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I'm responding to a post from Linked In ..
Too many of you aren’t being accountable - you prefer to blame your family, employees, society, or someone random instead of yourself. It’s your biggest weakness and the thing that’s holding you back from happiness. When you learn to blame yourself blindly, you learn how to be happy. Tag the most accountable person you know!
Accountability is the defacto excuse used by successful people on why unsuccessful people are unsuccessful. Esp, when it comes to happiness.
Here,s the problem w that argument. Unsuccessful people aren't unhappy. And, on the flip side .. successful people are not happy either.
But, focusing on unsuccessful people for a moment .. Unsuccessful people are unable to leverage their resources the way successful people can. For an unsuccessful people to invest their time into a pet project and grow it, there has to be a reward waiting. Everything that is done on the project must produce a positive reward. A dopamine kick.
No matter how small the move is .. it must have an immediate reward attached to it. Then, when that project is published, can the proceeds be rolled into the next project and so on.
This is what makes an unsuccessful person successful. Slow, steady, consistent effort toward an overall goal.
Those interest baring investments you made by betting on 1000s of different things. Yes, your skills and lucky helped you to win. Even poker players are proud of you. But, unsuccessful people can't play poker. Nor can they gamble w their rent. No, they are on a fixed income and have a fixed monthly nutt they have to make.
That's accountability
Remember to go a little easier on yourself. You'll never get to where you want to be if you keep pushing yourself beyond your limits. That's just a recipe for disastrous burnout. Trust me.
Back at it 💪🏽
just imagine make out sessions in your dorm with bakugo. the only light in the room being a dark purple from the single led light strip on your head bored. slow and soothing r&b music playing in the back quietly, love song by kaash paige on. you both are sitting on the edge of your bed, bodies twisted to the side to face each other. your hands on his cheeks and his at your waist, pulling you closer to him. your lips moving soft and sensually against each other’s, enjoying each other’s presence. he’s pawing at your sides, desperate and needy for more. you giggle and gladly let his tongue find its way into your mouth, the kiss is hot and needy, but yet it still remains slow. the heat emitting from his body and the way his tongue explores your mouth has your head spinning, lost in thought. the chorus to the song starts and you pull away, bakugo chasing your lips and whining when you hold his face still. you mouth the words, “and if we paint a perfect picture we can make it last forever, and you’re the only one i want to wear my orange sweater” he rolls his eyes and you laugh, moving his head with your hands as you keep singing. “i told you i am down for the worse or the better, but i keep sticking to you cause them four stupid letters” you lean in and continue your previous make out sesh and he just smiles against your lips.