It's So Awkward When My Mono Friends Ask Me What To Do When They're Crushing On 2 People And My Polyam

it's so awkward when my mono friends ask me what to do when they're crushing on 2 people and my polyam ass is like: date both? 👁👄👁

as an allo i feel genuinely confused about society's obsession with romance and sex.

hey my dear humans! if you're dysphoric because people keep misgendering you, i have a tip for you!

if you have a notebook with you, write sentences in which you're using your pronouns. if you don't have a notebook with you, just think about sentences in which you're using your pronouns.

this can be really helpful and this helps me a lot when i'm dysphoric about getting misgendered.

have a great day!

just to make things clear: kissing, hugging, holding hands, and way more stuff are only romantic if they are romantic for you. no space for discussion here, that's it

lesbians who say "fuck terfs <3" and then immediately say "trans mascs, men and trans women who are also men can't be butches/lesbians/dykes" and "i'm a lesbian, men dni" and also viciously try to remove trans women who are also men, transmascs & men from lesbian, sapphic and dyke spaces...

hey guess what: you're terfs. try again.

this is your daily reminder that aspec people who are also cishet are queer because they're aspec. like do y'all have a brain?

saw that one “are cishet aro men queer” poll that’s going around and like. I’m not gonna reblog it bc the results are frankly disappointing and the discourse going on in the tags is really dumb but, unfriendly reminder, if you’re aro/acephobic you’re a loser lmao…. bye. anyway hi aro men you are very valid and I think you’re super awesome and cool ‼️