We Got Vaaynel. Honestly Love It Yall

we got Vaaynel. Honestly love it yall

Find your REAL Angel name

• First two letters of your last name • First vowel of your first name • Third letter of your middle name (or parent’s first name if you don’t have a middle name • Last consonant of your last name • Add IEL or EL to the end!

Important reminders for caregivers of all kinds:

✨ You cannot take care of others if you neglect to take care of yourself first.

✨ Your mental, physical and emotional health do not make you any less of a caregiver.

✨ Having intrusive thoughts of any nature does not make you any less of a caregiver.

✨ You do not need to fit a certain aesthetic to be a caregiver.

✨ Caregiving should be a mutually beneficial experience for everyone involved.

✨ Whether you’re a full time caregiver or occasionally babysit, you are still a caregiver.

✨ It’s okay not to use the term caregiver and prefer other titles.

✨ Expressing discomfort with nicknames such as mama, dada, etc is perfectly okay as your comfort is very important.

✨ You do not need to identify a certain way to use certain nicknames.

✨ There’s nothing wrong with disliking certain things about caregiving.

✨ Caregiving can be a coping mechanism as much as regressing/dreaming are.

✨ Your thoughts, feelings, comfort and happiness are always important and should always be respected.

✨ Caregivers can find comfort in or need to use diapers or other common regression/dreaming items as well.

✨ You are always allowed to decline taking care of someone else if you’re low on energy, need time to yourself, aren’t comfortable doing so, or for any reason at all.

✨ Taking a break from caregiving to focus on your own needs is perfectly okay and highly encouraged if needed.

✨ Needing to take time for yourself does not make you a bad caregiver nor does it mean you don’t love those you care for.

✨ Wanting to explore your own regression/dreaming or other coping mechanisms is highly encouraged.

✨ You shouldn’t neglect your own regression/dreaming or other coping mechanisms in favor of caring for others.

✨ You should never be forced to constantly look after someone else when you need to be taken care of yourself.

When you have multiple kin/therio/heart/linktypes and someone asks you "what if you could be another animal, what would you choose?", like ERMMMM you expecting us to pick favorites😭😭😭

When you're looking at and posting alterhuman stuff during a sleepover with someone who doesn't know your alter human💀🤪/-\

ahhhhhh guys it’s so hard to write this presentation about ourself, we keep having to refer to ourself as ‘human’ or a ‘person’ cuz like we can’t just say that we’re a f*cking demon. Rahhhh humans suck

yall look what we found on our walk today

(It was on this like outdoor free bookstore box where you can donate and take books)