddictandproud
    kaffeeaddictandproud liked this · 2 years ago

More Posts from Myfandomrealitea

2 years ago

Pure irony that Tumblr is the only place where bots will get zapped for trying too hard to look like actual people.

Profile pic is of a non-celebrity person? Its a bot. Name sounds like an actual person? Its a bot. Bold proclamations of not being a bot? Its (likely) a bot.


Tags :
2 years ago

This is not the helpful act you think it is, and a cute little 'don't harass them!' note does nothing. If you find a blog you, personally, are uncomfortable with, block them and move on. If they're not posting rampant violations of the TOS then they are of no consequence to you, or anyone who follows you. The people who follow you are perfectly capable of doing their own research and drawing their own conclusions of how to curate their online space.

found a pro/ship stimblog while looking for some gifs, the blog is @/kodogender

Do Not Harass Them, Just Report/Block


Tags :
2 years ago

the hell? i’d say that’s relevant info lmfao 🤣

OP did not mention, at all, anywhere in their post or posts prior that their actual reason for calling out the user was because they're a known, real-life pedophile and a current danger with an accessible, public platform. They only mentioned it after I told them callout posts based on the proship-vs-antiship argument result in an influx of harassment.

"Block this user because they're proship" =/= "block this user because they're a known, real-life pedophile and an active danger."

OP made a callout post based on one thing, then in response to me telling them its a well-intentioned but bad idea, changed their entire basis of the callout.

I have no issue with bringing active pedophiles to public attention. My sole issue and the current nature of the discussion is the fact that OP said one thing, got offended I opposed it, then said something completely, vastly different to defend their original action.

Does that clarify the issue?


Tags :
2 years ago

lmao girl what is ur problem

You're the one that came into my inbox trying to smokescreen an issue. I'm not sure what you're offended about. I pointed out callout posts like that were pointless, you came back with an 'actually, XYZ!' message that had information omitted from the original post and vastly different to what you (assumed as OP) were calling the user out for.

The post was not calling out someone for being a pedophile. Plain and simple. You are welcome to DM me if you'd like to continue this back and forth.


Tags :
2 years ago

hi while idc abt all this antiship bs i do know that kodogender is knowingly dating an abuser and an actual rreal life pedophile who hurt multiple ppl v close to me. jsyk

But that wasn't the point of the call-out post, nor the information given. The post wasn't calling the user out for being a known pedophile or causing harm to people. In fact, there was actually no mention of that in the post or the tags. It was just another "ew icky proship" callout post which have been proven, time and time again, to be subject to extreme bias and encourage harassment.


Tags :