Selfship Positivity - Tumblr Posts

Anyways most of my F/Os may be horrible murderous bastards but they would respect my disabilities and accommodate/help me when I ask because I say so :) They would also kill anyone who gives me shit for my disabilities, again because I say so :)

hey black selfshippers. remember that your f/o loves you and wouldn't change anything about you for the world ♡. they would not love you more if you were lighter-skinned, they would not love you more if your hair was 'easier' or 'more convenient' because your natural hair texture and its needs are not an inconvenience to them. they couldn't love you more because you're already their everything ♡

happy juneteenth to all black selfshippers ୧⃛(๑⃙⃘◡̈๑⃙⃘)୨⃛

remember that your f/o loves you and your skin and hair just the way they are !! whether you choose to wear a wig, whatever protective hairstyle you do or do not decide to wear, whether you’re light-skin or dark-skin, your f/o couldn’t love you more! they think you look beautiful in your silk cap or durag 🩵

they wouldn’t love you more if you were lighter, nor do they wish you were! they think you’re divine the way you are 🩵

they wouldn’t love you more with straight hair! they love your natural hair texture no matter what it is! they love to help you with your hair care, if you’d like, and help you figure out whatever keeps your hair moisturised and healthy 🩵

they would learn about your specific culture in any way they could and engage with it in every way you’d like them to.

they love you so much!!!!

A little bit of Selfship Positivity ❣!

In the F/O community everyone has different relationship to selfshipping, but there is one thing everyone has in common : your selfships are all valid, and your F/Os love you (^ω^✧) ♥️✨ !

So shoutout to y'all :

✧･ Selfshippers who don't feel comfortable posting / talking about their ships

- you don't need your selfships to be public for it to be valid and real. Your F/Os and you are living your love, and that's what matters.

✧･Selfshippers who don't have self-inserts / OCs

- S/Is & OCs aren't an obligation, your F/Os can very well love you as *you*, you're enough as a person. And yeah if you want to imagine yourself being in your F/Os' universe (or vice-versa) then do it please ; I called the author / showrunner / director and they said you're included in the lore of your F/Os, it's canon ! /hj /pos

✧･Selfshippers that created OCs / SIs with detailed backstories / powers / ect...

- I assure you, there is always someone that notices & enjoys every little details you write/draw into their stories.

✧･Selfshippers who's Ocs /Sis don't have backstories /powers / ect... , or that changes it often

- Your Ocs / SIs are interesting, they don't need to be consistent for your FOs/people to love their vibes !

✧･Selfshippers who are uncomfortable sharing their F/Os

- What matters first is your comfort and mental health, and that doesn't make you a bad person. Take care of yourself, you and your F/Os !

✧･Selfshippers who love to share F/Os

- Sharing them with friends and/or stranger can be such fun, it's nice to share the joy of having F/Os with other people that feel comfy with it !

✧･Selfshippers that don't do a lot of selfshipping themselves, and stick in here mainly because of the fandom

- Seeing people being positive/soft & gush about their F/Os is heart-warming, thanks for supporting others in their own selfships !

✧･Selfshippers who have Familial & Platonic F/Os only

- Familial / platonic love can be so strong, it doesn't need to be romantic to be meaningful. Wether it's as friends, family ect... Your F/Os mean a lot to you, and you mean a lot to them as well !

✧･Selfshippers that heal and/or cope through their ships. I hope that you'll find peace / get better and so does your F/Os.

- Remember, they love you no matter what, they'll always be there for you ; they're here to support you !

✧･Selfshippers that explore(d) their gender/sexuality through shipping

- No matter your gender/sexuality, you'll always be valid and your F/Os will always love you. Because no matter who you are / turn out to be, they'll always see you as a wonderful, lovable person !

✧･Selfshippers who ship with obscure or unpopular character

- You give them the love that they deserve and that the rest of the fandom didn't procure !

✧･ And shoutout to many more, to each of you that I didn't specifically write about ♥️✨!

- Feel free to add more to the list if you want !

I hope y'all are having a wonderful day / night :3 ❣