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Random pride asks! 12! :>

I really like the flags from the Ace spectrum, probably because violet is my favorite color XD But I generally like the contrast with the Grey and I think the triangle in the Demi flag is really cool

Kathi has too much stuff giveaway!

I cleared out some stuff from my collection and decided that some of you guys will probably be happy about having it.

Thank you for sticking with me! 💙

This little set includes unofficial photocards, stickers and some photos I printed. I am also adding an official poster from the Purple album! (please note that the poster is folded and that most photos I printed have some sort of tape rests on the back)

There will be one winner!

Here are the rules:

You don’t have to follow me (this is mainly for my followers but I am not going to pressure people into following me cause I am not a dick)

Be a Mamamoo fan (should be a given but some people are funny)

Reblog as much as you want to, just be considerate of your followers

Likes don’t count

No giveaway blogs or blogs specifically made for this (I will find out)

Ask Box must be open and the winner has three days to respond

I ship worldwide. The winner has to be willing to give me their name and address

Giveaway ends on September 1st!

Favorite Color: Violet

Top Three Ships: Scorptra (Catra x Scorpia) (She-Ra), Ineffable Husbands (Aziraphale x Crowley) (Good Omens), Polymarine (Ben x Ryn x Maddie) (Siren)

Lipstick or Chapstick: Actually none of them XD But I have a chapstick look most of the time

Last Song: Tell Me - Wonder Girls

Last Movie: Paranormal Activity 4 (I'm at a friend's place and we currently only watch cringey horror movies XD)

Currently Reading: Always Human on Webtoon (check it out, it has gay, Aro/Ace, Non-Binary and polyamoures characters) and Hannibal

Most people I know are already tagged... @dead-inside-ish @anerdlikeanowl @aurore78

Tagged by @treixynenson

Tag 9 persons you'd like to know better: @ja-lin @thenaughtyturnip @nadiashorns @rincrowe @verynonyideas @lioras @schattenfell @alex-cyprin @hostessemerileverbloom

Favorite color: purple

Top three ships: Bumbleby, White Rose (Rwby), Miyuuri (Fatal frame 5)

Lipstick or chapstick: chapstick

Last song: Without me

Last movie: Venom

Currently reading: I am legend

soft wlw asks

1. how long have you known you liked girls?

2. talk about the girl who made you realise you liked girls

3. are you in a relationship at the moment?

4. do you have a crush at the moment?

5. describe your crush!

6. do you tend to like more masculine, feminine, or androgynous girls?

7. do you look/dress more masculine, feminine, or androgynous?

8. what’s your gaydar like?

9. tall girls or short girls?

10. intimidating girls or kind girls?

11. hugs or kisses?

12. do you have an ideal ‘type’? what would they be like?

13. what’s your favourite personality trait of yours?

14. what’s your favourite personality trait for a girl to have?

15. what’s the best thing about liking girls?

16. do you have any friends who are wlw?

17. have you ever been to pride? if so, what was your first pride like?

18. do you like the lesbian flag?

19. what was your first kiss with a girl like?

20. who was your celebrity/fictional gay awakening?

21. what’s your favourite lgbt+ movie?

22. who’s your favourite openly wlw celebrity?

23. do you wear makeup?

24. who was the first person you came out to (if you have)?

25. has anyone ever come out to you?

26. have you found a community of lgbt+ people?

27. do you have any older lgbt+ people you look up to?

28. do you identify with butch/femme labels?

29. who’s your favourite fictional wlw?

30. what experiences are you looking forward to having in the future (kissing a girl, going to pride, etc)?

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1. how long have you known you liked girls?

I always choose the male character in video games and declared random pretty NPCs my girlfriend, so I kinda have always know it, but I really realized it when I was around 13 and got into anime. I watched Yaoi first and liked it, so I became interested in Yuri too and that opened my eyes

6. do you tend to like more masculine, feminine, or androgynous girls?

Usually I would say all girls, no exceptions, but I'm currently really into androgynous people. Still love all kinds of girls with my whole heart

8. what's your gaydar like?

It's super effective. Like, every person I'm friends with or that I ever found romantically interesting is Queer, even if they needed some time to realize it sometimes

20. who was your celebrity/fictional gay awakening?

Nico Robin from One Piece. I always found her beautiful and stared at her like with an idiot grin, but in the second she started taking hits to protect some ancient ruins, I was like: Damm, I'm in love with her

S - "Sorry Sorry" - Super Junior

C - "Cherry Bomb" - NCT 127

H - "Heart Attack" - Chuu

A - "Aduld Ceremony" - Park Ji Yoon

T - "Tell Me" - Wonder Girls

T - "Touch my Body" - Sistar

E - "Eraser" - Taeyeon

N - "No more Drama" - Mamamoo

F - "Fantastic Baby" - Big Bang

E - "Electric Shock" - f(x)

L - "Likey" - Twice

L - "Lips on Lips" - Tiffany Young

@anerdlikeanowl @dead-inside-ish

Tagged by @lordflausch to spell out my tumblr name in songs.

S - ''ScaPEGoat'' - SawanoHiroyuki[nzk]

I - "I burn" - Jeff and Casey Lee Williams

L - "Love Lies" - Khalid & Normani

V - "Vint-i-un botons" - Blaumut

E - "Everybody lies" - Jason Walker

R - "Raise your glass" - P!nk

T - "The Resistance" - Skillet

E - "Estels al vent" - Els Catarres

R - "Ref:rain" - Aimer

E - "Els Segadors" - (rock version) A sound of thunder

S - "Se telefonando" - Nek

A - "A million dreams" - from The Greatest Showman

@akilice @ja-lin @laulink @hermaeu5mora @lioras @schattenfell and anyone who wants to do this ^_^

Doing this to prove a point to my mum

Reblog if you think you can have a fulfilling relationship without sex.

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Since joining Tumblr, I’ve met a lot of young queer people. Look, I’m a bisexual man in a gay relationship, and I’m approaching 30. I was still a kid when Matthew Shepard’s story was being covered on the news. I remember thinking, “I better keep my mouth shut about these feelings I’m having.”

And then I met Dominic when I was 12, and people could see how in love we were. And we got the shit beat out of us. The year I met him, some kids in the grade above me held me down against the bleachers in our gym and stomped on my hand until my fingers broke. Instead of sending me to the nurse, the teacher sent me to the assistant principal to explain the situation. She asked why the kids had beat me up. I said, “They were calling me gay.”

Her response was, “Well, are you?”

My, “I don’t know,” earned a call to my parents, and I was outed. Efforts were made to keep me from seeing Dom. Throughout high school, Dom’s stepmother intensified these efforts. He slept in the basement of the house. Although he was an incredibly talented student, he was prohibited from participating in any extracurriculars. He suffered a lot of physical abuse during those years.

The day he turned 18, he packed up everything he had and walked to my house, and we’ve lived together ever since. Things are better, but they’re not perfect. I’ve had trucks pull up next to me at stoplights and, seeing the pride sticker on my car, through old drinks and garbage into my window. I no longer speak to my dad’s side of the family. I haven’t been to see them for Christmas or Thanksgiving in years. One of my uncles had cornered me at Thanksgiving when I was 17 and said, “I’m not going to judge you, but I’d be happy to break your neck so God can do the judging a little sooner.”

I joined a support group for trans and intersex people. When I joined, 40 people attended regularly. Within the year, the group was half the size it had been. Some couldn’t make it anymore, because they were staying at the shelter, where their stay hinged on them agreeing to instead to attend homophobic sermons. Some were put in correctional therapy. Five of them died. Three of those, I didn’t know, but I knew Alex, the 19 year old who was fag-dragged in Kentucky and died a day later in the hospital, and I knew Stephanie, who went home to Alabama to care for her mom in hospice and was beaten to death with a baseball bat by her mom’s boyfriend.

Tumblr is not reality. The dynamic here does not reflect the dynamic out there. Here’s the part where I finally make a point, and it might be extremely unpopular - but guys, value your allies. Value each other. We are met with enough hate in our daily lives to enter an online safe-space and meet more hate from our own, over petty things. Don’t go after one another over every little thing you find problematic.

Learn to see nuance. Maybe the word “queer” bothers you, and you see a gay man using it as an umbrella term. Maybe someone called a trans man a trans woman because they’re confused about terminology, but the post where they did it was voicing support for the trans community. Maybe someone is just asking a question, wanting to learn more. Stop. Attacking. These. People.

Allies are being driven away. Members of our own community are being ostracized. Others are feeling nervous and estranged, and it’s largely because of places like Tumblr, where the social justice movement is quickly becoming violent and radical. I am begging you, stop nitpicking “problematic” things and start directing your efforts to create real change. When it comes to comes to your allies, forget the “social justice warrior” mentality and put down your torch. Educate calmly. Be respectful. Be understanding. Be forgiving. And I’m certainly not saying that your anger doesn’t have a good place - when you are met with bigots on the street, congress members who want to pass hateful laws, violent protesters, abusive parents, prejudiced teachers, that is when you need to be a warrior. That’s when it counts. In the real world. When you have the opportunity to protect people from real harm. Attacking your would-be allies via anonymous asks is just going to lose us ground in the long run. And we don’t have time for that, not when trans women of color are being murdered every day, not when states are still fighting against marriage equality, not when there are politicians in office who believe that trans people are possessed by demons, not when we’ve just lost 50 brothers and sisters to one gunman, not when the media won’t even admit that the attack was homophobic.

Please step back. Look at the big picture. Look at where we are, globally. Don’t just log on to your safe space and attack your allies over small missteps. That’s like washing the dishes in a house that’s on fire, kids. Let’s fight on the battlefield, and when we come home to each other, let’s just focus on bandaging up our wounds so we can go out and win the war.