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enoughdonegone
7 years ago
After My Abortion, I Was In Really Rough Shape. I Told Him That I Didnt Think I Could Have Sex For While.

After my abortion, I was in really rough shape. I told him that I didn’t think I could have sex for while.  He responded with this.

My response is humiliating. He made me come over at 2am and offer myself up. I did.

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enoughdonegone
6 years ago

"So are we going to do it today or what?"

He'd ask me at 10am and hold me to it in the evening. Not that it mattered. The answer was always 'yes' because it was not a good thing to say 'no'.

There are playful, sweet or smouldering ways to ask these things and keep a mood going all day.

This wasn't that. This was a contractual obligation. And it didn't matter what happened to me the rest of the day. If i wasn't ready when he decided it was time, there were consequences.

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