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30 DAY K-DRAMA CHALLENGE
D2- Favourite K-drama
The King: Eternal Monarch
Vincenzo
It's okay to not be okay
Crash landing on you
The legend of the blue sea
30 DAY K-DRAMA CHALLENGE
D5- Best female lead
Jeong Tae-eul
Ko Moon-young
Hong Cha-young
30 DAY K-DRAMA CHALLENGE
D20- Favourite line/dialogue
This:
This:
And this:
30 DAY K-DRAMA CHALLENGE
D26- Favourite cameo
Kim Soo-hyun
Jung Hae-in
Kwak Dong-yeon
30 DAY K-DRAMA CHALLENGE
D29- Kdrama with the best ending
It's okay to not be okay
Mystic pop-up bar
Doom at your service
That’s not my fault. I was… I was just born a little dumb. But my father hit me because I didn’t get good grades. He looked down on me because I couldn’t understand properly. He locked me up for causing trouble. I just… I just wanted his attention, you see. I just wanted him to look at me. So I did tons of crazy stuff to get his attention. I just ended up going crazy! KWAK DONG YEON as Kwon Ki Do in IT’S OKAY TO NOT BE OKAY (2020)
when i have to follow an Arab fan page for him to get updates
want him to be more appreciated yet wanna gatekeep him too (chat am i weird for that)
When you never find anything about you favorite kdrama actor beacuse he is so underrated<<<):
Writing Ideas
I believe that you and I were written in the stars to meet but I don’t think you and I were ever meant to be soulmates.
I can’t love you until I figure out how to love myself first.
Why is she the queen in your game of chess while I am just a pawn.
I have to let you go now. Because I have come to the terms that you and I were just never meant to be.
Do you think about us? And what we could have been?
I would have traveled to the center of the earth if it meant you would say you loved me...and meant it.
I guess this is goodbye. I love you but now I love myself even more.
Until we meet again. Maybe next time you and I can have our second chance together at love. But maybe not, we will just have to wait and see. Until Then Dear Friend.
May your future with her be as miserable and unhappy as I felt when I watched you walk away from me for the very first time.
It’s funny. I used to think the world of you. I used to adore you. But now that I have left my past behind it’s like lifting weight off of my shoulders I didn’t even know was there.
I hope your happy. I hope you wake up every morning with the happiest and brightest smile on your face. I hope one day I can wake up happy too.
So this is it? This is how you say goodbye to me? After all we have been through, you coward! I hate you. Always have, always will.
Maybe just one more hug? One more date? One more kiss? I promise after that I will be ready to let you go.
I guess I can’t run away anymore.
in an alternate universe, this is their reality. in a different world, this is go moonyoung, moon gangtae and moon sangtae's story.
you’re so annoying
talented, brilliant, incredible, amazing, show-stopping, spectacular, never the same, totally unique, completely not ever done before
oh, nothing to see here, folks, just moon gangtae and go moonyoung being a married couple...
who did you tell her i was? that you’re sang tae’s best friend which is something she always longed for. and that you’re also the woman that i love.
OP, how did you know I'm a sucker for gentle cheek caresses?
I love you for real. I really mean it. Kim Soo Hyun & Seo Ye Ji as Moon Gang Tae & Ko Moon Young in It’s Okay to Not Be Okay (2020)
OP, again with the cheek caresses!! They're my ultimate weakness when it comes to couples..
“I love you,” he says, but soon he’s holding his hand against her cheek, wiping away stray tears. “Why are you crying?” “Because,” she gasps, choking on the words, “isn’t this the part where you leave me?” Extraordinary You (2019)│Goblin (2016)│It’s Okay to Not Be Okay (2020)│Mr. Sunshine (2018)
These lyrics hit me so fucking hard
"And you find some way to survive / And you find out you don't have to be happy at all, / To be happy you're alive."
All my life I was trying to be happy. Do things and have coping mechanisms to try and force myself to be happy. But maybe it doesn't have to be that way. Maybe being alive... is enough for now. Will I ever be truly happy again? I don't know. But I am alive. That counts for something right?
KDRAMAs THAT MADE ME FEEL SOMETHING
(not in any particular order)
disclaimer: I just started watching kdramas seriously this 2020. This is highly personal.
These dramas are the best, for me at least, and the ones that made me feel the most. 👌🏻
* Crash Landing On You 🏔
- This has been my black whole for kdramas-I went in and I never came back. This drama made me fall in love with kdramas.
- It is funny, romantic and heartwarming at the same time. It showed that sometimes strangers can be more home than your family.
- I loved the second couple just as much as the main.
- This helped me a lot through this year, I went through a hardcore ‘separation anxiety’ when it ended.
Feels like: a sunny day under a tree surrounded by flowers in full bloom 🌸🌺
Romance: so strong that it can light up the whole of North Korea (not my words)
Strengths: actor’s chemistry
Rewatch? : ABSOLUTELY
* The Tale of the Nine Tailed 🦊
- I don’t watch horror films AT ALL but the fact that I enjoyed this and loved it says a lot about how good this is.
- The magical character made it feel like I was reading a fantasy novel
- Family
- I loved some characters more than others and I wished some endings didn’t end the way they did BUT I understood.
Feels like: a hot bowl of soup on a rainy day
Romance: electric
Strengths: the BROTHERHOOD
Rewatch? : yes
* Extraordinary You 🌺
- the cutest but also mind-blowingly good
- Almost all characters are amiable. They are young but incredibly capable.
- It is like watching anime human version
- Will make you miss your youth (given that I am the same age as the actors)
Feels like: having butterflies in the stomach
Romance: the best of young love
Strengths: unique plot
Rewatch? : definitely!
* The King: Eternal Monarch 👑
- I watched this while it was airing and I very much enjoyed all the theories here on tumblr just as much as the drama itself
- Doppelgänger to a whole other level
- Thought provoking
- Strong independent individuals
- I loved this drama deeply and who wouldn’t fall in love with the male lead who is smart, decisive and loyal.
- The love line was mature without any misunderstanding.
- It will make you cry
- The ending was not perfect but it tied up mostly everything in the end. I wanted to see more of this world.
Feels like: reading a love poem
Romance: literal star-crossed lovers
Strengths: cinematography
Rewatch? : YES
* Weightlifting Fairy Kim Bok-joo 🏋️♀️
- okay, right now you just want a break from kdrama mind games. You just want a cute rom-com. This is the drama for you!
- This is relatable in the sense that you are not even an athlete but you think you know what it feels like
- Tremendously raw at times
- Light but with weight
Feels like: falling in love
Romance: adorable 😍
Strengths: friends that are family
Rewatch? : the type that you can watch over and over again
* While You Were Sleeping 🌸
- dreamy and also “what a visual cast.”
- The first episode is an entire movie
- It is smart
- Will make you care for people you don’t even know
- One of my fave endings
Feels like: a beautiful daydream
Romance: love in it’s purest form
Strengths: OST
Rewatch? : done
* It’s Okay Not To Be Okay 👠
- As you may have guessed from the title, it’s about mental health
- humanly tender
- It shows how the toughest battles are in your head
- This will make you bawl your eyes out
- Not for the weak at heart
- Strong female lead
- Found family
- You will need a huggg after this
Feels like: sleeping in the softest silk
Romance: chemistry across all boards
Strengths: Fashion
Rewatch? : maybe? Just because it hurts (albeit the best way) and also because I already did
* Itaewon Class 🌙
- This is something you can recommend anybody
- About life-it’s best and worst moments
- makes you wanna get your life together
- Also, it makes you want to wrap these people in comfy blankets and give them hot milk
Feels like: WINNING
Romance: it will grow on you
Strengths: acting was superb and OST!
Rewatch? : DONE
* Goblin ⚔️
- How can we make a list of kdramas without this main meal? Everyone loved this and I must say, rightfully so.
- Dynamic duo bromance
- Second lead couple was everything
- Noteworthy
Feels like: experiencing the first snow fall
Romance: will also grow on you
Strengths: everything about this was iconic
Rewatch? : highly likely
These are highly mainstream dramas because I’m a basic b*tch but also since I’ve been reading everybody’s lists before watching (mostly). And if your fave is not in the list, it’s likely that I have not watched it so hit me up 👇🏻. I have TONS still to watch so don’t come at me.
All my Love. 💋
P.S. Yet to watch: Scarlet Heart, Hotel De Luna, Reply Series, etc. ✌🏻
Found this on a long thread and just wanted to reblog it for anyone who needs it!
reblogging this because it’s okay to not be okay!! i’m always available for a chat if anyone ever needs to rant to somebody who will listen!!
I wanna get real for a sec.
Depression is a shitty thing, it can happen to anyone, anxiety and depression go hand in hand unfortunately, and its SUCH a shitty mind space to be in.
Its ok to talk about your feelings with friends and family, but ultimately there's only ONE person in this world who can help you, and that person is yourself. Seeking help is SO important, and you can't depend on everyone around you to pick you up when you're down, sometimes you gotta struggle to drag yourself up from the ground and do things yourself. If you're lucky enough to have people there for you, then great! But I can tell you they don't have answers to your personal problems, only you can sort those. Its your mind and your feelings at the end of the day.
Some people dont want to help themselves though, and its truly truly sad, but life is super precious, and if doing even the smallest of things that you enjoy to do that make you feel something other than anger and sadness, then do it when you have some time, go for a walk? Play an old videogame that makes you feel nostalgic? Draw your favourite character? Write stories? Brush your hair? Play with different makeup styles? Discover new music? Hell sit there and randomly make a fart noise with your mouth if dumb shit like that makes you smile for even a second 😂
The worst thing to do is DWELL on your own sadness constantly, you can BE sad, its ok to be sad, we all have moments, we can all lash out at other's, we can all isolate and distance ourselves from people to be alone if that's what you need, Its OK. But literally sometimes you just gotta breath, and think about things other than your depression, dwelling won't help you. It will make you worse, not seeking help when you REALLY need it is another thing, its not going to disappear by itself, only YOU can make that change.
Be safe 🖤
Be well 💖
💗 Do something, anything 💗