Places Of Peace - Tumblr Posts
~::Checking In ::~
Most days I don't know what to say.
To myself, let alone anyone else.
I admit much of the time I even falter there where I'm so up in my head I can't see into my hands to recognize language, but I made a friend here the last month or so that speaks a language I understand. Holds conversations in a light that has energy and self-respect. Decency and Equality.
I don't really know from here how I'll be coming around. I've been writing a lot more lately, so I may be posting into my feelings by way of poetry and writing segments more often, but I'm also exploring things about myself where there's been a unique window of opportunity to do so presented to me I am really dear to and in that, may post more relatable to the recent materials, both by way of reblogs as I have and my own personal content.
Regardless of what I do here, it will always include making some time to boost up those whom I can not show enough that I want to boost up in return. Not as a favor, but as gratitude in the discovery of who they are. As a means to celebrate them. Mutuals, friends, and should anything more come as well.
We should all be so fortunate to find ourselves here today. Alive, tech equipped, . Able to have a window like this to reach out, even if it's not wholly relatable to most. Others listen. Even when things seem quiet, someone is paying attention, and they care.
I'm grateful for the admittingly few but very special connections I've made here over the years, often in times like this, and this particular occasion is no different.
Thanks for coming to another diatribe of mine.
I'm trying to make them as .. optimistic going forward..
-R.
Healing isnt just getting well so you can go make the same mistakes. I think a lot of you worry about that; "Well, what's the point when I always end up here?", because if you keep ending up here, you haven't healed what needed to be for that standard, that routine or path to change.
Healing is a form of self education. Learning what you need to know better what's good for you and what isn't. A COMPASS. You are establishing a compass of morality and emotional stability so you can see the bad before it sees you. So in the event you're approached by that same old spicy distracting allure, you have a sense of worth that overweighs the lust of a temporarily good thing in a cute human saying the right thing having seen the weakness of opportunity. You ARE stronger than that weakness, but it's an active Choice to seek that strength and use it to your advantage.
For you. Heal. For your safety. Heal. For your heart. Heal. For your soul. Heal.
There's a lot of really awful hate in this world, for no reason at all.. practice love.
Practice Love, especially with yourself. It sounds fucking stupid, psych nonsense or squishy cushion fairytale...
I love you, Tumblr Stranger.
I love you, Tumblr Mutual.
I love you, Followers and Friends.
If people can hate for no reason, why not lead by example Loving without one?
The world is a scary place. It's even scarier when you feel alone. Know that this is a safe space, Always. And you are Never Alone.
__________💔•About Healing•❤️__________
Healing isnt just getting well so you can go make the same mistakes. I think a lot of you worry about that; "Well, what's the point when I always end up here?", because if you keep ending up here, you haven't healed what needed to be for that standard, that routine or path to change.
Healing is a form of self education. Learning what you need to know better what's good for you and what isn't. A COMPASS. You are establishing a compass of morality and emotional stability so you can see the bad before it sees you. So in the event you're approached by that same old spicy distracting allure, you have a sense of worth that overweighs the lust of a temporarily good thing in a cute human saying the right thing having seen the weakness of opportunity. You ARE stronger than that weakness, but it's an active Choice to seek that strength and use it to your advantage.
For you. Heal. For your safety. Heal. For your heart. Heal. For your soul. Heal.
There's a lot of really awful hate in this world, for no reason at all.. practice love.
Practice Love, especially with yourself. It sounds fucking stupid, psych nonsense or squishy cushion fairytale...
I love you, Tumblr Stranger.
I love you, Tumblr Mutual.
I love you, Followers and Friends.
If people can hate for no reason, why not lead by example Loving without one?
The world is a scary place. It's even scarier when you feel alone. Know that this is a safe space, Always. And you are Never Alone. 🌿
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I want to be smacked around until I stop giggling from the endorphin reaction and you keep going
Some lewds with face for once <3
71 followers of 458
I always say quality over quantity.
Thank you for continuing to be here with me, everyone.
A snippet from the Museum
O'Keefe is one of my favorite artists, and I had the great pleasure to see some so close I could smell the oils.
I wanted to share the ones I liked most with you.
Milwaukee, W.I.📍
•Robin
BEAUTIFUL PERSON AWARD! Once you are given this award you’re supposed to paste it in the asks of eight people who deserve it. If you break the chain nothing happens, but it's sweet to know someone thinks you’re beautiful inside and out! 💙
Awwwwwww 💛💙💛💙
Thank you! Super very sweet! 🥰🥰💐
i think love is stored in nighttime conversations and “did you eat yet” and books left outside your door and “i waited to watch this with you” and splitting something in half to share and “im proud of you” and folded towels and “you can pick” and heads on shoulders and “you’re right, that was shitty. im sorry” and knocks on doors and “DINNER!” and stupid jokes and “hey i got this for you” and coffee made just right and… there are so many ways people say i love you silently every day over and over again if you only listen
The phrase "a sign of the times" originates from biblical texts, specifically in Matthew 16:3, where Jesus refers to interpreting "the signs of the times" as a way to understand unfolding events. It evolved to describe trends or occurrences that reflect the prevailing cultural, social, or political atmosphere.
The Holy Bible, 2011. New International Version. Zondervan. Matthew 16:3
When the light cast just right
When she was threadbare and bone tired
He could peer into every corner of her soul
Oh, the things he could see:
A glimpse of wild
Whispers of wonderful and awful things
Childlike wonder
Terrible tales she would never recount
Stolen moments of pure joy
But what she hoped most for him to see
Was her desire,
Her need
To drown in the depths of him
-BB💕
Consider this,.
Some can't see shapes in clouds. Not because they aren't trying, but because imagination is so scarce for some in the struggle of their realities needs. As life eases, so too will the whimsy of the mind as it holds less pressure, more comfort, gentle, breathable spaces.
There is peace in seeing them, and to me, there is peace knowing I can get back to seeing them as well.
hiii i just wanted to say that i love how you are such a positive energy around here, always expressing sweet and warm things to everyone and creating such a friendly and gentle vibe. it makes me smile everytime! thank you for being you and doing what you do💖
(sorry for being anon, it’s @/traded-my-soul-for-a-minute here, but off-anon this ask would send from my main blog and i’m trying to keep the two at least a bit separate!☺️)
This is so incredibly sweet. 💝💗
I genuinely do try to bring a visible Zest For Life and living healthy to the table with my thoughts and feelings.
I don't post self-deprecating things that aren't just a spicy humor.
This blog doesn't post or react to anything about being stupid unless I'm dropping reminders in how Special and Important we all are to have here and to find ourselves here for us. In the world.
What I give I needed a lot of growing up,. I want to give others what I didn't. Selflessly. Openly. From based honesty and effort of my own.
It's important to remember achieving "Perfection" is a myth handed down by those who hold a stigmatized view of some humans being better in any way than others. Isn't true. .
Achieve perfection for YOU. Find the best you that you can and soak in the warmth of all that'll bring in the peace of it's acceptance for yourself.
This is so kind and gentle to come and provide such an awareness and again allow me the opportunity to express in return why and how and give thanks to that being such a well recieved message. 💛💚
It's important to see good,. Especially in places many of us go to run and escape all the bad and hard and painful a while. Spicy as this place can be, it doesn't need to be toxic to bask in nor add to it. I choose Honesty and Empathy forward, always.
_______🌿Learning New Languages🌿______
Saying what you mean and how to say that Clearly in communication can sometimes be difficult all on its own as n area of development.
We want to be heard, understood,. But how do we come about being receptive in a way that's good to Us?
It's easy to fall back into the simplicity of self diminishing languages. Punishing ourselves for the smallest little things and inconveniences. You know what's not simple? Trying to stop when you've made it a habit in every event you don't do to your own satisfaction.
It's harder still to stop when there are self deprecating jokes in the social circles. Most think nothing of it,. A little jab. A little prod at the amusement of others to open their mouths and say something that befits no one with heart.
This goes with another Write that I did here about Practicing Mindful Positivity.
This is no different. From the media you consume to the people you socialize with and the areas you frequent. Some of you realize you put in a lot here, only to get the same energy out you do anywhere else you try. Part of that could be from bringing in the same energy (feeling like you're the mistake, making all the mistakes), but more than not, you're surrounded by unconsensual meda.
Media you have control of, but it's hard to weed out the negative in a place so many go to unload the negative and put so much of that out in the world. It's important to vent. It's IMPORTANT to Vent., to not hold all that in, but there's also Passive Release over Agressive Release.
You can talk about your day., your work, your stubbed toes or cut hand without it being how Stupid you were in this or how Dumb that was to do and you knew better..
You made mistakes. The day felt like a loss, but you kept trying. Things got worse, and now you're worse for wear than you started. It wasn't the day you deserved, but it's the one despite your efforts for good, and to get back up, you ended up tired, aching, and maimed on the ground. You can't say you didn't try and try. The point again is not to succeed. It's to try until you feel you do enough for you, and in many cases of practicing enough, you do succeed, and that always feels good! It's okay to be mad. It's OKAY to be frustrated and Voice that, but consider a blog Just for the harder things you need to vent, going over it a few times there and trying to rewrite it with the same energy, but in a positive and maybe even Educational sort of way, even if only for yourself. That's a well dedicated page of method, development and atonement, healthier than any name calling or diminishing of your effort.
Practice. Practice. Practice.
Positivity, like any other energy, can and does take habit after a time. You put it into practice, you make routines of those practices, those routines become mindful awarenesses and before you know it, the flowers are reaching through the picket boards just begging for a little attention from so much sunshine walking.
Language is super important.
We need it to communicate with ourselves and with others. It should be utilized in a way both those aspects hold happiness, if not educational awareness. Development. GROWTH.
The same things all these posts are about rely Wholly on Communication. Before anyone else, with yourself. This is a harder lesson for many. To stop punishing yourself in your head, in your words, in the way you write things and take blame for EVERYTHING. Sorry sorry sorry sorry no. Stop being sorry for everything, not all that is yours to carry. Let's dust you off, straighten that crown and remember,.
You are in charge. You have a say. Make that say for and about you in the most Uplifting and Positive ways you can. It won't be easy to start., but by the time it's routine, you'll see you in the mirror again, and you'll be smiling.
You matter. Your VOICE matters. Don't let it or you go unheard another day. ♻️
Do Unto Others includes YOU. 🌿
I'm proud of you for being here today.
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