Necessary Discussions - Tumblr Posts

i don't really know how to say this but i think we (the aro community) need to have a discussion about like, how not every romantic relationship or feeling is automatically amatonormative, and that it's not The Concept Of Romance that's the problem but the societal prioritization of romance over every other relationship, but uhhh i don't know how to say it without writing a whole essay so if someone who's better at words than me wants to weigh in