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Is he grey asexual?
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Reasoning: Hisoka is shown to have sexual pleasure from fights to death with strong people, or from thought about them. However, he doesn't feel this attraction to people themselves; when one of characters loses his ability to fight, Hisoka loses interest in said character. And while later Hisoka helps him, it's only for purpose of fighting him again. It's like he isn't attracted to people, but to their ability to satisfy his very specific kink
Grey asexual meaning:
A sexual orientation on the asexual spectrum, referring to those who relate to asexuality, yet feel that there are parts of their experience that aren't fully described by the word asexual. Greysexual can be used as a specific identity, or as an umbrella term for any ace-spec identity that isn't purely asexual, including demisexual and others
I WANT A QPR SOOOOOO BADDDDD!!
I want someone that I can call my partner, but not necessarily in a romantic way. I want someone to hug and be close to. I want someone who I can listen to and who can listen to me. I want someone who shares my interests. I want someone that will agree to discuss and respect our boundaries with one another. I want someone who I can just be with, like we can just exist together. I want someone who will go book shopping with me and just listen to me gush about different books. I want someone who will walk down the halls with, and maybe we'll hold hands and maybe we won't. I want someone who will always be ready to comfort me and who I can comfort whenever they need it. I want someone who will help me calm down and think through things carefully. I want someone who I can explore and go on adventures with.
Basically, I just really want a queerplatonic partner/relationship.
Did any other aroace-spec people try to write fanfiction when they were younger, but struggled to write romance/romantic scenes? Because I vividly remember trying to write fanfiction when I was younger, but not really knowing how to write the romance because that wasn't something that I felt that much. And this goes for all kinds of romantic fanfic, reader insert, OC insert, shipping, etc. I tried writing all of the above, and every single time, I was unable to write, or even sometimes start, the romantic scenes, because I just didn't know what exactly that felt like or how romantic relationships started. And even when I could get through writing fanfic, it just felt SO unnatural and weird to actually write; like not bad, but just odd, like not realistic. But somehow, people really liked it, so I guess I did something right lol
The seventh day of my Representation is Important pride month chibi set is Grey Asexual! (On the asexual spectrum, one feels very limited sexual attraction)
Today's representing OCs are Ash (any pronouns), and Oeneus! (He/they/it)
Evenen more
✨🏳️🌈✨Flag birbs✨🏳️🌈✨
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The casual exlusionism within the AroAce community really affected how I view myself, because I'm in my mid-20s and I'm only just realizing that I might be Grey Aromantic too because I really enjoy romance in fiction, romance is one of my favorite genres.
the idea of having someone who understands you and will be there for you no matter what, who you want to spend the rest of your life with is a very appealing idea to me, especially with the trauma I've been through.
I'm not a fan of "happily ever after" romance, but realistic romance where we see couples still struggling with their own problems, but still have each other.
But I only just realized I've felt genuine romantic attraction so little, and most other times I have were hyperromantic trauma responses.
I have multiple partners across two DID systems, and I love them very much, but my romantic attraction is exclusively within those two systems. People outside of those systems, I haven't had any romantic attraction to since I was 13. There were a few hyperromantic crushes out of want or need for attention (as I'm a trauma survivor), but even those were sparse.
Even my break ups with some people only bothered me because of how they broke up with me, not that they broke up with me. Not that they severed a year (or more) long romantic relationship with me.
Aromanticism is more complicated than I initially thought, and the exclusionist behavior that is so common from inside and out only muddies the water and makes it difficult for AroAce people to accept themselves.
We need to learn to spread acceptance and that just because someone doesn't fit a perfect box, that doesn't mean they're not one of us.
AroAce is not a box, and it shouldn't be treated that way.
Shout out to the Romance-Averse/Sex-Averse Demi AroAces!
Shout out to the Romance-Averse/Sex-Averse AroAces!
Shout out to the Romance-Neutral/Sex-Neutral AroAces!
Shout out to the Romance-Favorable/Sex-Favorable AroAces!
Shout out to the Hyperrose AroAces!
Shout out to Loveless AroAces!
Shout out to the Sapphic AroAces, the Achillean AroAces!
Shout out to the Lesbian AroAces, the Gay AroAces!
Shout out to the Bi AroAces, Pan AroAces, Poly AroAces!
Shout out to the Polyamorous AroAces!
Shout out to the Apothi AroAces!
Shout out to Aego AroAces!
Shout out to the Grey AroAces!
Shout out to the other AroAce labels I missed!
THIS POST IS ABOUT AROACES, NOT ALL ASPEC IDENTITIES, PLEASE DO NOT DERAIL!
In honor of asexual awareness week I have made more jars!! All ace identities are valid and deserve to be seen. I love my ace fam 🖤🤍💜
Asexual
Aroace | Gray Ace | Fraysexual
Lithosexual | Reciprosexual | Cupiosexual
Orchidsexual | Aceflux | Quoisexual
Some of the colors aren’t the best, but I did what I could. If anyone has any requests for other ace spec flags in jars for this week, shoot me an ask! My only limits are complexity - I’m truly sorry to my demi siblings. Triangles are too hard.
i wanted to add some subtle pride designs to my redbubble shop
more designs are on the way