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The introvert urge to take yourself on a solo date. Buy yourself a nice cup of coffee, a couple of good books, a nice meal and go on a drive vibing to your favourite music.
Sometimes impulsive decisions are the best.
As usual again i saw the pirated version of salaar but seeing the theatre videos on Instagram made me want to go to that movie so bad. I asked my frnds to come. It was all good till their parents did not agree. Though i knew the answer was going to be no (we used the same reason that we used for animal the og project reason) i prayed they'd come. Today morning i decided i will go alone without telling my parents. Selected safe theatre but wasn't able to book tickets online. So i decided I'd directly buy at the theatre. So i started early and went to 5 shops to get change as i had go in an auto. After finally getting change i stopped a auto. I was prepared he is going to ask minimum 120 but that anna asked only 70rs. The bookings closed for the theatre i thought was safe. So i was going to some other theatre called jayshyam. I was talking to my frnd abt it and telling idk if I'd get tickets. That auto anna said he'd find out whether the tickets are available at cs (the safe one). He called someone, no one picked the call so he said he'd take me to cs if the tickets are not available then he'd drop me at jayshyam only. We went to cs there were tickets available at diamond class. I thanked that anna. Like bro who does that nowadays😭😭. I really pray he should be happy in life.
While waiting at the theatre i realized i did not get my mask and there high chances someone might recognize me.
Later went in and the movie was a blast though i already watched, seeing that movie on a bigscreen just hits different.
I use to binge watch prithviraj sukumaran movies and this is the first time am seeing him on bigscreen. His voice in telugu was so so good ahh😩. I just cannot get over his character varadha raja mannar. I am hopping to find ffs on wattpad.
But overall this was such a good experience. This solo date was something i really needed. Even while watching movie i was thinking even if my parents get to know its ok because it is all worth it in the end. I'm going to keep this ticket for ever. Ahh what I'd do for movies😭😩.
WHY AREN'T YOU DATING YOURSELF TOO?
As I sat sipping my morning coffee, I couldn't help but wonder: why do we often wait for someone else to take us on a romantic date when the perfect partner has been there all along—ourselves?
We get so caught up in chasing love from others we often forget that sometimes that you can give yourself the love you need too.
There’s something soooo empowering about falling in love with your own presence. I mean why wouldn't I want to hangout with myself? I'm amazing, fun and smell good too.
When you take yourself out, you're not just spending time alone— you're setting the standard for yourself everytime you get dressed up and go to that fancy restaurant, everytime you grab your tote bag and favourite runners and go exploring in your city, or even monthly spa visits to pamper yourself. make your solo dates pop so you don't settle for less when it comes to romantic partners and platonic friendships
Physical Solo Date Ideas
Sunset Beach Walk: Slip into your cutest sundress and wander along the beach as the sun sets. You could even pack yourself some of your fave sparkling drinks and some fruits! and everybody always feels better after they spend some time by the water.
Picnic in the Park: Pack a basket with your favorite snacks, a cozy blanket, and a good book. Find a shady spot under a tree 🍓📖
Yoga in the Garden: Roll out your mat in your backyard or a nearby garden. Breathe in the fresh air and stretch your body 🧘♀️🌸
Gallery Hopping: Spend an afternoon exploring local art galleries. Take your time admiring each piece and journal about it after 🖼️
Stargazing Night: On a clear night, lay out a blanket in your backyard or a quiet park and look up at the stars ✨
Food Solo Date Ideas
Café Hopping: Spend a day exploring cafés in your city and act like the main character in a sitcom or romcom. My fave thing about cafe's is people watching and making up storylines about people. ☕️
Gourmet Dinner for One: Dress up and take yourself to that fancy restaurant you’ve been eyeing. Put on that dress you've been "saving for a special occasion" and order yourself the whole bottle! 🍷
Baking Adventure: Try out a new baking recipe and create some new sweet treats, whatever you have leftover you can share with your girls 🥮🍪🍰
Farmers’ Market Feast: Visit a local farmers’ market and pick out fresh, seasonal ingredients. Then, head home and cook a delicious, wholesome meal just for you.
Ice Cream Parlor Indulgence: Treat yourself to a visit to an ice cream parlor.
Remember, darling, you're the star of your own show. Every moment spent with yourself is a chance to fall head over heels for the fabulous person you are. So, slip into that cute outfit, step out with all the confidence of a city girl in stilettos, and let the world bask in your glow.
After all, the greatest romance you'll ever have is the one you create within yourself.