So Um, Hi? Long Time No See? Like, Really Long

So um, hi? Long time no see? Like, really long 😓

So honestly this account will probably be going through a few changes as I decide what to do with it but first and foremost please note that it will still be kink and agere education and safety.

Few things to note:

I am 20, please for the love of the gods do not ask me to be your domme or caregiver if you are a minor!!! I love you all and I don’t mind you being here if you are 16+. (We’ll get to why in a sec) however, asking me(a stranger on the internet) to participate in any sort of dynamic with a power imbalance is super dangerous and makes me very concerned. Also it makes me a little uncomfy given the age and knowledge difference.

This account will be 16+. I say that because even though I do NOT and will NEVER condone participating in kink while you are underaged, I know I can’t stop you. And as someone who started learning about kink and Cgl as a minor I know how hard it is to get safe and accurate information on how to be safe. I’m happy to talk with you and answer questions in dms or through asks but I will never support actively participating in anything remotely kink related until you are 18. I encourage you to learn as much as you can so that when you’re of legal age and ready to dip your toes in you can be as safe as possible about it.

I’m just here to provide what I was denied. Because ignorance is how people get hurt doing things they know nothing about. Therefore let me know what you want to see talked about!!! Subjects you want to know about or just think aren’t talked about enough in the community!! I’ll try and be as active as possible but I make no promises, till then, be good, be safe, and have fun!

So um I have a mommy thing.... and it’s hard to come out and say yes I like being lg for mommy than daddy but it hard to meet a female that like that and I guess my reason is because I was raised without my mom in my life but I am bisexual I find mommy more better any thoughts on how I could meet someone

Hey there sweet pea! Sad to say but I get this one a lot. Finding a caregiver is the same as dating just with a few extra requirements. The best advice I can give is just to put yourself out there and talk to people. There are plenty of mommy run blogs such as this one on here and groups on apps like whisper. You could even try a few groups on Facebook and that may also help you find your local community. My one big warning is to be careful of what you send other people. Especially if you are doing something online only. Take your time and get to know people. The internet will let you meet a much larger pool of people than just sticking to your local community however, it also means that you may come across many more people who are only after sex or nudes or to hurt you. Keep an eye out for red flags and if you’re unsure then ask someone for their opinion. More often than not, someone who is unbiased can see more than you can. That’s as much advice as I can give on that and feel free to message me if you have any more questions lovely. Be good, be safe, and have fun!

Bought my first piece of furniture that is completely mine. Not a hand me down or bought with money I didn’t earn. Wish I had a little to cuddle with because it has the perfect space for a blanket fort 😔

Sprinkle Jar Craft

So I have a *small* obsession with candles and candle melts so today me and my little friend made jars with shredded candle melts or “sprinkles” in them so you can mix and match smells in a candle wax warmer! These were super cute and super fun to make so I thought I’d share it here. It’s easy and fun to do either alone or with your little or cg or just a group of friends!

You’re gonna need

-candle melts

-exacto knife

-jelly jars(any size works!)

*optional

-paint

-glitter

-paint brushes

-mod podge

-anything else you want to decorate the jars with!

First you wanna shred up your candle melts. You might want to have supervision for this little loves and be careful! Take the exacto knife and cut thin slices off the candle melts and put them into the jars. If you’re using yankee candle candle melts then they should just crumble up no problem and no knife needed!

You wanna do that till all the jars are full but not all the way to the top. You can fill as few or as many jars as you want!

Next we painted the lids white and let them dry, this might take a few coats to get them all white!

After that we put mod podge on the top part of the lid and coated it with glitter. I ended up doing two coats to make it extra sparkly. I used a bowl to put the excess glitter in so I could pour it back in the jar later

Then we let everything dry and put the lids on the jars and here’s what we had!

And that’s it! That’s all for today lovelies. It’s been a while so I wanted something fun for you guys to do! I hope you enjoy and if you make any I’d love to see them! Be good, be safe, and have fun!

For all my lovelies who might need a little nudge to help yourself. I know this may not change your mind on what you think people might do but hopefully it gives you a bit of confidence to do something that will help make being social just a little easier for you. I’ve had friends call me mid-anxiety attack because of having to socialize without something to help ease their mind. I hope this helps even one of you, then I will have done my job. Be good, be safe, and have fun!

God I really wish carrying stuffed animals around with you was socially acceptable

Talking with my friend. He hasn’t been happy in space in a while and definitely usually doesn’t accept compliments. I’m so proud of how far he’s come