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Ace me watching allo me make decisions
Soemtimes I’m like hmm normal then sometimes, The Slut™ takes over
I didn't come out as Aegosexual/romantic for two reasons.
(the bigger part) I didn't know about aegosexuality/romanticism when I came out and
I don't think they fully understand asexuality/aromanticism, and I didn't want to confuse them more with what (in my opinion) is one of the more confusing microlabels
I'm thankful that they did accept me, but still, I don't want to try to explain that I do feel sexual/romantic attraction, but I can't be a part of the relationship in a sexual/romantic way.
Asexual labels explained using cereal
You are in a kitchen, opening a pantry door. It contains every brand of cereal in existence.
Libido- How hungry you are
Sexual Attraction- How appealing each cereal is to you
Sex-Repulsed- The mere act of eating cereal disturbs you. You flee the kitchen to watch Netflix instead.
Sex-Indifferent- Someone brings you a bowl of cereal. Even though you don’t crave cereal, you decide to eat some anyway. Maybe because you want the person to feel happy you’re eating something they provided you. Maybe you’re just that hungry. Regardless, you’re fine with eating it since it’s already there. If it wasn’t, you wouldn’t care either.
Sex-favorable- Though you don’t particularly crave cereal, the act of eating cereal is enjoyable. So enjoyable, you go through the trouble of picking a brand to eat.
Asexual with low/no libido- You are rarely hungry, and none of the cereal appeals to you.
Asexual with average/high libido- You are often hungry, but none of the cereal appeals to you.
Aegosexual- Eating cereal sounds fun in theory but not in practice. You certainly have no interest in eating cereal yourself. You’d rather fantasize about other people eating cereal, thankyouverymuch.
Gray Asexual- You only like Lucky Charms and Apple Jacks. And maybe Fruity Pebbles but you’re not quite sure.
Demisexual- You see a box of Trix. You are familiar with the rabbit on the box, due to the commercials you’ve seen. You always sympathized with the rabbit for never getting any Trix. There are things in life you’ve wanted but have never gotten. You feel a bond with the rabbit. Suddenly that box of Trix looks tasty.
Fraysexual- You see a box of Cocoa Puffs. You have never heard of Cocoa Puffs in your life. But something about it is oh-so-appealing. You pour yourself a bowl. As you start to eat, you catch a commercial for Cocoa Puffs on TV. You now know what the mascot on the box is like. You lose interest in Cocoa Puffs for reasons you cannot explain.
Lithosexual- You notice a box of Fruit Loops. You feel an urge to eat it. Toucan Sam comes to life and asks you to eat them. This makes you uncomfortable, so you leave to watch Netflix with the sex-repulsed ace.
Reciprosexual- You have no interest in any of the cereal. Not even that box of Frosted Flakes. But Tony the Tiger shows up wanting you to eat the Frosted Flakes. Now that he wants you to eat Frosted Flakes, you want to eat Frosted Flakes.
Cupiosexual- You want to eat cereal, but none of the cereal looks appealing. Maybe if you grab that box of Corn Flakes, it’ll become appealing to you later? It’s happened to other people. You consider grabbing that box of Corn Flakes, just in case.
Orchidsexual- Some of the cereal looks appealing, but you have no interest in eating cereal.
Aceflux- None of the cereal looks good, so you close the pantry. A few days later, you decide to open the pantry again. Now, some of those brands look appetizing. You check the pantry again the next day. None of the cereal looks good anymore.
Quoisexual- You have no idea if you like a cereal because you want to eat it, or if you just think the box art is pretty. Does liking the box art count as wanting to eat it? Do you just like the mascot? Does liking the mascot count as wanting to eat the cereal? After reading everything I’ve written, you are still confused. You bang your head against the pantry in frustration.
a-specs we should start explaining our identity with cake. because, you know, that’s like, the thing for asexuals, that’d be pretty funny, anyway so
everyone has different flavors of cake that they like, and some people don’t like cake at all. some people actively choose not to eat cake for dietary reasons, but that’s completely different from just not liking the taste. you chose to go on a diet, but what tastes you like and don’t like come down to your dna. some people will look at a picture of a cake and go “oh that looks nice” but if they saw one at the store they’d walk past it; some people normally don’t eat it but if someone close to them made it for them they’d say yes; some people will only eat cake if they’re in the mood for it; some people normally don’t eat cake but get cravings for it every now and then; some people don’t like sweets as a whole…
Shoutout to all the milfs and milf lovers on the asexual spectrum!
~Your favorite aegosexual milf connoisseur
; I haven't seen an explanation quite so good omfg !?? /gen ( I'm a Lucky Charms and Apple Jacks kinda guy, maybe Fruity Pebbles. What about y'all ? /genq /nf
Asexual labels explained using cereal
You are in a kitchen, opening a pantry door. It contains every brand of cereal in existence.
Libido- How hungry you are
Sexual Attraction- How appealing each cereal is to you
Sex-Repulsed- The mere act of eating cereal disturbs you. You flee the kitchen to watch Netflix instead.
Sex-Indifferent- Someone brings you a bowl of cereal. Even though you don’t crave cereal, you decide to eat some anyway. Maybe because you want the person to feel happy you’re eating something they provided you. Maybe you’re just that hungry. Regardless, you’re fine with eating it since it’s already there. If it wasn’t, you wouldn’t care either.
Sex-favorable- Though you don’t particularly crave cereal, the act of eating cereal is enjoyable. So enjoyable, you go through the trouble of picking a brand to eat.
Asexual with low/no libido- You are rarely hungry, and none of the cereal appeals to you.
Asexual with average/high libido- You are often hungry, but none of the cereal appeals to you.
Aegosexual- Eating cereal sounds fun in theory but not in practice. You certainly have no interest in eating cereal yourself. You’d rather fantasize about other people eating cereal, thankyouverymuch.
Gray Asexual- You only like Lucky Charms and Apple Jacks. And maybe Fruity Pebbles but you’re not quite sure.
Demisexual- You see a box of Trix. You are familiar with the rabbit on the box, due to the commercials you’ve seen. You always sympathized with the rabbit for never getting any Trix. There are things in life you’ve wanted but have never gotten. You feel a bond with the rabbit. Suddenly that box of Trix looks tasty.
Fraysexual- You see a box of Cocoa Puffs. You have never heard of Cocoa Puffs in your life. But something about it is oh-so-appealing. You pour yourself a bowl. As you start to eat, you catch a commercial for Cocoa Puffs on TV. You now know what the mascot on the box is like. You lose interest in Cocoa Puffs for reasons you cannot explain.
Lithosexual- You notice a box of Fruit Loops. You feel an urge to eat it. Toucan Sam comes to life and asks you to eat them. This makes you uncomfortable, so you leave to watch Netflix with the sex-repulsed ace.
Reciprosexual- You have no interest in any of the cereal. Not even that box of Frosted Flakes. But Tony the Tiger shows up wanting you to eat the Frosted Flakes. Now that he wants you to eat Frosted Flakes, you want to eat Frosted Flakes.
Cupiosexual- You want to eat cereal, but none of the cereal looks appealing. Maybe if you grab that box of Corn Flakes, it’ll become appealing to you later? It’s happened to other people. You consider grabbing that box of Corn Flakes, just in case.
Orchidsexual- Some of the cereal looks appealing, but you have no interest in eating cereal.
Aceflux- None of the cereal looks good, so you close the pantry. A few days later, you decide to open the pantry again. Now, some of those brands look appetizing. You check the pantry again the next day. None of the cereal looks good anymore.
Quoisexual- You have no idea if you like a cereal because you want to eat it, or if you just think the box art is pretty. Does liking the box art count as wanting to eat it? Do you just like the mascot? Does liking the mascot count as wanting to eat the cereal? After reading everything I’ve written, you are still confused. You bang your head against the pantry in frustration.
; so basically
I made an acespec bingo!
*Mentioned in the bingo is the term “m-spec” - it stands for “multiple attraction spectrum” and is a spectrum of orientations defined by attraction to multiple genders.
A common aspec (asexual and aromantic spectrum) experience is thinking you’re m-spec before figuring out you are actually aspec.
You can support me by following me on my socials (link in bio) and engaging with my posts, thank you 🧡
Wow Pride!
Got a big project idea for pride this year so here’s a big masterpost to help you navigate it if you get lost. I’m posting one wolf a day so be sure to check back sometime.
They’ll be in a bit of a weird order but you will probably get why after the second goes up ;)
Based all my wolves off sci-fantasy concept for a bit of fun. Sure it doesn’t make sense that these wolves could use these weapons, but it sure looks cool so don’t worry about it. Have fun!
✨ Everything I’ve done for Pride baby~ ✨
A-Spec Pride Wolves
A-Spec Wolf -- Aro-spectrum / Ace-spectrum
Aro Wolf -- Aromantic / Greyromantic / Demiromantic
Ace Wolf -- Asexual / Greysexual / Demisexual
AroAce Wolf -- Aromantic-Asexual
Agen Wolf -- Agender
Fray Wolf -- Frayromantic / Fraysexual
Flux Wolf -- Aroflux / Aceflux
Litho Wolf -- Lithoromantic / Lithrosexual
Recipro Wolf -- Recipromantic / Reciprosexual
Full Pride Wolves Illustration
Extra Bits
Social Media Banners / Headers
Phone Backgrounds / Wallpapers
Character Sheets
Plus use coupon code PRIDEWOLVES for 10% off everything in store on orders £10 and above -- Only till the end of June
A-Spectrum Pride Wolves A3 Art Prints
A-Spec Wolves on Redbubble
All my previous pride merchandise is now 15% off so grab some!
Aro/Ace Wolf Dance Clear Charms
Aro/Ace Wolf Flower Party Pink Charms
Aro/Ace Wolf Flower Party A4 Art Print
Stay prideful!!!
Flux wolf for the Aroflux and Aceflux.
Holding a scythe for Aceflux and a pick for Aroflux. How does a wolf use both a scythe and pick when fighting? No idea, just know you don’t want to find out ;)
One of the hardest wolves to balance the colours for, you fluxes don’t even have consistency in your pinks in the flags, came out nice though.
Be sure to check out the other aspec wolves~
✨Everything Pride✨ - Masterpost ｜Aspec｜Aro｜Ace｜AroAce｜Agen｜Fray｜Litho｜Recipro｜Full
Prints Available on my store if you’re so inclined, check the masterpost!
Here’s all my Aspec pride prints together. Took so much jigging to get all of it to match up but I think it came out looking amazing.
I wanted to do something really special for pride this year that I would be really proud of, so I hope you all like them as much as me!
✨Everything Pride✨ - Masterpost ｜Aspec｜Aro｜Ace｜AroAce｜Agen｜Fray｜Flux｜Litho｜Recipro
Prints Available on my store if you’re so inclined, check the masterpost!
Welcome to L’étoile Blanche!
Happy Pride Everyone!!! This is the 5th year I'll be celebrating aspec identities during pride month so I'm very excited!
I've got quite a few pride illustrations planned, so let's see how many I manage to get through before the month is up (^～^;)ゞ
You can spot all my aspec wolves working arount the café so check back for updates where I can introduce them all to you (｡•̀ᴗ-)✧
Pride Art Tag - Challenge｜Poster ｜Aroace｜Aro｜Ace｜Aspec｜Agen｜Flux｜Fray｜Litho｜Recip
I'm Sorry, What was Your Order Again?
Please be patient with the Aroflux/Aceflux Maid! They may be a little clumsy, but they're trying their best every day (ﾉ◕ヮ◕)ﾉ*.✧
I'm back!!!! I have the last few illustrations sketched up so now it's just a deal of finding time to sit down and finish them. I'll try and post them before the month is up :))))
Flux: Someone whose romantic/sexual orientation fluctuates. They may fluctuate between experiencing no, some, and or large amounts of attraction.
Pride Art Tag - Challenge｜Poster ｜Aroace｜Aro｜Ace｜Aspec｜Agen｜Flux｜Fray｜Litho｜Recipro
Finished 2023 outfits for all my pride wolves!
All of the wolves and outfits are free-to-use if you're so inclined ;)
Whoooo! New A-spec Wolf designs!!
There's so many things I want to finish up recently, but as pride month is coming closer I thought I'd redesign all my A-spec wolves in preparation.
Practising differentiating characters from one another using face and body shape, I was pretty successful! I used different wolf species to guide the basic shape of each of them.
I tried matching the old designs colours with the wolf species. Maybe I’ll swap what body type/species they all are later, I do love changing my mind! p:
Size comparisons of all the wolves:
Recipro looks so small next to Agen ( ɵ̥̥ ﹏ ɵ̥̥)
Bonus wolf designs for Aroflux, Aceflux, Recipromantic, Reciprosexual
In honor of asexual awareness week I have made more jars!! All ace identities are valid and deserve to be seen. I love my ace fam 🖤🤍💜
Asexual
Aroace | Gray Ace | Fraysexual
Lithosexual | Reciprosexual | Cupiosexual
Orchidsexual | Aceflux | Quoisexual
Some of the colors aren’t the best, but I did what I could. If anyone has any requests for other ace spec flags in jars for this week, shoot me an ask! My only limits are complexity - I’m truly sorry to my demi siblings. Triangles are too hard.
I learned about the terms "Berrisexual" and "Pomogender" and I'm trying to figure out my identity again, help...
it’s so weird being aceflux because like… sometimes I’m completely sex-repulsed and would cry if I had to engage in something sexual, and other times I am so violently horny it’s like I crawled out of whatever hellpit the weirdest sexual deviants get chucked into
and then I watch as so much of the rest of the ace community shits on people who experience horniness or sexual desire… I’m still acespec, I just have a different experience and I feel like I’m being kicked to the curb because of this different experience. we’re supposed to present a unified front and here’s several people getting tossed into no-man’s land
just me and blåhaj against the world