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Our little hyung (pt.1)

Soooooo, I've been meaning to write a little!yoongi because I am a sucker for that. So sorry if this is shit. Also this will be like a intro to the story so if it goes well I'll continue it.

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Yoongi sat inside his studio, he was on the verge of smashing his head on the table in front of him. He stared at his computer, the beat he was working on had kept him locked up in the studio for four days. The beat was off and it was giving him a massive headache but he knew that he needed to perfect it before his mind and body will allow him to relax. He wanted to slip so badly but with how long he hasn't returned to the dorm or the fact he hasn't replied to their calls or texts, someone was was bound to walk in on him.

He stared at the bottom drawer of his desk, it contained everything he needed to slip. He thought over and just thought fuck it. He locked the door, knowing full well that one of his members has a key to his studio but it was worth a shot. He kneeled down and unlocked the drawer, he looked at the stash he kept in that drawer just in case he gets a little too stressed and needs a little time to regress.

You see, the adorably savage rapper named Min Yoongi is a little. A person who mentally regresses to the age of a toddler to the ages of a young child for either sexual or nonsexual reasons. Yoongi regresses because it helps with his stress and anxiety and all had his adult problems that overwhelm his big self, his regression is purely nonsexual. Also he likes wearing skirts and other feminine attire when in little space

Yoongi, trying hard not to slip before he was ready, pulled out a set of clothes that consisted of a baby pink sweater maybe a size or two too big, a grey pleated skater skirt with a thick waist band and some thigh high periwinkle blue socks. He pulled out a hooded kumamon blanket and a worn bear stuffie he has named Suga and finally he grabbed his pacifier that had a little clip. He placed everything on his chair before striping down to his boxers.

He pulled the sweater over his head and admired how soft and fluffy it was before slipping on the skirt, tucking the sweater in a bit. He sad down as his pulled the socks over his thin legs until they stopped at mid-thigh. He grabbed the the clip of the paci and clipped it to the waistband of his skirt. He quickly put on a playlist of piano and music box music, letting it play through the speakers to fill the room with soft beautiful sounds, before grabbing the blanket and stuffing then shuffling his socked feet to the couch in his studio.

He laid down, pulling the hood of the blanket over his head and adjusting it to cover his lover body and legs. He popped the paci into mouth and snuggled closer to the stuffie as he started to slip. He didn't fight the sleep, with another quick snuggle into the bear and a soft 'night night suga' to his bear, he was put like a light, just hugging his stuffing and softly sucking on his paci.

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Jeongguk fiddled with the door of Yoongi's studio. He had been tasked by Namjoon and Jin to bring home Yoongi. Jeongguk had the key to the studio so he just got up and headed straight for the studio. It was late and they hadn't heard from Yoongi for five days and they were worried. They were given the week to rest before returning to practices for a concert.

Yoongi spent most of the free week cooped up in his studio. Jeongguk could hear the faint melodic music from the other side of the door. The door clicked open and Jeongguk slowly opened the door because he ain't dying at the hands of a potentially grumpy, stressed and tired hyung. Once the door was fully opened and closed behind him, he could die because of how cute his hyung was. Yoongi was curled up into a little ball, his face hidden behind a bear and the hood of his blanket hovering over his forehead. Jeongguk kneeled by the sleeping man and started to shake his hyung gently.

"Hyung, hyung, get up. You haven't been back in five days, we're worried sick." Yoongi let out a soft groan to signify that he was waking up. Jeongguk moved back to give the older to get up. Yoongi sat up the blanket and stuffie moving, he cutely started to rub his eyes with his sweater paw, his paci and skirt were now on full display.

When Yoongi got his senses and saw Jeongguk, he moved back in fear because his secret was exposed and he started crying, his crying kinda muffled due to the paci. Jeongguk didn't realize he was staring until the sound of crying snapped him out of his daze.

"Hyung, why are you crying?" The younger tried to get closer to him but Yoongi moved back again to avoid him. Yoongi's paci fell out of his mouth as he cried out his response. "Ko-kookie hate Yoonie. Yoonie yucky." Jeongguk could tell that this was not his hyung's normal behaviour, well it doesn't take a genius to tell.

Jeongguk went into, an unknown to him, daddy mode. He moved the elder to his lap as he sat on the couch. He hugged the elder while patting his back in a soothing manner to calm the crying man. "No, I don't hate Yoonie. I can never hate Yoonie, okay? So stop crying so you can tell Kookie what is going on, okay?" Yoongi nodded slightly as his sobs turned into sniffles.

"You finished Yoonie? Can you tell Kookie what is going on? Yoongi shifted slightly on Jeongguk's lap. "I wittle. I wike stuffies and skirwts." Jeongguk nodded at Yoongi's response. He remembers reading about something like this during the late night when he was bored and couldn't sleep.

He remembered from his late night 'research' that people called 'littles' like his hyung, need a caregiver when they are in their head space. "Does Yoonie have a caregiver?" He asked the little, who refused to look at him. Yoongi shook his head no. "No caregiver. Big Yoonie too busy." Jeongguk thought over it, he had a crazy idea but an idea nonetheless.

"Do you want a caregiver? I can be your caregiver." Yoongi's head snapped up to meet the younger's eyes, a happy twinkle in the little's eyes. "Rweally?!" He showed a big gummy smile to the younger. The maknae returned the smile and a nod.

"Yeah! Yoonie has caregiver. Daddy Kookie." Yoongi clamped his hands over his mouth when he realized what he said. "What did you call me...baby boy? Come on tell Kookie." Jeongguk teased the little with the pet name. Yoongi went beet red from the name Jeongguk called him. "Da-daddy." Yoongi stuttered, hiding behind his hair and sweater paws.

Jeongguk chuckled at his hyung's reaction. "That's right. I'm your daddy now, okay? Now pack up, let's go home. The others have been worried sick." Yoongi scrambled off of Jeongguk, the blanket falling to the floor, revealing the full outfit to the younger. Yoongi forced himself into big space so he can fix up. He quickly packed his backpack, stuffing his old clothes, phone and other things he brought with him into the bag. He didn't bother to change because his old clothes we disgusting. He quickly saved his progress on his unfinished song and closed everything and shut off his computer and equipment.

Yoongi slung the bag onto his back and reached back into the drawer and pulled out some black mary janes. He slipped them on before heading back to where Jeongguk was sitting. He stood in front of the younger boy and went back to little space. He looked at the younger and made grabby hand, well, grabby paws. "Uppies daddy."

Jeongguk chuckled "put on a mask first, baby boy." Yoongi fiddled with his bag and got a black face mask and put it on. Jeongguk smiled his cute bunny smile and squatted down so Yoongi can get on his back. Yoongi wasted no time getting on his back, draping his arms on the younger's shoulders and jumping when Jeongguk started standing straight.

Jeongguk turned off the lights and locked the door behind them. He walked them home and on the way, his little fell asleep, his head resting on Jeongguk's shoulder.

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Jeongguk entered the dorm, being careful not to wake up Yoongi. He shifted Yoongi to carry him on his hip while he removed their shoes. He walked into the dorm's living room to see Namjoon and Jin. "Jeongguk-ah, I told you to bring home Yoongi-hyung, not a girl." Namjoon said, referring to the skirted figure in Jeongguk's arms.

"I did hyung, the person I'm carrying is Yoongi-hyung." They seemed baffled by the maknae's words. Jeongguk put the figure on the couch and peeled off the mask to reveal the peacefully sleeping face of the one and only, Min Yoongi.

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Sooooo, I literally have no idea what I am writing, well, I do but like did this make sense. I hope it does. I'll try to continue this soon.

In the mood for something sappy and sensual

Milky alts can be found on my Twitter 🙈

Awwwww… He thinks I’m pretty 🥰

You’re just a pretty urinal with an attitude.

momma, momma. ON HOLD. - jimin. "repeat after me; i'm mommy's" (on Wattpad) http://my.w.tt/UiNb/AquR089ZGD a collection of bts x reader drabbles of mommy dom and daddy dom.

momma, momma. ON HOLD. - jungkook. " were you a bad boy or a good boy?" (on Wattpad) http://my.w.tt/UiNb/oLEBmxo0GD a collection of bts x reader drabbles of mommy dom and daddy dom.

Would love diapers this thick.

Son looking for a daddy

penguins!!! im goings to shows daddy whens he gets backs! (image is from google so yeah, not mines)

❣️Every Day❣️

Me: I love you daddy

Daddy: I love you too

*five seconds later*

Me: *interrupts daddy in the middle of a sentence*

Me: I love you daddy

Valentine’s Care!

Hi everyone! Happy Valentines Day! Love it or hate it, it’s Valentine’s Day. Not the happiest of days for a lot of people. If you’re lucky enough to have a caregiver or little take the time today to show them how much you care! Treat them like the adorable little princes and princesses that they are. And Little’s take time today to show your caregiver how much you appreciate what they do. Be on your best behavior, color them a picture or make them something cute! Don’t think I forgot about all you single caregivers and Little’s. As much as you may or may not hate today, take this time to pamper yourself! You’ve earned it! Take a bubble bath or have a cartoon marathon with your stuffies. Just relax and take a day for yourself. You deserve it. Just a friendly reminder to everyone. My inbox is always open if you need it, I don’t bite I promise ☺️

Stuffies!

Stuffies are one of the greatest gifts to ever bless this world. They come in all shapes, sizes, and species. They can be bought in large numbers and be considered a bed or mean more than anything else in the world to someone. Now, how to go about getting one:

Yard sales!

•probably the cheapest way to get stuffies

•never know what you’ll find

•they have character and a story if you think about it

• however, yard sale stuffies MUST BE WASHED! You can never tell what someone else’s house was like before they moved or had the yard sale. Carefully wash all stuffies per maker guidelines and put in a plastic bag for 24hrs or more to kill any bugs or eggs that are on or inside them. I know it’s exciting getting new stuffies but you have to be careful

Online!

• online shopping is probably the next cheapest way to buy stuffies depending on where you shop.

• some places will custom make you something

• you can find specific stuffies you want

• you can send them to your significant other without paying high shipping fees like you would through a post office

• however what you gain in prices you lose in guarantee.

• some places are scams

• some places are low quality

• you can usually avoid this by looking at reviews and other people’s purchases but nothing is 100% full proof.

Stores!

•Lastly we have stores which don’t tend to be extremely cheap but you do get to see the product in the flesh before you buy

• guaranteed quality

• you can shop specific stores for specific things

• some stores let you make and dress up your stuffie yourself

• however like with the yard sale stuffies you need to clean these unles you bought them in a sealed packaging

• lots of people go in and out of that store and put their hands on those stuffies too so it’s better safe than sorry

I really hope this was helpful! Just some stuffie tips for all you Littles and caregivers out there!

So I’m a little and my gf knows this. She knows I want a cg, and she’s asked if I would want her to be mine. Then she asks what to do differently and how to exactly be that, and I don’t know what to say! I get embarrassed when she’s asks, help!

Omg I’m so sorry I didn’t see this till now. I would say just talk to her. I know it’s embarrassing but communication is absolutely key to any relationship. You have to put your needs on the table and tell her how you need her to care for you. So before you talk to her make a list of your needs and wants. The rules you need to help you and the things you want out of it. It’ll take a while and you’ll have to be patient until she gets the hang of it. Start gradually and go from there. But you absolutely have to put communication first so any problems can be worked out as soon as possible. It’s great she’s willing to listen and adapt so don’t let that go to waste.

Rules!!

Rules are the basis for many cg/l and d/s relationships. They allow for an exchange of power and give the dominant or caregiver a way to help the little or submissive grow and learn as a person. I’ve met and talked to a lot of people that have trouble making a basic rule list that works for them weather it be the dominant or submissive making it. So this is my basic list. It’s all the rules I would usually include:

1. ready for bed (shower, brush teeth, pajamas, etc) by 9pm

2. In bed and asleep by 10pm

3. No bringing harm to yourself

4. No harming others unless in self defense

5. At least two good meals a day

6. Always tell me if you will be gone for long periods of time, why, and how long. (I will never control who you hang out with, just wanna know you're safe)

7. Absolutely NO drugs or alcohol unless prescribed by a doctor.

8. Always ask for sweets.

9. No sweets after 9pm

10. Refusing to do an AGREED UPON punishment will result in a worsened punishment. (This is not saying punishments can not be taken off limits or discussed. Your feelings come first in all of this. It just serves as a warning to do what you're told when you break a rule.

11. You will never hold back on how you feel about things like rules or punishments. This is for your safety and happiness

12. You are ALWAYS allowed to come to me with any problem, concern, or worry 24/7

13. Clean your room once a week

14. No getting in trouble at school

15. No junk food unless you ask first

16. No talking bad about yourself

17. No cussing

18. Talk to me at least once a day no matter what

19. Try your best in everything

Rules vary greatly from person to person. I believe rules should always be negotiable for the submissives saftey and happiness. Making compromises that suit you both is an essential part in making this work. ALWAYS keep a clear line of communication between you and your partner. I can speak from experience that ignoring a problem or leaving it to fester will only make it worse for the both of you. I hope this helps lovelies ☺️

Long Distance Relationships

Long distance relationships are, in my opinion, one of the absolute hardest to make work. And make work for the long haul. There are so many things that could go wrong but when those things don’t it only makes you and your partner closer and stronger than anyone else. Let’s go over the pros and cons of general ldr first.

*pros

- you have literally an entire planet of people to pick from so you’re bound to find your soulmate somewhere

- You have a reason to save money and do better for yourself and go see somewhere new with someone you love

- Making it work will only make the both of you stronger together

- You can discover a new culture/society/ place and learn about life for your partner wherever they live

- You can teach someone new traditions and customs

- You don’t have to pay outrageous shipping fees to send them something if you get it online.

- These are only the ones I could think of. Feel free to add your own if they aren’t here!

*cons

- little to no physical contact

- Time zone differences

- You need to trust your partner 100%

- Late nights and early mornings because of time differences

- Loneliness from lack of physical contact

- Idiots butting into your personal life because they feel they know best

- The closest you can get for now is Skype calls and FaceTime

- Not being able to scare those who hurt your significant other.

You can compare those two lists and make your own assessment on which matters more. I personally prefer long distance in the beginning but once I’ve found that special person I want to spend my life with I want them as close as possible.

Now onto ldr for cg/l and d/s relationships. These include all of the pros and cons from the first two lists with a couple extra cons due to the nature of these relationships.

- ABSOLUTE TRUST. cg/l and d/s relationships already require much more trust than a vanilla or normal relationship so to do them long distance you need even more.

- Punishments are a bit of a Grey area. You have to trust that your little or submissive will follow through with them especially for the ones you really have no way of checking.

- COMMUNICATION. I don’t think I could ever say this enough but communication is so. Fluffin. Important! Long distance makes communication hard as it is so with cg/l and d/s relationships again needing even more of it than normal it becomes a huge issue a lot of times. You need to communicate any and all problems or concerns to your partner when you are long distance especially because they are not there. They can not read your body language or nervous ticks and habits from miles and miles and miles away.

Okay now onto the part where I do my best to help.

_ Skype (play)dates and scenes can be very helpful with being more connected with your partner. Get creative with those camera angles people because you’ll need it.

As far as punishments go there are a few that can be done and you can know they got done correctly.

- writing lines

- Skyping while the sub or little sits in corner time

- Dictionary definitions

- Silent treatment

- I know most of these seem childish but they are effective. If you have any more feel free to add them!

And lastly but certainly not least COMMUNICATION

-weekly talk it out sessions where once a week you both sit down and have a serious talk about your lives, thoughts, concerns, relationship, the whole shabang.

-being clear and open about what’s on your mind

-lay it all out. Don’t hide anything. It will come back to haunt you later.

That is all I have for today if you have any questions, comments, concerns, feel free to contact me. Be good, stay safe, and have fun!

Self Care

Self care is so important for caregivers/doms and Littles/subs alike. It is important for doms because subs depend on you to take care of them and you can not do that without taking care of yourself first. Think of it like this, an empty battery can not power something else. You need to feel good to make sure they feel good. Subs need to care for themselves because you can not always count on a dom to be able to completely care for you especially if you don’t have one.

Dom selfcare.

- let yourself relax. Take a day to just give yourself a re charge

- Take a warm bath

- Jam out to music

- Make yourself a nice meal

- Order take out and laze around in sweats with Netflix or Hulu

- Take a mid day nap

- Binge your favorite show

- Talk to someone and just let out your frustration

Sub selfcare

- Drown in your headspace and let your problems float away.

- Cuddle with your stuffies

- Make a pillow fort

- Take a bubble bath

- Stay in your jammies all day

- Eat an okay amount of sweets and junk food(something not detrimental to your health)

- Color to your hearts content

- Dance around the house to music

Everyone needs to take the occasional personal day to work on themselves and recharge. No matter what helps you do that, it’s worth it if it helps to better yourself. You can not help others if you can’t help yourself.

I know this is shorter than usual but it’s something that I felt needed to be said. Until next time Be good, stay safe, and have fun!

Safe words!

We’re talking safewords words today kiddos. In my opinion, they are one of the most important aspects in this community next to communication but they also go hand in hand. A safeword is a word used during a scene or 24/7 sub/dom (and the nsfw side of cg/l) dynamic. It needs to be something you would never accidentally say while in the moment or just in everyday life.

Common Safe words-

* green for go

* Yellow for slow down or need a break

* Red for stop immediately

I refer to this as coloring out and I’ve seen the term used a lot in the community. I believe that while doing an intense scene or pushing your subs limits you should check on them throughout by asking their color.

Other Safeword suggestions

* pineapple

* Unicorn

* Dragon

* Freeze

* Mango

* Phone number (from a book. It’s actually sad)

* Ladybug

* Apple

* Drop

The list could go on and on and on. It just has to be a random word that will get your doms attention quickly. Doms who do not listen to safe words are to be avoided at all costs. This is very bad and very dangerous for the submissive, safewords are there to protect you. Not to be taken lightly.

Those are verbal safewords, if the sub can not speak for this or that reason then there are still ways to give them the ability to safeword.

* hold a ball in your hand. Drop it to safeword.

* A small metal bar, drop to safeword

* Tap a designated spot on your body

* Clap( if possible)

* If not, shake your hands(like jazz hands)

* A button strapped to the subs palm, press it so it makes an alerting noise

These can also go on and on. It is really just what works for you and what will get your doms attention efficiently.

A fair amount of new subs or subs with a new dominant do not like to safeword because they feel it makes them look weak, this is absolutely not the case. Safewords are always appropriate whenever they are needed! Do not force yourself to do something you are not comfortable with to please anyone! They are meant to keep you safe, comfortable, and happy.

That’s all for today. Be good, be safe, and have fun!

Dom Drop and Sub Drop

Okay lovelies I will be covering subdrop AND domdrop tomorrow. It’s gonna be long. It’s gonna be extensive but if there’s anything you feel should definitely be in there or an experience you’ve personally had with either of them and you want me to add what helped you or how you knew what was going on or the symptoms you feel need to be covered let me know!!!! Either through anon or messages my inbox is always open but with such a serious topic I want to make sure I cover every base possible. Thank you for all your help lovelies!! Be good, be safe, and have fun!

Subdrop

For the multi-roll labeling purpose today I’m going to refer to it as Drop. Drop happens usually after an intense scene but can also happen after any scene if it was particularly pleasurable and draining. Drop is the result of your brain releasing “happy chemicals” and adrenaline in large doses during a scene and then your body and mental state going through a withdrawal essentially because they are not coming in at such high doses after the scene has ended. For subs it usually happens within a day or two of the scene. However, for doms it could be several days before it kicks in and really hits you. It’s especially bad for subs and doms with anxiety or self doubt. I will be covering both subdrop and domdrop today because they are both very real and could potentially be very dangerous.

Subdrop-

Subdrop tends to happen a day or two after a scene. It does not always happen but those no real way to guarantee it won’t happen so it’s good to keep an eye out for it any time. There are a lot of different ways it can show up. Let’s talk about the physical things first

- It can show up as feeling like a hangover

- like you stayed up too late (even if you got more than enough sleep)

- you could wake up feeling just off

- Drop can be associated with feelings of loneliness, mental and physical exhaustion, confusion, insecurity, tremors and many other physical symptoms.

Not so random fact: pain can make you tired. You’re going to feel it and it’s going to wear your energy down, and your body is going to be short on chemicals to give you a boost. This can make you crash and suddenly become exhausted, and being tired can make you emotional.

Honestly, the emotional side is the more dangerous half. Emotions can wreak havoc on our logic,you could be great one minute like normal, then suddenly you’re completely out of it and it can be mental torture.

- you could feel abandoned

- Depression(especially if you already have it on a daily basis)

- Even feeling unloved is common during subdrop.

Subdrop can not be prevented or avoided entirely. You can try but there’s no sure fire way to do so. Here’s how to help subdrop:

- If you can get to your dom and they can help you calm down and reassure you with cuddles and words that works fairly well for most people.

- COMMUNICATION( I really can not say that enough) Text or call your Dom as soon as possible.

- if you can’t get a hold of them, you need to stop and evaluate.

- Remind yourself that sub drop is normal

- remind yourself of what happened during and after the session.

- There should have been some type of aftercare, go back to that moment and stay there.

- Remember how loved you felt, hold on to the fact that your dom cares for you.

- Take your self to a happy place with happy and positive thoughts

If you’re feeling a little emotional, think of what makes you feel better when you’re sick (because you kind of are). A warm blanket, a bubble bath, candy, a favorite drink, music, etc. If you are someone who likes to journal, keep a notebook with you to write out how you feel to get the words out and down, this might also help you clear your head before you talk to your Dom.

Okay I know I was supposed to have this up a while ago but I had several things come up. I just recently got a new job and that’s been taking up a lot more of my free time which was sparse enough since I try to meet with my friends often. As you can see this only covers subdrop. I’m not confident in the level of research I’ve been able to do on domdrop and don’t want to give vague or incorrect information to you guys. I’ll try to get it done soon but no promises. I will also be at daughters of the moon which is a Wiccan event this weekend so contact and any sort of posting will be delayed until at least Monday. As always be good, stay safe, and have fun!

My Little friend is spending the night and he’s in space and cute as fluff and caregiver space is realllllllllll! Guys, I’m dying ahhhh

Just found it funny that this is casual conversation for me and my friends. I’ve also been called “The Mom That Gives”. Being the mom friend is so nice. Anyways I’m all settled into the new place for the most part. I should be back to posting soon but I’m also still looking for a job so when that happens I might have to slow down a bit. I’ve seen a few people saying their ask box isn’t working so if you’ve sent me an ask or a message and haven’t gotten any sort of reply then please contact me on my kik: Freshie_Fangirl or my Snapchat by the same name. That’s all for now, be good, be safe, and have fun!