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It literally took me Pokemon-ing the genders to realize “oh hey, maybe I’m not a panromantic asexual, maybe I’m actually aro/ace” and there’s nothing wrong with finding out that way, except that now every person I’ve dated has had the unifying experience of me coming out to them in increasingly limiting ways

Realizing you can like people aesthetically without it dictating your sexuality is so liberating tbh. Like, one can adore, even be obsessed with, the looks of someone of the same sex and still be straight. One can find people beautiful, and handsome, and fascinating, and still be asexual. I can like the physical appearance of someone of the opposite sex and still be gay. Finding physical beauty in people doesn't equal to being physically, or sexually, or romantically attracted to them. Human beauty isn't inherently sexual. Just wanted to put it out there.