It/its - Tumblr Posts - Page 2
I learned about the terms "Berrisexual" and "Pomogender" and I'm trying to figure out my identity again, help...
My pronouns in Russian: Not so much...
My pronouns in English:
(I really should start keeping a list.)
i still can't stop thinking about non-it/its users responses to this post. how an awful lot of people think it's fine to refuse someone else's pronouns because of their own discomfort.
let me tell you a story.
i have been dehumanized almost my entire life. a combination of my race, disabilities, and the mental illnesses that i developed very early in my life meant i was treated like a monster. i started coming out as gay too early for my peers' comfort and that only added to that treatment. my dehumanization is enshrined in christianity. i took on the label of monster on purpose because i stopped relating to humanity. why should i want to be a part of a group who did nothing but hurt me and exclude me in the first place?
i don't need to be protected from my own goddamn pronouns. i don't need to hear about the historical dehumanization of queer people and people of color and disabled people because, like a massive majority of the people using it/its, i fucking know. i have for literal decades.
you know what hurts? telling me i don't know what's best for myself, that your discomfort with my life is more important than treating me like someone who can make its own fucking decisions, and misgendering me because you can't handle being reminded of the things that literally continue to happen to me. i'm not a poor unthinking baby that needs to be saved, and neither are the other it/its users.
if you have feelings about it/its, you can process them on your own time, like every other person uncomfortable with a pronoun set.
and for the love of everything unholy just call me by my fucking pronouns.
The pains of being a <pronoun>/it or it/<pronoun> OR <pronoun>/<neopronoun> or <neo>/<pronoun> user is that literally everyone chooses to IGNORE the it/neo part, even if you put it first.
And I hate that the only solution is to make the choice that is never picked the only option, and even then people default to "they"
mom: complains about they/them pronouns being SO HARD to remember
me, barely refraining from telling her about the existence of neopronouns:
Pronoun kandi P2
More kandi, and me talking about how I messed up on of the sets bellow :-D (for context and more pronoun's I made see part 1 of this 2 part post of mind, it's two posts because I knew I'd share a lot of pics and being super wordy :P)
Here are the rest of the pronoun kandi's I made \o/ unfortunately I messed up one of the sets and didn't notice until I went and took these pictures...
yep I made extra ze/zim bracelets instead of making ze/zir bracelets (-_-J) I believe this is most likey due to making such similar sets back to back and kinda just zooning out, while I was either watching youtube or listening to music... I'll make more ze/zir kandi, eventually, when I am not exhausted at the mire idea of making more pronoun kandi lol
for now I hope you all like the kandi I did make :P
hmmm
Thought i was cis since ever. default pronouns fine. default gendered language fine. (I considered myself technically agender, but it didn't matter enough to me)
and then i found out that some people use it/its. ooooooooooo the euphoria!!!!
so now the question is: am I agender ORRRRRRRR a furry? (you know what they say about the "thinking furries are cringe pipeline" lol)
As a gender-fluid that frequently uses it/its, I wholeheartedly(is that a-) approve of this message.
do we have a name for people who use it/its. because as one of those people myself, i think it should be genderthing because it sounds cool. also. this should be the flag
becuase it looks cool. reblog if you agree or you're also a creature. idk. love you all btw /p <3 <3
as someone who replaced the he/him in my identity with it/its BECAUSE i didn't feel super comfortable with binary pronouns at all, i agree with this post
can we please be fucking nice to it/its users