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talk 👏🏻 to 👏🏻 your 👏🏻 dom|me 👏🏻 about 👏🏻 their 👏🏻 preferred 👏🏻 aftercare!

I feel like there is such a discrepancy between dom|mes who can recite their sub’s/s’ preferred/needed aftercare in their sleep and subs who can recite their dominant’s/s’ preferred/needed aftercare and that is genuinely heartbreaking to me.

Negotiations are essential and most importantly participants need to be on equal footing and meet each other on eye-level, otherwise there cannot be a reciprocal level of trust…

So yeah, subs, please ask your dom|mes about their needs often as well <3