Gonna Be Honest With You

Gonna be honest with you

CDD community is shitty 98% of the time and systems don't help to make it a better place but worst

Thx for reading

I'll never understand why people get angry when systems have a problematic alters with a problematic/anti-recovery way of coping, or act horrible

It's all a trauma response, it's all based on what they understand and know as a way of trying to live. It would be normal to have this kind of parts cause CDD it's a disorder caused by a severely traumatized kid, and if their environment is that horrible of course the kid won't know how to cope in healthy ways and problematic/anti-recovery/horribly bad alters will appear

Am I saying that this alters should front and do whatever they want without consequences because they're traumatized? Of course not!!

What I'm trying to say is don't invisivilize this alters, don't say like they're a horrible thing that shouldn't happen, don't stigmatize alters that are like that, they're like that for a reason, and try to ignore them and treat them bad is just going to make worst the process of healing for them and you

You should acknowledge this parts, recognize they do wrong but they also have to heal. There gonna be alters that don't want to heal and are gonna be a dick head trough the process, but that doesn't mean you won't include them in the healing process, just put them aside for another part

And is they do wrong or something nocive for the system, body or externals you have to take accountability and try to control that best, I know it's difficult and sometimes you can't control this parts, but taking accountability and trying to repair the damages they made it's a very important thing

Please, let's stop pretending like this kind of alters doesn't exist or if you know they exist stop treating them like someone who doesn't deserve healing, sometimes treating them worst because of what they are makes so much difficult or worst for them to acknowledge they're doing wrong and help them grow and heal

That's my opinion, have a nice day/night :D

I like how some systems have their own singletsona online that basically is a drawing of the body or how they wanna look

But everytime that I see an avatar singlet sona they're alway pretty human-like, or if they're non-human they look like an elf or something that's enough human like, and I mean, there's nothing wrong with that, after all systems can present themselves as a whole however the heck they want, but I want to see more non-human avatar singletsonas

So in the same topic here, I present a full body drawing of our avatar singletsona :D

When you think about us think about this

That's us irl /j

Also if you pay enough attention you'll see our pfp is a drawing of our singletsona, it was originally a gif, but it was to big to put the gis as a pfp, so bonus point, here's the gif

And if you have an avatar singletsona and you're willing to share, please repost this with yours, I will love to see them!! /nf

This!!

Why would you think is ok to use another disorder to fakeclaim, attack and minimize someone? You're just helping the stigma

calling endos and DID fakers delusional or schizophrenic is ableist btw and if you do this and refuse to change you're ableist!!

(this post is not defending endos it's defending psychotic and schizospec people)

The moment when your brain decide is time to get a flashback and dreams about that person/system who hurt us a lot so all the system gets triggered and now all the subsystem of introjects of that person/system is frontstuck alone feeling like they're their source even though they know they're not

Help us, we don't want to front like this

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Sometimes I don't know who's mos toxic

Fakeclaimers or the CDD community with itself