All But Bi, I Consider Myself M-spec But More Specifically Pan And Don't View Myself As Categorized Under

all but bi, I consider myself m-spec but more specifically pan and don't view myself as categorized under bi personally

shoutout to people who are all 5 letters in LGBTQ

you know what, extra shoutout to people who are all 7 letters in LGBTQIA

I feel like it isn't talked about enough how traumatizing growing up with intermittent explosive disorder is. I've had this self image of monstrousness metaphorically beaten into me from a very young age, constantly told that it's all my fault if things escalate from somebody triggering my anger, how I just don't have enough control over my emotions and that's the only issue. Never mind the shit people expect me to just take and accept, it's MY fault if I explode because apparently my needs and feelings don't matter at all.

And then I'M the one who has to apologize for hurting the other party's feelings, as if that crime wasn't committed by them onto me as well. I won't apologize to someone who isn't remorseful for hurting me, I don't care how much I hurt them in return. You backed the coyote into a corner and get surprised when it attacks. My ability to not accept bullshit anymore has been labeled as 'going backwards in recovery' because that 'recovery' was just being told to bottle up everything and walk on eggshells, and I'll be damned if I'm going to do that anymore.

hey quick reminder to queer inclus people that when you’re talking about lesbians you’re talking about ALL lesbians. i say this because a lot of people say “transmasc people and trans men” when talking about lesbians who are men, and… you guys see trans men as men, right? because all men can be lesbians, including cis men.

same thing goes for gay women. cis women can be gay too. sexuality is made up!! do whatever you want forever

(queer exclus fuck off i’ll block you ❤️)

me, dejectedly repositioning the scissors away from the surgery site: aw, man...

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“Temporary stitches” all stitches are temporary if you have a pair of scissors and aren’t a coward

Maybe it's because it's a special interest of mine, but my queer identity brings me so much joy and comfort. I love having this winding and complex identity that I can play with and express myself in. Being butch is awesome, being a transneumascfem agender person is awesome, being a boygirl is awesome, being a pan aroacespec gaybian is awesome, being intersex is amazing, having xenogenders and neopronouns is so fucking rad, GAH I adore being queer so much

I'm usually the one who blocks and moves on, but seeing as the situation is apparently STILL happening despite the fact that this person supposedly blocked us and everyone else involved, clearly blocking isn't enough. My circle is having their words twisted and used against them, and since we're all blocked we cannot defend ourselves aside from separate posts. Since I wasn't originally involved, I have no clue if the person will start misconstruing MY words as well, but this drama has me in too much of a chokehold to ignore it now.

This whole thing started from a post about how 'love loses' is harmful. THEY went into the notes to have a tantrum.... need I remind you all of that? This cowardly, sniveling fuck is hiding behind a 'block' that they actively choose not to respect. We have sources that allow us to be aware of what they're doing because quite frankly none of us are too happy with their defaming twists on the situation, and since THEY won't let it go tabs have to be kept. I think I can speak for everyone involved when I say this: please fuck off. I'm tired of hearing about my circle being hurt and harassed over something none of us fucking started. Grow the hell up and leave us alone.

*sigh* Alright. I must address the fiasco that has been going on lately.

To summarize, a friend of ours made a post calling out the harmful nature of the 'love loses' phrase, and started getting hate for it. A larger creator (the coiner of Unitypunk to be exact), was one of the people who got their panties in a twist about this post. Icarus saw this and, since the maker of the original post is our friend, got upset and took it upon himself to stand up against the mindless hate drone that showed up on our friend's blog. This caused the person, who we will identify as @/xxlovelynovaxx, to go off on Icarus, as well. This ended in us getting blocked. They blocked us, because they are so genuinely livid about someone calling out the bullshit phrase they put on a pedestal.

Now, this is so petty and childish that I wasn't going to get involved, but we have since learned they are cyberstalking a system within our circle. This is a huge claim, I know, but rest assured that we are not pulling this out of our ass:

Here is a post detailing the situation further (link)

And just going on Nova's blog will show you all you need. They feature screenshots of Anarchy's tagging system during their public tantrum (we know this, because Anarchy has been notified by someone who remains unblocked). Nova is/was actively lurking on a blog they blocked over petty shit, and perhaps they are doing that with us, as well.

Now, this isn't a call to get them deplatformed (though I am of the opinion that someone so childish should not have any leverage in communities), nor is it a call for mass reporting. It is, rather, a need to bring their behavior to light for what it is: harassment. This anger towards being told 'love loses is harmful' is completely childish, and they are making people feel unsafe in their own spaces due to their need to die on the 'love loses uwu' hill. That is absolutely unacceptable.

That is all, for now. No doubt this post may make a debut on their blog, if my theory is correct and they are also lurking on our blog as well.