Bullying - Tumblr Posts - Page 2
I will never understand why people bully others - its pathetic and stupid. As an ex-victim of bullying I will tell you that bullies are just pathetic excuse of a people with low- self-esteem. If someone is bullying you or your friend/relative make an action, tell someone you trust.
Anon Hate IS Illegal.
Guys, I’m not kidding.
Suicide-baiting, cyberharassmemt, cyberstalking, death/rape threats, and hate speech are illegal in all 50 states as well as Australia and the UK.
Some places include school suspension or expels. Some even include jail time for multiple years.
And yes, they can find someone by username or IP alone.
Also, yes. There are methods of catching someone’s IP. Even under a VPN.
So.
Next time you get hit with anon hate?
Casually remind them you can very easily take this to the next level. And they can earn jail time while you lay back in your chair, having saved yourself and everyone else from a violent criminal.
Your online actions have real life consequences.
Make sure they learn that.
(Just in case there’s a “the police wouldn’t do that” - Yes. They absolutely would.
Or a “I can handle it.” No. That person will continue to harass others as well. And one of them may not be as strong as you. So do it for them and everyone else.
Or a “It’s not that severe.” Yes. It is. People have died because of this. It really is that severe.)
Take action. And make sure the lives of these bullies are truly wrecked.
High school
When I was in high school during my freshman I got bullied during gym class. My hair was wet and I kept it in a bun while it was wet. People pointed and teased me and the teacher did nothing. He just looked at me and stay silent. During my last year of high school everyone that teased me could barely pass. I passed successfully without a problem and I'm starting college in September. The others two have a baby on the way and a couple others are getting in trouble. Never let people get you down because at the end of the day you'll be successful and everyone else will be in trouble. Keep your head up.
LONG STATUS UPDATE
please excuse the poor grammar and stuff, I wrote this frantically in a text to my friend
This guy came up to me a few minutes ago and he starts saying sorry to me on repeat, and I’m like “why are you sorry” and he says “you like blocked me on snapchat” and i say “i don’t have snapchat he says “i mean instagram” “i don’t have instagram” “on the phone…?” “I don’t know you” [all of below is done in a mocking or bad tone, like how a conservative tiktok interviewer would ask/say, trust me he was not being genuine or nice] Then he says “Do you actually like pierce the veil” (my shirt), I tell him yes and he’s like WHAT REALLY and i say “idk i like some of their songs” so he says “do you like my chemical romance” and i tell him idk sure [At this point, I can tell he is bothering me because I look emo and he’s against that or smth?] He then asks me to rate his friend and I say “i don’t know he just looks like a guy to me” and he’s very pushy about it. and i say “7” to satisfy him, so he asks me to rate HIM and I say “7” because I do not care anymore at this point Then he asks me if i support the lgbtq [i can tell at this point he probably thinks i’m gay and that’s mainly why he is bothering me. AWESOME I LOVE HOMOPHOBIA /sar] THEN he asks me if I like andrew tate [i have seen this trap before online, where people bring up the human trafficking and they’re met with “there’s not enough evidence”] so i give him a genuine answer about things he actually and truly did undeniably that I disagreed with, not even really political stuff but i felt epic and mature about it HAHA then he says sorry for bothering me [i don’t think he means it] and shakes my hand and leaves
i just hope he didn’t record me.
tl;dr, a guy acting like a street tiktoker harassed me in public
And y’know what? A lot of bullying is not exactly visible. A lot of bullying I have experienced and have seen other autistic people experience is through gaslighting and manipulation of our lack of understanding of social norms. People would act like my friend, and I would not get the message that they were being mean to me straight to my face, like the concept of being my friend was a joke to them. It hurts deeply, and it’s awful because I tried to bring it up to adults, and they wouldn’t take me seriously. It’s so isolating, and I’m tired of bullying being seen as something you can hear, as just verbal insults or slamming into lockers. It’s usually more covert and more devious than that.
all public school anti-bullying activism is extremely transparent and meaningless
I recently attended a meeting at my eldest's middle school. He (his chosen pronoun) is autistic and trans, although he hasn't transitioned. Still, he has vibes. He's also fairly aggressive with his peers. He's trying to be funny most of the time and this usually doesn't go well. In recent months there have been several kids who've ganged up on him, especially at lunch. They ruin his food, throw rocks at him, and call him gay slurs. He's miserable.
Reader, I went into that meeting with the intention of having a Cooperative Attitude. I tend to go mama bear pretty fast with school admin and I was Not Going to Do That this time.
Until the principal sat there and earnestly informed me that he was not being bullied. If he defends himself, it's a conflict, not a bullying situation.
Mind you he's one kid, with no one sticking up for him, against groups of attackers.
The only reason I didn't go full nuclear is because my husband was there and he interrupted before I blew my top. We needed a document from the school for his residency paperwork otherwise he's usually the first to blow.
One of the teachers present had the wisdom to assert that it *was* bullying and that allowed me to deescalate.
And I had to point out the power differential to this principal between an autistic kid and a fucking *group* accosting him daily and she finally admitted it was a problem.
I'm still feeling shabby, ngl.
I hate Bullies.
forever grieving the life i couldve had- the person i couldve been- had it all never happened to me
Harry Styles: Stoic - Foreword (on Wattpad) http://my.w.tt/UiNb/zcCrBuLaFG People fear death even more than pain. It's strange that they fear death. Life hurts a lot more than death. At the point of death, the pain is over. Yeah, I guess it is a friend... -Jim Morrison "WHY WON'T YOU LET ME LOVE YOU?!" Harry screams, tears profusely running down his slightly indented cheeks, falling and gathering into small pools in the small indents of his clavicles and moistening the ends of his long brown hair. "Why won't you let me touch you.... caress you? Why?" he says his husky voice now barely audible and cracking from crying. I remain silent and stoic which by the way I've gotten pretty good at over the years. I never, I mean never ever express emotion because it shows weakness and vulnerability and only the strong survives in this cruel, corrupt, condemned, and so-called world I live in. My facade was particularly built on that." Ebony please.. Talk to me... say something...PLEASE!" Harry cries and pleads desperately. I continue to stare impassively at the door behind him not daring to make eye contact. Right now the idea of making a run for it all the way home and then locking myself in a room from feeling the guilt that I deserved, with just me and my very much appreciated friend, my blade, seems very appeasing to me. Subconsciously, I slip both hands in my pockets just to make sure it was still safely stored in my hoodie's pocket. Running the rough pad of my index fingertip along the edge of the blade, I release a soft and inaudible sigh of content as I feel it slightly slice through the calloused layer of skin. The pain feels so good. Pain is what has kept me alive all of these years. Pain makes me feel... real....
Harry Styles: Stoic - Foreword (on Wattpad) http://my.w.tt/UiNb/hGFwlOSaFG People fear death even more than pain. It's strange that they fear death. Life hurts a lot more than death. At the point of death, the pain is over. Yeah, I guess it is a friend... -Jim Morrison "WHY WON'T YOU LET ME LOVE YOU?!" Harry screams, tears profusely running down his slightly indented cheeks, falling and gathering into small pools in the small indents of his clavicles and moistening the ends of his long brown hair. "Why won't you let me touch you.... caress you? Why?" he says his husky voice now barely audible and cracking from crying. I remain silent and stoic which by the way I've gotten pretty good at over the years. I never, I mean never ever express emotion because it shows weakness and vulnerability and only the strong survives in this cruel, corrupt, condemned, and so-called world I live in. My facade was particularly built on that." Ebony please.. Talk to me... say something...PLEASE!" Harry cries and pleads desperately. I continue to stare impassively at the door behind him not daring to make eye contact. Right now the idea of making a run for it all the way home and then locking myself in a room from feeling the guilt that I deserved, with just me and my very much appreciated friend, my blade, seems very appeasing to me. Subconsciously, I slip both hands in my pockets just to make sure it was still safely stored in my hoodie's pocket. Running the rough pad of my index fingertip along the edge of the blade, I release a soft and inaudible sigh of content as I feel it slightly slice through the calloused layer of skin. The pain feels so good. Pain is what has kept me alive all of these years. Pain makes me feel... real....
I just realized why Snape was so crazy in the Shrieking Shack, third book
He thought Sirius was the reason Lily died.
Snape has always appeared collected that far in the series and it always struck me as odd that he has such a huge and bloodthirsty reaction and then calmed down towards Sirius in OOTP.
Has everyone already known this?
I just realized why Snape was so crazy in the Shrieking Shack, third book
He thought Sirius was the reason Lily died.
Snape has always appeared collected that far in the series and it always struck me as odd that he has such a huge and bloodthirsty reaction and then calmed down towards Sirius in OOTP.
Has everyone already known this?
Loner-Peter Parker *TH*
*I wrote this almost three years ago so sorry if it’s really cingey*
Warnings-Hurtful words, bullying
*Y/n POV*
See, high school sucks if none of you have noticed. I'm what you may call it, a loner. No one really knows who I am. I'm usually studying, or at lunch I usually have my nose stuck in a book. Also, I have a crush on Peter Parker. But there's no way that we would end up together because even though he's also a nerd like me, he is still more popular than me.
I'm at my locker putting some things away. Then Liz Allen comes up behind me and shoves me into the locker.
"Hey nerd!" She yells in my face.
"Hi..." I say quietly.
"Why are you so quiet today?" Liz yells again.
"No reason but just please leave me alone..." I respond.
"Whatever loser! I'll see you later" She shoves me again and I drop my books. 'Let's just go to class y/n' I say to myself.
*At lunch*
I'm sitting at a table in the lunchroom alone because I have no friends to eat lunch With. I brought my favorite book with me to read during lunch. I would occasionally look up and stare at Peter. He is so adorable. Hopefully he doesn't realize that I'm staring at him.
*Peter's POV* I was sitting with Ned during lunch just staring at the table. I was thinking about how I'm Spider-Man and I basically am a superhero! I feel someone tap me on the shoulder. I look up an see that Ned has his hand on my shoulder,
"Dude look," He averts his eyes towards y/n, "She was looking at you man..."
I feel a strange heat come to my cheeks. 'Am I blushing?' I think to myself.
"You know Ned, even though I like her, there's no way someone as beautiful as her likes me back..." I say with disappointment laced in my voice.
"Look man, she does like you! I promise you! The way she looks at you during classes, means that she likes you back! NOW get your butt up NOW and go and make a MOVE!!!!" Ned yells at me pushing my up... I smile at him and thank him but then Liz comes over with a sweet smile.
"Hey Peter!" She waves at me, "See I have this party that i'm..." I tune her out and look over her shoulder. I see her look at me then quickly glance away. She grabs her stuff and heads out the blue cafeteria doors. I interrupt Liz by saying,
"Yeah umm that sounds cool! Bye now! I gotta go!" I run off after y/n as quick as my spidey legs can go. I see her walking to the outside of the school and run up to her.
"Y/N! Wait up!" I yell. She turns around and smiles faintly at me.
"Oh hey Peter! Do you need anything?" She asks me.
I take a deep breath prepared to tell her about the way I feel about her.
"Well all I need you to do is listen..." She nods slowly at me with confusion written all over her face.
"Ok so, umm. Ok, I've l-liked you for a w-while now and I just w-wanted to let you k-know.." I stutter a lot but still confess my feelings. I hear her chuckle, and I look up feeling more worried. I close my eyes and sigh, I was about to walk away when I feel someone grab my arm and turn me around. Then I feel a pair of soft/gentle lips on mine. I slightly gasp in shock but then immediately kiss back, and that makes her smile into the kiss... I put my hands on her waist while her hands go around my neck... I pull back smiling at her...
"You don't know how long i've been waiting to hear those words come out of your mouth..." She chuckles softly with her little cute smile on her face.
"Well then, would you do me the honor of being my girlfriend?" I ask. She kisses my cheek softly and whispers, "Yes I will!" I cup her face and kiss her softly again...
'Man I could get used to kissing her lips over and over again...' I think to myself as I smile into the kiss...
Word Count: 694
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I hope you guys liked my first imagine! This one was ok but hopefully my writing will get better!
-Bye!!
Transgender-1
I hate hearing that being transgender is a mental illness. I know that it is a fact, but it just makes it sound like what I am doing and saying is wrong. As if it were a problem. Something that needs to be fixed. I also hate that people doubt discrimination against them. That is what leads most trans people to commit suicide. The discrimination. The mental torture. They give up on their dreams to be who they want to be, and for what...? To appease the uneducated bastards who refuse to let them be who they are. I have never understood the bullying against them- against anyone. Whether they are gay, transgender, gender fluid, or even a normal, average child, I can't understand the mindset behind bullying. What is the point of hurting someone just because you don't understand them? Just because you have a negative opinion of them? If you are the person who acts this way towards anyone, listen to what I say next very carefully. DIE. Why don't you kill yourself, you bastard? You aren't worth anything. Your life is meaningless. You shouldn't have been born. Kill yourself. Do the world a favor and die. ... How does that feel? Would you like to hear everyone in school scream that at you every day? Would you like trash and food to be thrown at you? Would you like to be beaten? No? That's fucking funny. Ironic. Hypocritical. Expected. If you don't want that to be done to you, don't do it to someone else. For all the bullied, Get help. In any way you can. Get strong and hit back. Tell your parents. Tell the principal. All of your teachers. Anything is better that giving up and giving in. -MadaraManiac
"Commetti errori ma non pentirti.
È cosi' che si impara."
Ovvero: perche', in Harry Potter, i personaggi integralmente buoni (uno solo, in verita') sono personaggi incompiuti. Senza evoluzione propria. Non sono stati sottoposti alle stesse prove degli altri e percio' agiscono in automatico, senza dubbi e domande, in un certo senso diventando inumani.
E spiega anche perche' Lily sia adorata da Piton, ma non "amata" dal pubblico in senso stretto. Chi non perdona non ha nemmeno bisogno di perdono. Basta a se stessa.
E Lily non ha mai perdonato.
Ha cancellato Piton dalla sua sua vita e ha immaginato che James fosse un'altra persona. Cio' le è stato sufficiente a sposarlo, ma in realta' avrebbe potuto sposare un qualunque Grifondoro.
Perche' mai?...
Perche' appartiene all'Ordine e sarebbe vicino a Silente.
Perche' su Lily, il giudizio degli altri ha un peso diverso rispetto a Piton. Lei ha paura fin da piccola di essere esclusa, di essere disprezzata. Anche Piton detesta essere escluso, chiaramente, ma lui ne' e' consapevole e reagisce, seppure violentemente e incoerentemente. Lily sembra del tutto inconsapevole di essere condizionata dal giudizio degli altri ("parlano tutti male di te, non so piu' come giustificarti!") e ha persino mantenuto rapporti con la sorella che la disprezzava, bacchettando Piton quando la metteva in guardia. E condannando Harry, di fatto, a undici anni di una vita miserabile con zia Petunia.
Non che lo abbia fatto apposta... ma se Lily rappresenta un modello femminile, non la si puo' certo definire un modello desiderabile e progressista.
La sua "soluzione" al bullismo e' stato sposare un bullo. Cosa che Piton non poteva fare, e che altre ragazze non vorrebbero nemmeno.
Sarebbe bello vedere una tesi di laurea su questo tipo di argomenti, sembra che siano in tanti a farne su Harry Potter: se qualcuno è disponibile a farsi leggere, mi contatti in privato.
Tengo a precisare una cosa evidente, talmente evidente che nessuno ci fa piu' caso.
Il bullismo si attua verso le persone piu' deboli, socialmente parlando, cioe' che sono diverse da tutti gli altri.
Non me ne frega niente se Piton è forte con la Magia Oscura, è debole in quanto la pensa diversamente dagli altri ed e' isolato. La sua unica opportunita' era diventare bravo in quello che è il suo forte.
Chi non capisce questo, non capisce nulla.
Non puoi bullizzare una persona carina. Perche' è bella, nessuno ti viene dietro, pensano che sei scemo. La bellezza è un canone estetico che porta al successo.
E non puoi bullizzare un ragazzo popolare, perche' non penseranno che lui è una metda, ma che tu sei invidioso. Infatti Remus, testuali parole, dice che Piton era invidioso perche' James era bravo a quidditch.
Se ti prendono di mira, non puoi reagire con la sfessa tecnica della calunnia e della sopraffazione. Perche' ai piu' sembrerai patetico. Quindi, letteralmente, Piton non poteva bullizzare i Malandrini.
Io non contesto Lily per essersi sposata con James. La discuto per il modo in cui lo ha fatto. Come se lei stesse dalla parte della bellezza e della popolarita'. Come se Piton fosse una vittima sacrificale per la propria deformita', fisica o morale.
Il che fa sembrare Lily come se avesse una patata al posto del cervello.
E critico chi non si rende conto di queste cose.
Non credo che Jk volesse valorizzare un bullo perche' attraente e famoso. Credo che bisogna imparare a separare quello che dicono e fanno i personaggi dal significato della storia.
Non si puo' dire di un personaggio: "era una stronsa anche lei". Prima di tutto, non e' elegante dal punto di vista stilistico. 😅 Bisogna farlo capire con azioni, discorsi, esempi. È normale che Piton si innamori della prima strega che incontra, la sola persona che lo tratta con gentilezza. Il che non vuol dire che Lily fosse perfetta.
I regret not telling people to chop off their heads.
Okay, let me give you a little bit backstory. My dead name is Sofia and when I was little people called me Sofia the first like the show and I would always get mad at them. that would make them smile. So I wish that instead of getting mad at them, I wish I would just smile and just yell at them "if I'm a princess then I order you to chop off your heads."
The look on their faces would have been priceless.🤣