Hey My Dear Humans! This Lovely Human Texted Me Asking Me To Help Them. So If You Can Donate, I'd Be

hey my dear humans! this lovely human texted me asking me to help them. so if you can donate, i'd be really thankful!

!! URGENT !! PLEASE SUPPORT ME THROUGH DONATIONS AND SHARE

I am Hakim, battling a brain tumor and now in need of immediate surgery for a chance at recovery. The financial burden of this procedure and post-operative care is overwhelming. With the support of family and friends, isn't enough,

TOTAL $16750

AMASSED $16500

BALANCE $250

I humbly ask for your help. Any contribution, no matter how small, will bring me closer to the surgery and a healthier future. Donations can be made through the link below. I deeply appreciate your support.

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I think in honor of pride month and also in general forever we should stop trying fit queer people into the identities we think they should call themselves.

And I know no one is going to see this because no one ever does but I'm going to talk about it anyway because this is important.

Bisexual doesn't mean you don't date trans people, it doesn't mean you like men and women, it doesn't mean you can't have a preference. Someone can identify as polysexual or bisexual or omnisexual and have no preference and you don't get to say that that means they're pansexual. Because no, if they don't identify as pansexual then they're not pansexual.

Transmasc doesn't mean you use he/him pronouns. It doesn't mean you identify as a man. Transfem doesn't mean you use she/her pronouns. It doesn't mean you identify as a woman. You can be nonbinary or genderqueer or agender or any gender that isn't binary and not use they/them pronouns. You can use any of those labels and still identify as a man or a woman. You can use different pronouns than is typically used for your birth sex and not consider yourself transgender. People can be gender non conforming and not he trans. People can be trans and not gender non conforming.

A trans man can be fem. A trans woman can be masc. Nonbinary people don't owe you androgyny. Intersex people don't owe you androgyny. Intersex people are people, they deserve way more attention than a way to one up transphobes. Intersex people face discrimination and body altering surgeries without their consent and then are only ever talked about to say "some cis women have penises" or "some people have an extra x chromosome" and then we never talk about the struggle they face as part of the queer community.

Asexuality and aromanticism is a spectrum. Some aces like sex, some aces are repulsed, some aces only experience sexual attraction to one person or once in their life, some aces need a deep emotional bond, some aces their attraction changes. Some aros change identities. Some aros are repulsed by romance unless it's a fictional character. Some aros have romantic feelings until they get to know someone. Some aros crave a romantic relationship but never have romantic feelings. You don't get to say someone isn't asexual or aromantic enough.

Asexuality and aromanticism is having a unique relationship with romance or sexual feelings and impulses. Someone who is transgender has a unique experience with gender. You don't get to decide that they don't have a unique experience. But guess what? You don't get to decide if they do either. Someone can have a unique experience and still not identify as asexual aromantic or transgender. You can cross dress and still fully feel like a man. You can use he/him pronouns as a cis women. You can have trauma around sex and not identify as asexual. You can never have a romantic relationship and not identify as aromantic.

You can have "contradicting" labels. I don't know as many of these because I don't personally identify as any but please fell welcome to add in reblogs. There are trans men lesbians and gay women. There are sex loving asexuals. I know there are others I just genuinely am not educated enough.

YOU DONT GET TO CHOOSE SOMEONES LABELS

ANYONE CAN EITHER IDENTIFY OR NOT IDENTIFY AS QUEER

Please feel welcome to add anything in reblogs. I'm sure there's things I've missed. I haven't talked about neopronouns I haven't talked enough about "contradicting" labels. I haven't talked about queer platonic relationships or kink or polyamory or enough about intersex people or pronouns vs gender. There's so much important things but at the end of the day it's just so important to not choose other people's labels.

I know there are more alt flags but I'm tired.

Happy pride y'all are awesome

btw the objective in pointing out that bro, sis, man, girl, dude, ma'am, sir, etc. are gendered terms and can and do make a lot of people dysphoric isn't to kill your fun, it's to point out that we collectively need to stop tacking on unnecessarily gendered language in day to day speech, especially ones that directly attack or undermine the identity of the person you're talking to, but also in general.

more than 37k palestinians have been k1ll3d since oct 7.

every hour, 48 congolese women are r@p3d, more than 6 million people have been deplaced and 11,8k k1ll3d.

every 2 hours, 1 kid d1ez in a refugee camp in sudan and more than 7 million people have been diplaced.

china is holding uyghur people in concentration camps where they are tortured and is trying to erase uyghur culture.

ukraine is still getting bombed and many people are still dying due to the russian bombs.

other genocides are also happening in myanmar, yemen, ethiopia, syria, armenia and west papua.

FREE PALESTINE!

FREE CONGO!

FREE SUDAN!

FREE UYGHUR!

FREE UKRAINE!

FREE ROHINGYAS!

FREE YEMEN!

FREE TIGRAY!

FREE SYRIA!

FREE ARMENIA!

FREE WEST PAPUA!

this is really important

Some of y’all forget that bottom surgery and intersex people exist.

Amab ≠ penis

Afab ≠ vagina

There are people who are afab who have penises and people who are amab who have vaginas.

So please for the love of god stop saying afab when you mean ‘someone who has a vagina’ and amab when you mean ‘someone who has a penis’