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this speaking as a cis person. Nothing brings me more joy seeing people find gender euphoria in becoming a mediocre representation of humanity. And I mean that so genuinely. Local boy finds joy and fulfillment wearing a cargo shorts and t-shirt combo. Local girl has transitioned to look like someone's disheveled aunt, has never been happier. Local person experiences gender euphoria rocking the world's worst bowl-cut. Without a scap of irony, this shit makes me see the wonder and whimsy in just, being a human. An average, person going through their day-to-day, is a wondrous thing? That's amazing. And heteronormativity has stripped these experiences of their joy. Like you're right, wearing a basic girlypop skirt should make my heart sing. Why not? Why are these expressions lesser because they're normal? All this to say. Shoutout to all the basic bitches out there. Yes that polo shirt does make you look like a divorced golfer dad. Yes, that too is kind of a slay, now that I think of it.

Yes I am an actor yes this is self critique

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I feel like it is so so vital, not to only feel pride in being trans, but pride in being a trans man/transmasc specifically. I've known so many trans guys who are apologetic about themselves, ashamed of themselves, and the people who grind us down want nothing more than exactly that. Personally, I'm done with being so casually robbed of my dignity by randos who see me as subhuman. I am proud of myself. You cannot shake me.

said this before and i will say it again but i think its a bit silly people expect transgender children to explain exactly what gender means to them using language and concepts that grown-up cis people are never expected to learn in their lifetime

in spirit i am a 7th grade boy

The trope I appreciate very much

transition goal <3

Yk what

Fuck it

Whenever someone asks me "you're trans?' I'm responding with "you're not?"

so i recently got top surgery and this was on my discharge papers after a mild complication

kintsukuroi, "to repair with gold"; understanding the piece is more beautiful for having been broken

a personal piece i used my body as reference 😵‍💫

hey actually? i love being a man. i love my body hair and my deep voice and i hate the patriarchy but i will always take the chance to help my girl friends if I ever can. I love making silly boy poses and i love my facial hair and fantasizing about geting muscles and being a strong male role model.

i love being a good boy. i love being a good boyfriend. it can be hard sometimes to be a trans man, but it is so so so worth it to take the steps that improve your life tenfold. i love you, random transmasc. your life has value

Not adding anything meaningful, just sharing:

As someone who really struggled to accept myself as trans because of this mindset of “TRANS MEN CANT BE LESBAINS!” This is amazing.

My limited understanding of the labels, “lesbian” and “trans man”, in 2017 led me to believe I couldn’t be both, and I was more comfortable as a lesbian, so I waited 7 more years to explore my gender.

I started that exploration within the past year, and I have struggled so, so, much to accept that I cannot be a lesbian anymore. That label has meant so much to me for so long.

Now, we have literal children arguing over other people’s labels, convincing people, like me, that I must choose between living the life I was meant for, and the sapphic love I always thought I’d grow old with.

I realized I liked women at the ripe age of eight. I’m one of those “i’ve always known” kinda gays. However, I’ve also always known I didn’t ‘fit’ in my body, and yet the people who felt they should have a say on my gender and sexuality convinced me to stay comfortable in my womanhood.

The funny part is, after coming out fully as trans, I realized I didn’t think I was attracted to men because I was envious of them and didn’t want to automatically be the more feminine one in a mlm relationship. After all this, I think I’m bi.

So to anyone reading this, who may still feel a bit at odds with themselves and their identity because of shit like this, ignore them. As long as it’s legal, explore, experiment, try labels on, tell people, make mistakes, buy a pride flag, whatever helps you feel secure in what makes you comfortable; because at the end of the day your labels are nobodies business but your own.

When will Gen Z stop feeling threatened by ftms for identifying with the lesbian community, calling themselves lesbians, calling themselves male lesbians, ftm lesbians, lesboys, etc. Go to a lesbian bar please.

Gender and sexuality is weird. Telling ftm lesbians to "identify as nonbinary" is weird. Some people just aren't nonbinary, they're ftm and lesbians. Who are you to tell someone how they experience their gender and sexuality?

Lots of people make the argument that "identifying as contradictory labels invalidates everyone." Other people's identities are not invalidating your own. Your validation doesn't depend on how other people who don't know you exist. There is no wrong way to identify or express your gender.

transfem version → 🏛

Being a trans dude is like being Schrodinger’s man. I’m a guy when it can be used against me and a woman when it can be used against me, but I’m never “trans” to these transandrophobic fucks

so glad i'm a trans man cuz if i wasn't id have a noticeable boner 24/7

fuck the aesthetic fuck the color palette this belongs on my blog

Haha I take a bite

Just spit it out already

I miss the safety of my old marching band so bad, those were the times

shout out to marching band kids because they'll ask you for your pronouns, correct, non-deadname, and consent to touch your hands, which is 10/10 behavior love these guys

“Becoming a man is not a betrayal of womanhood and feminism”

I wish I could tell my younger self this. She catapulted back into the closet because she thought the women in her life would be disappointed in her manhood.

“Being a trans man or transmasculine is not giving up”

When I was younger I feared I felt trans because I was a hairy, masculine, short haired, loud, asymmetrical woman, and it was just easier to be a man. At the end of the day, I now understand that those feelings stem from hatred. Hairy women aren’t ugly, loud women aren’t ugly, short haired and asymmetrical women aren’t ugly, and I knew this, so why was I an ugly woman? Just one little push in the direction of “have you considered you aren’t a woman”.

Nothing like a little prepubescent “i hate being a woman!” to shove the feelings deeper.

“Stop defining transmasculinity by everyone else’s metrics”

Just yes. I don’t even have much to add besides a big MASCULINITY as well. If there’s any cis men reading, stop defining your masculinity by everyone else’s metrics. To any guy, masculinity is what you make it. Masculinity is whatever you want it to be, whatever you feel comfortable with.

Hey, cis women who say "I wish I was a man but definitely not a trans way, haha! I would never be a man :)"

I say this with all the gentleness in my heart: It is okay for you to be a man. If you want to be a man, you can just be one. You also don't have to stop being a woman to be a man. Multigender people exist. You can be a man and a woman at the same time. Or you can be just a man, or a non-binary man, or non-binary, or something entirely different. You can do and be whatever you want and whatever makes you happy.

Becoming a man is not a betrayal of womanhood and feminism. And everyone who makes you feel like it is an absolute asshole, and you should not ever listen to them. You do not have to push your own happiness aside for other peoples' comfort.

If you want to be a man, try it out! See where it gets you. Maybe it turns out that you really weren't trans, or not a trans man but something else entirely, and that's fine, too. Maybe it turns out you are a trans man. In any case, following those thoughts might get you to a happier and better place in the end. And if you turn out to be happier as a man than you were as a woman, that is wonderful.

Please don't feel forced to stay a cis woman for feminism - any feminism that mistreats or hates trans men and transmasculine people is bad feminism. Being a trans man or transmasc is not a moral failure.

Trans manhood and masculinity are wonderful, and you deserve happiness. And if you find that happiness in manhood/masculinity, you don't deserve to be shamed or harassed for it, and you should not be made to feel the need to put yourself down for it, either.