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Im so normal about tis man its insane
Epilogue :)
Yknow the line "he'd speed up my mind when it was sluggish" in the journal 3 lost pages? Yea this is how I think that went
god i love saltburn so much. every time i see a post about it i go INSANE. hyperfixation moment
MAYBE GIVE US A WARNING NEXT TIME???? MAYBE DO IT IN PRIVATE NEXT TIME???? so i can kiss you
this got me shaking. literally.
excuse my poorly manicured hand
decided to add badges cause my username looks too empty on my posts </3
I am both so happy for OP and so so so jealous
my wife told me apparently she and her friends talk about how big my boobs are getting while im not around???
It took me a while to figure out I was demisexual, because I'd always heard it defined as "only experiencing sexual attraction when you've formed a strong emotional bond with someone." But, I discovered last year that that's not the only framework for understanding demisexuality!
Sharing this guide by Rebe Libe as an informational post about demisexuality!
What is demisexuality? What does it mean to be demisexual?
Demisexuals don't experience primary sexual attraction. Primary sexual attraction is based on sight or smell or other instantly available information.
Demisexuals do experience secondary sexual attraction (after knowing more about the person than just their looks). How much demisexuals need to know about said person and for how long they need to know about them for secondary sexual attraction to kick in varies from person to person.
Is it the same for allosexuals?
Allosexuals experience primary sexual attraction but that doesn't mean they want to act on it all the time, it's just a feeling.
They also experience secondary sexual attraction in the sense that they find a person extra attractive if they are attracted for who they are as a person.
Is it the same for asexuals?
Asexuals don't experience primary nor secondary sexual attraction.
Do demisexuals need to have romantic feelings for a person in order to experience sexual attraction towards them?
No, demisexuals don't need to have romantic feelings for a person to be sexually attracted to them.
It is common for both sexual attraction and romantic attraction to be present at the same time, so it can be confused as both needing to be present for secondary sexual attraction to develop but it's not necessary.
Demisexuals can enjoy a person’s presence or be attracted to some of their qualities without having an interest in dating them or building a romantic relationship with them.
Do I have to have a BOND with the person to be attracted to them?
No, attraction for demis can also be one-sided.
You can feel like you know a person and enjoy what they show or share about themselves without personally knowing them that much or at all.
Or course how much demisexuals need to know about a person, before they feel sexually attracted to them, really varies from person to person. There's no specific timeline on how long it takes either.
Can demisexuals be sexually attracted to celebrities or influencers?
Yes, demisexuals can feel attracted to celebrities, it's easy to get to imagine how a person's personality is, without personally getting to know them, with all the info celebrities usually share about their lives in interviews and their own personal plataforms.
That doesn't mean you actually know who they are or if they are being genuine or not, but you can still feel attracted for how you think they are.
Can demisexuals be sexually attracted to fictional characters?
Yes, demisexuals can be attracted to fictional characters, it's also common for demisexuals to be attracted to a character played by an actor but feel no attraction to the actor themself. Demisexuals can also experience sexual attraction towards fictional characters in other media, like books, webcomics, etc.
Can demisexuals have sex with people they aren't sexually attracted to?
Demisexuality is about attraction, NOT action. Demis can definitely have or want sex even without needing to be sexually attracted to the other person.
The same thing happens with asexuals, there are asexuals who enjoy sex for different reasons. They could enjoy the feeling itself, the activity with their partners, etc.
There are also demis who don't desire sex without feeling sexually attracted to the other person. Both things are normal, it more so depends on the person's attitute toward sex.
What are the different attitudes towards sex? (this terminology is also applicable to, and comes from, the wider ace community)
Sex repulsed: Feeling repulsed, uninterested or uncomfortable by the though of engaging in sex. Sex-repulsed aces don't want to engage sexually and that's okay.
Sex-indifferent: No particular feelings toward sex. You might enjoy it but you could also live without it. It could also mean literal "indifference": no positive or negative feelings toward it. Just neutral. Sex indifferent aces might not pursue sex but be okay with engaging.
Sex-favorable: You enjoy sex for multiple reasons and would seek it out (to get or give physical pleasure, as an activity with a partner, etc.). ~~~ Hopefully that was informative! I also want to name that demisexuality is a spectrum. Some demis do need to be deeply bonded and have only experienced sexual attraction a handful of times in their entire lives. I, on the other hand, am at the opposite end of that spectrum and can experience attraction after spending just a few days with someone. What we have in common, though, is that we don't experience primary attraction; most of the time I don't develop romantic or sexual feelings that I want to act on when I first meet someone, even people who I end up being very attracted to.
Interrupting your scrolling to bring you ROCK LEE IN A TANK TOP
I LOVE HIM SO MUCH IM SO HAPPY FOR HIM I JUST AKFKVKKXOAKFWORLVOZKAJAJ
various baldis for a school project :thumpsup:
[reblogs are very much appreciated!]
WHO GAVE THIS FUCK ASS SONG PERMISSION TO DIG INTO MY BRAIN LIKE A PARASITE????
GET TO KNOW ME ♡ Favorite Characters → Kate Austen
“Welcome to the wonderful world of not knowing what the hell’s going on.”
SO GLAD SOMEBODY EFFING POSTED THIS THANK YOU SO FDREWAKING MUXH!!OEBDIEUBCIBEOWFCV
✨💫 TWST JP "ABSOLUTELY BEAUTIFUL" FULL 3D PERFORMANCE 💫✨
I needed to share this video because it was region locked for this year's April Fools, but we finally got the full performance of the VDC tribe in TWST FES last year....😭🫶
WE WON EVERYONE 🎉🎊
LOOK AT THEM!!! 😭🎉🎉
How’d you spend your evening on your 31st birthday?
Oh me? Thanks for asking. I tried to process the death of a fictional character I really liked by writing sad fanfiction about the guy who loved him from afar also processing his death. Cheers.
“it’s just a girl harmonizing with her fan” wrong! it’s the song arthur hummed to his only daughter, over the rushing water and the sobs caught in his throat, as he held her body in his arms. it’s the song he hummed to comfort her, even though she was gone, and he knew it was all his fault.
every time riot calls olivier ollie i gain +1 year on my life
hey harrow your boy blue is coming out 😈😈
planning a nice day trip with Kelly (@here4kpopfics) and MG (@echotoyou) and tell me why, when Kelly mentions she's going to bring her epipen, the first thing i say is, "i've always wanted to stab someone with one of those boys!!!"