Tbh, I Made This Account To Be A Feminist And Talk About Sex Positivity Issues Related To Women. But.

Tbh, I made this account to be a feminist and talk about sex positivity issues related to women. But. I think men have it worse than us in some ways.

A woman who discusses having sex is worried over and treated as a victim. A man who has sex is suspected of being a creep or predator. I think we gotta stop seeing men as the enemy.

Feminism was about equality, not a battle between men and women. We've lost sight of that.

This may sound wild, but sex-positivity should include positivity for people who don’t have sex.

How no nut november went for me last year:

First day: Feel normal

Next few days: Pleasant amounts of desire, kind of fun sexual fantasies and enjoying the experience

November fifth: Pain😭 (I ended up jacking off in the employee restroom at the retail store i worked at during my 15min break💀)

Since then my sex drive has only increased and I've begun jerking off in public restrooms every day. Will my boyfriend and I survive November this year? Certainly not, but I think it would be funny to try.

Masturbated so hard today that my ears were ringing? Didn't even cum though but like damn wtf

Gotta be honest, I'm pretty pleased with myself.

Women have the right to love having sex.

Women have the right to never want to have sex.

Women have the right to choose how much sex we want to have, and with whom.

Women can experience attraction.

Women can enjoy sexual pleasure.

Women can prefer never to think about sex.

We are autonomous and have the right to choose who we would like to have sex with and what sexual acts we would like to engage in.

We should not feel obligated to engage in sexual acts with anyone we don't want to.

We should not feel ashamed of our bodies or our desire.

(Note: this post applies to people of all genders!)

I hate how teen sexuality is handled, as if saying "teens shouldn't be sexual" will turn off hormones and instincts and sensory + dopamine cravings and everything else that contributes to making people horny

And it leads to danger for these kids. I was one of these kids. My puberty was wild and I was obsessed with sex by the time I was twelve while knowing I shouldn't be, that it was morally bad for me and that I was a bad and gross person for it, especially because I was a little girl and little girls don't get horny. Girls are the objects, we cannot lust. We cannot want or crave.

And this leads to letting people use us and do what they want without knowing what we actually want because we're not ALLOWED to want. And then if things go bad, well, it was our fault for wanting sex at all! And then we end up in our 30s, still stupidly horny because that's just who we are sometimes, with a lot of trauma to unpack surrounding sexuality, learning to communicate about it because talking about sex was bad to do, and maybe HPV and a precancerous cervix from all the secret dangerous experimentation we did as teens. :)

And if we talk about this even from the perspective of "this is about my experience as a teenager who has grown up" you get people accusing you of all sorts of creep behavior. I don't want to be involved with anyone who isn't in their mid 20s thru 70s personally. I just don't think kids should grow up believing that sex is the worst thing they can be interested in so that they have to hide the bad sex they're having with people twice their age and not talk about it ever to anyone. It's fucked up to me. Kids deserve proper sex education that isn't steeped in puritanical values and heteronormativity.