Finding Love - Tumblr Posts

Imagine meeting someone who wanted to learn your past not to punish you, but to understand how you needed to be loved.

I would love to find someone to love and just have them love for me and my dog.

Why hello Seb!

Why not try out some headcanons about Aster finding love again after escaping? It'll probably take him a while, but I'd love to see him happy again :D

(PS: I suggest linking the actual videos that these characters come from, hehe!)

😰Aster, your darling😰

Type - Fluff, Angst

Tw's - Spoilers, hair pulling as punishment, nightmares, someone being unalived, stalking(?), mention(s) of obsession, mention of kidnapping, someone breaking into a house

Comments - You right- I've probably already fixed it by the time this is posted, if not let me know so I can actually fix it- But absolutely adorable suggestion!! I already have thoughts flowing through my noodle

Aster finding love again:

😰 100% goes to therapy afterwards

😰 How you two met is tricky

😰 I would like to say that you two met at school, but that is tricky, cause of the yandere that took him

😰 But we're gonna skip that and leave things to the imagination

😰 He would more than likely make sure he's okay mentally and be careful of who he hangs out with

😰 You would have to be super gentle with showing your affection, and be patient with him, and go slower than a snail

😰 He did go through a lot, but I think small gestures like remembering his order down to the T in places you both frequent

😰 I like to think he's really good at like sewing or crochet

😰 So if you wanted to learn how to sew stuff or how to crochet, and you wanted to learn from him, then he'd be so touched

😰 ESPECIALLY, if you made something from the things you learned from him

😰 He would treasure it forever

😰 He doesn't really care for material things, and likes hand made gifts, so using his skills, he makes something for you in return

😰 If both of you continuously do this, then I feel like he'll become more comfortable around you, not too much, just a little

😰 He does need reassurance though

😰 So you need to make sure you can give him the reassurance he needs, without touching him

😰 Does not like being touched whatsoever at the beginning of your friendship, so you knew before the relationship, if you become friends after the incident, and would be a little more comfortable around you if you were friends before it, but still kinda antsy about it

😰 You have to let him initiate stuff though

😰 If you two were good friends before the incident, then he would initiate holding hands with you around the... 6 - 8 month mark perhaps

😰 But if you become friends after the incident, then he would initiate it on the 1 year mark, or the 1 year and 3 months mark

😰 He needs time to realize that you genuinely love him, and don't have this weird obsession over him like that person

😰 Whether you were good friends before the incident, or met after it, he would be incredibly hesitant about opening up to you what exactly he went through

😰 He's more than likely going to therapy while you're going out, and you might go with him as moral support, but never in the room with him and his therapist

😰 He does eventually open up about it a little, but not much

😰 He definitely gets nightmares about it, and reliving through it again through those are enough

😰 The first time you actually hug him would probably be after a sleepover at his place at the 2 1/2 year mark, or 3 year mark, when he's been a tad bit more open to physical affection, but nothing more than hand holding and standing/sitting closer to each other

😰 The reason you two hug is cause he's having a nightmare about the incident, and you're not quite sure what to do

😰 You're both sleeping in a living room, either at his place or your place, he would prefer his place though, and you're on your own little pallets

😰 Once he wakes up, either by himself or you waking him up, he either A. Latches onto you and you go from there, or B. You kinda panic but try to be his rock and calm him down without you touching him cause he screams don't touch me when he wakes up, but you do offer for him to hug you, if he wants it

😰If he does take you up on your offer, then he nuzzles into your neck or chest

😰 Don't touch his hair though, he doesn't like that WHATSOEVER cause whoever took him would pull his hair if he was "misbehaving" to punish him

😰 He opens up a bit about what the nightmare is, but in quick and unsteady mumbles cause he was just full blown panicking, but he reveals that the nightmare was about the person escaping wherever they were sent to to keep them contained

😰 Or if they escaped then they hunted him down

😰 Once they found him though, they stalked him and figured out you two were dating

😰 The second they found out they wanted you dead

😰 So they broke in while you two were watching a movie, and they ended up hurting you to the point that you needed to be hospitalized and on the verge of dying

😰 Or they ended up actually unaliving you and taking him back to wherever they please

😰 It scared him half to death, and it scared you due to the shiver inducing yell he gave out

😰 Once he calms down though, he asks if you two can sleep in the same bed, no touching still, but in the same bed so he knows you're there and safe

😰 In the morning after, he probably woke up a lot later than you cause he was so mentally exhausted after the nightmare

😰 I feel like he likes pancakes, or the classic breakfast of eggs, bacon, hash browns, and a nice glass of orange juice

😰 So if you made him his favorite breakfast in bed, he will hug you (again if he accepted your offer), and squeeze the day lights out of you

😰 He'd probably be crying but with good tears

😰 Your first kiss would be 4 - 5 years in

😰 By then, he's opened up to you quite a bit

😰 He's been feeling much better mentally, he's still struggling with nightmares but they've gotten better

😰 Several times a year, but he's not waking up yelling and kicking

😰 Mostly just waking up in a cold sweat, making sure all his doors and windows are locked, and he calls you to make sure you're okay and everything is locked over at your place

😰 Such a worry wart but he has good intentions

😰 He might ask if he can come over or if you can come over if the nightmare was bad enough

😰 If he does, depending on how you've been together, you might cuddle during the night

Notes - This ended up being super long but I'm happy about it- hopefully you enjoy this Nyan-