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here was an experience i had today

realized i haven’t given myself a good section with how busy this month and the next will be to just be weird {tm} and stuff

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a person with short black hair and an orange head stands in a gray shirt with thin blue stripes, hands clenched at is side. with small action lines to show shaking, an arrow points saying “about to fucking lose it”

the next picture has the same person, this time in a red tie-dye hoodie with is hands in front of is chest in the ‘t-rex’ pose and smiling, is hair is put up into a ponytail inside of the hood covering is head. the arrow text reads “can freely be mentally ill in peace”

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Happy birthday to me! (7/5) As part of my birthday wish, I hope all you have an awesome day and someone buys you your favorite snack! :)

I love…

I love trans people

I love homosexual people

I love heterosexuals (the ally ones)

I love cis people (the ally ones)

I love aro/ace(ect) people (falls under queer but deserve their own - they don’t get enough rep)

I love black people

I love brown people

I love white people

I love Asian

I love European people

I love American people

I love Australian people

I love mixed people

I love people who know everything about themselves

I love people who know nothing about themselves

I love people who know only a few things

I love people who need time to work stuff out

I love people with a whole plan

I love people with no plan

I love people with ‘bad’ mental health

I love people with ‘good’ mental health

I love people who are in between

I love skinny people

I love ‘average’ people

I love chubby people

I love plus sized people

I love people who are completely comfortable in themselves

I love people who aren’t

I love people who it varies for them

I love people with one partner

I love people with no partners

I love poly people

I love people with multiple partners (w/o cheating)

I love people who are aro/ace/cupi and have a partner

I love people who are aro/ace/cupi and don’t have a partner

I love people who are aro/ace/cupi and want a partner

I love people who are aro/ace/cupi and don’t want a partner

I love closeted people

I love open people

I love people with disabilities

I love people without disabilities

I love allies

I love people who stand up for others

I love people who don’t but really wish they could

I love artists

I love writers

I love musicians

I love athletes

I love studious people

I love people who love what they do

I love people who haven’t found what that thing is yet

I love people who yap

I love people who listen

I love people who are both

I love people who are just one

I love people with ideas

I love people without

I love people who come up with ocs and stories of their own

I love people who make fanwork instead

I love people who do both

I love people who do neither

I love people who act ‘too old’

I love people who act ‘too young’

I love people who act their age

I love people who do a mix

I love people I mentioned

I love people I haven’t

I love you.

I love you.

I love you

My kindness kink is so strong, I can get turned on from someone holding a door open for me.

Is that normal? probably not lol

THIS. This is what life is. I’m here for it. Lads, you’re FREE and NOBODY CAN STOP YOU.

I love being an adult because you know what actually happens when you run your car into a curb and scratch up the bumper?

Nothing. You get it fixed, or you don’t. Whatevs.

You know what actually happens when you are depressed or sick or on your period and don’t cook dinner?

Nothing. You still get to eat something, nobody scolds you, it doesn’t have any real bearing on your future success, and you don’t get soft shunned for a week by your family.

You know what actually happens when you break stuff, forget stuff, get sick, fall asleep, are rude, miss a flight, don’t know how to do XYZ thing on fixing cars or canning food or whatever, lose things, get lost because you can’t read a map and forgot to charge your phone, buy the wrong groceries, plant the wrong plants, not make your bed, make your bed wrong, jump on your bed, sleep on your bed, eat crackers in your bed, have emotions literally anywhere?

Nothing.

Nothing happens.

No one is mad.

No one can hurt you, and if they do there are laws saying they can’t and that it’s an actual crime with legal consequences.

All there are are outcomes and different paths and different problems and different situations and you just bumble your way forward into dealing with those and that’s it. That’s the whole thing. It’s not the wrong choice, having problems isn’t indicative of your inherent badness or inadequacy or lack of applying yourself. It’s just life, and it’s happening to literally everyone.

I’m not even kidding.

You just do stuff and nothing bad happens. Walk around existing? Nothing bad will happen. Wild.

You can cry. In public. And the most likely outcome is not that you will get taken away to receive the beating of your lifetime, it is that people will mostly ignore you and some will be kinder to you. 🤯

^good advice

you guys HAVE to take “is dumb” off the end of your username. you have to take “my shit rambles” out of your talking tag. you have to stop apologizing for existing. I get so sad for every url I see like “[name]’s-stupid-reblogs” and every blog I open with a title like “pointless posts” and every opinion post I see tagged something derogatory by op!! speaking as someone whose post tag used to be “makes bad posts.” stop actively putting up roadblocks for yourself!! why do we always say bullying is bad but never when we’re bullying ourselves

forgive yourself. do it often.