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I love pretty women. When I say pretty I mean pretty both in and out. Those women whose heart and character are as pretty as their face. Those women who are loyal, kind and loving and genuinely wish good for others and doesn't see other women as competition. Those women who moves with God and pure intentions no matter what the situation is. If these lines describe you girl I just want to say that you are amazing and you're one of those rare ones.

If you are feeling low or demotivated, just remember that you had people envying you when you're at your rock bottom. Do you even have an idea about how much powerful you should be to trigger such response in people..?

One thing I learnt in my life is not all people will have genuine heart and pure intentions like you. Being kind and nice makes people to take you for granted or make them to walk all over you. Not everybody will reciprocate your kindness and not everybody deserves it. Some times you need to learn how to treat people with rudeness even though it feels like going out of your character because some people really deserve it.

I would rather sit all alone by myself than to sit with those stupid people who literally brings nothing to the table except bullshit and drama. I value my time and energy more than people's company and I can't afford to waste it on some random morons.

If putting myself first makes me a selfish person, then I will be the most selfish person in the world. I got my priorities straight, you either accept my mindset or get the hell out of my way. I am not here to entertain anybody, I am here to build the life of my dreams. Period.

If you know people's nature you'll definitely know how precious privacy is. It's completely fine to keep some things to yourself. Just because they're your friends or family that doesn't mean you're obligated to tell everything about your life to them. Privacy is the ultimate shield against evil eye and negative energies. Period.

It doens't matter how much of a good person you're from your heart, some people still gonna hate you because you are the reflection of what they wish they could be. You trigger their insecurities by the way you do things in a certain way or the way you outshine people. These people project their insecurities onto you by hating on you, because you do things which they thought they're incapable of and when you do it in a bold way, their ego and self-esteem will get threatened and they hate the way how it made them feel. So people hating on you had nothing to do with you but it has everything to do with their self esteem and self perception they have for themselves.

My toxic trait is I don't mind cutting off people out of my life when they did me wrong. Some people say just forgive and get over it, but definitely I am not the type to do that kind of shit. Once you lost my trust, you lost me forever. Once you did me wrong there is no way you're coming back into my life. For me, my inner peace matters more than your entire existence. Period.

“Your relationship with yourself sets the tone for every other relationship you have.”

Robert Holden

youtube channels for the girls

the wizard liz: self concept, advice , mindset

rita kaminski: manifestation, law of assumption

simonesquared: mindset , manifestation

stephanie concepcion: vlogs , makeup routines

manifestelle: advice , self work , mindset , feminity

madeleine abeid: pilates workouts

persephonesmind: feminity , mindset

deb smikle: funny content, storytimes

jasmine le: productive vlogs, fashion, makeup routines

sheena kim: aesthetic vlogs

adelala: productivity, vlogs

nailea devora: funny content, fashion, vlogs

via li: self love , vlogs

lenalifts: routines, tips

dear peachie: find your face/eyes/etc shape , makeups that fits you. HER CHANNEL IS A LIFE SAVER

I thought I'm ugly. Sometimes I still think I am. Ever since working and building a relationship with Aphrodite its been like this looking in the mirror:

Me, staring at myself and acne: wow thats ug-

Aphrodite: i dare you.

Me: naturally occuring, im very pretty

Aphrodite: mhm.

Me, just looking at the mirror to see if I look good in my dress:

Aphrodite: YES! GORGEOUS, DARLING! BEAUTIFUL!

Me, passing by a mirror, in the same dress, at the mall: hey i kinda look-

Aphrodite: PRETTY! VERY VERY PRETTY! GOODNESS, SO GORGEOUS

And not only that, I've been able to control my anger better. its like she amped my patience! Yes, I asked her to bless my heart and fill it with love to share with people. And I believe to love is to be patient. Sure, I lose control every now and then but then again, I'm just a human who has a long way to go!

Thank you to Lady Aphrodite for helping me become a better and more loving person to myself and others. A long way to go but the journey isnt loney, I had Aphrodite to hold my hand and guide me to the right paths of life 🩷