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I miss the 2019 era. All the blogs are inactive now... Any that are still active, even if you only reblog, please like this post so I can follow<3
Love this.
But you can pry my extra virgin olive oil as moisturizer from my cold dead perfectly manicured hands 💅🏼🫒
you do not need to spend a bunch of money to become the girl of your (and everyone else's) dreams. what you need is to take a good look at your daily habits and understand that beautiful hair and skin come from clean eating habits and hydration; that a gorgeous body comes from adequate nutrition and physical effort; that confidence comes from a tranquil mind and decent sleep; that no person of importance neglects their hygiene or dwells in excessive behavior... it needs to start from a force within you, from intuitive adjustments. then, afterwards, you can buy the expensive moisturizer. as a treat, not a need.
beauty on a budget for someone new to the lifestyle?
since you’re only starting out, you’ll probably want to focus on affordable products and diy and at home beauty treatments.
you can get affordable skin care products from brands like cerave, cetaphil, and the ordinary. you’ll find all your essential cleansers, serums, exfoliators and moisturizers. you can order facial sheet masks in bulk cheap from amazon. you can also use aztec secret healing clay as a clay masque. skip the guasha altogether and follow a youtube tutorial for face sculpting massages instead.
good quality affordable makeup brands I used when I was nearly broke included e.l.f., nyx, wet n’ wild, maybelline, and makeup revolution. look into some other drug store brands within your budget and check reviews before you buy anything so you don’t waste your money. get generic beauty blenders and powder puffs, you’ll be replacing them often anyway so it’s best to get them cheap. you can buy cheap big makeup brush sets on amazon that’ll last a long time if you clean them regularly and take care of them.
press on nails and home manicures / pedicures will save you a ton of money and time. find a good manicure kit and pumice stone. buy a dollar store basin and some epsom salts to soak your feet. for press on nails I usually get mine from temu or brands like kiss and impress. if you just want to paint your natural nails, get a gel polish like l.a. colors color craze gel or sally hansen miracle gel. if you want to go the extra mile, invest in the supplies and learn how to do your own acrylics or gel manicures.
learn how to wax, shape, and tint your own eyebrows. you can buy an affordable diy wax kit like this one and use youtube tutorials on how to find the most flattering brow shape. (as a bonus, the hard waxing kit can also be used to remove unwanted hair on the rest of your body.) you can also find cheap brow tinting kits that usually last up to five uses at sally’s beauty supply and various other stores online.
if you want your lashes done, you can either get really, really good at applying a strip lash – my go to affordable brands are ardell and kiss – or you can invest in some bulk lash clusters and the falscara diy eyelash extension kit. figure out what lash placement will best compliment your features, then watch lots and lots of youtube tutorials on how to use it and practice, practice, practice. they take some getting used to.
when it comes to hair care, the very first thing you want to do is figure out your hair type with a quiz like this one and find what it needs to look and feel healthy. I have 2A hair, so I would pretty much always spring for nexxus for something moisturizing and lightweight, but I’ve heard great things about ogx, shea moisture, not your mother’s, maui moisture, l’oreal elvive, and garnier whole blends which are great for other hair types, densities, and textures. all these brands carry a wide variety of products from shampoo, to leave in treatments, to hair masques, to curl cream — you get it. again, read reviews. you can also use a cotton t-shirt to dry and plop your hair instead of spending money on a microfiber towel, and a satin scarf wrapped around your head to protect your hair while sleeping instead of a silk bonnet and pillow case.
if you’re into styling your hair, two of my favorite methods are heatless styling and blowouts. for heatless styling, you may not even need to purchase any new styling tools. I started out using this heatless robe curl method and eventually started doing other heatless styling methods like the ones on this playlist once I started buying more tools, and did styles like these when I didn’t feel like setting my hair at all. for styles that require heat, a highly suggest investing in a dyson airwrap – which can do pretty much everything – so you don’t end up spending even more on an arsenal of hot styling tools.
good luck, sugar
xoxo
That's why I always come back and stay on this site. The sw community on here is the best too.
Tumblr has the best posts to cheer me up ♥️
some of my favorite archived stripperweb posts - hustle hut (pt. 1)
💗The full archived version of Stripperweb can be viewed here💗
I'm going to make this a series in order to help sw'ers, especially those who may not have been around to experience Stripperweb. I'm also kick-starting this series with some of my favorite posts/threads from the Hustle Hut forum so we can all make some fat stacks! Reblog to fatten a hot girl's wallet tonite!!! 💰🤑💰🤑💰
Law of Attraction and Me being a Money Magnet
Putting customers into a trance & hypnotizing them
$2000/night advanced hustle tips
I've been giving men too much credit
Selling champagne rooms 101
Exteeeeend VIP
Helpful things
When they ask what you do in the VIP room
Selling more than a few dances
The Greedy Stripper/Spoiled Princess Hustle
Ice Queen Hustle
Trophy Wife Hustle
Being an Aggressive Money Maker
How to compete and make money in a club with heavy extras
Read this if you find it hard to believe you are worth large amounts of cash
Making the most of your time at the club
How high earners do it
That "one girl"
Hustling at a twerking club
Casting a Wide Net + Other Secrets
can't believe I nearly forgot to share this
Deciding I was pretty was one of the most beneficial decisions I’ve ever made.
I miss the 2019 era. All the blogs are inactive now... Any that are still active, even if you only reblog, please like this post so I can follow<3
7 STEPS TO CREATE YOUR SIGNATURE EGO/HIGHER SELF:
1. DETERMINE YOUR WHY.
Why do you want an alter ego? Are you lacking the confidence to go for your dream job? Do you want to stop attracting people that are not worth your energy? Are you just bored with your look and want to take on a new persona? Regardless of your intentions, you need to be real with yourself and determine why you want this. Chances are, your reasons are not internally motivated. That’s okay in the beginning, but if you truly want to level up, you need to be in this for yourself. Create a list of at least 10 reasons that you want this.
2. CONSTRUCT HER PERSONA + LIFESTYLE.
What is her personality like? Are they more confident and boastful, or are they more humble? For this part, I find that it is best to envision yourself 5 to 10 years from now, and imagine that you are a fly on the wall just watching your higher self go about her day. Determine what kinds of people she interacts with, what she eats, how she responds to stress, what her hobbies are, etc. Create a list of every detail about her persona and lifestyle.
3. GIVE HER A NAME.
This isn’t the most essential step, but it can be fun. You can put a lot of thought into this, or get inspiration from your favorite movie character. Whether it has meaning or not is up to you, but be sure that it works well with the image that you are creating. Create a list of names that resonate with your most confident self.
4. SELECT YOUR ROLE MODELS + LIST THEIR CHARACTERISTICS.
Who do you idolize most? Is it a celebrity, a family member, a teacher? Consider the people that you admire and determine what it is that you love most about them. What about their character do you enjoy? What skills do they possess? What do they do for a living? How do they start their day? How is this person most like your higher self? Create a list of their skills, their characteristics, interests, etc.
5. CREATE HER SIGNATURE SELF.
Start gathering images that best represent your higher self. It is important to find images of women that you look most like you. Consider images of women’s makeup looks, fashion looks, hairstyles, etc. You will want to create a signature style for her. How does she wear her hair? What fragrance does she wear most? What do these things say about her? Create a list of every detail about her physical appearance.
6. BUILD YOUR BLUEPRINT TO BRIDGE THE GAP.
Create a chart that clarifies your current self and distinguishes it from your signature ego that you have created. Once you have determine who your higher self is and what her life is like, it will become more clear for you to determine the best way to channel her. For starters, you may find that you’ll wear your hair a certain way and put on your best makeup look to assume this role. Once you begin to vibrate with your higher self, you will find that your transformation will feel more natural as it moves from superficial qualities to lifestyle changes. Create a list of 5 milestones that you would need to reach to get closer to being more like your signature ego.
7. CREATE YOUR SIGNATURE SELF SHRINE.
This is my favorite part. Once you have your higher self acutely refined, start planning your Signature Ego Day. This day will be dedicated to you assuming your higher self in her entirety. You will look like her, talk like her, walk like her, and so on. Celebrate the woman that you have created in any way that you deem fit. You may be inclined to take yourself out to dinner and show up as your higher self. You may want to schedule a photoshoot and channel your inner goddess. You may end up dressing up in full gear and spending the day working on your business plan. Whatever goal you have in mind—whatever your why—dedicate this day to showing up as your higher self. Document as much of this day as possible. This will be the start of your Signature Self Shrine. Pick a place in your living area, and dedicate it to building a shrine to your higher self. You can use this to store images of yourself living as if, receipts from places that you love, text messages that prove feedback that remind you of how powerful your higher self is, etc.
What is the most recent way that you have showed up as your higher self?
X
7 STEPS TO CREATE YOUR SIGNATURE EGO/HIGHER SELF:
1. DETERMINE YOUR WHY.
Why do you want an alter ego? Are you lacking the confidence to go for your dream job? Do you want to stop attracting people that are not worth your energy? Are you just bored with your look and want to take on a new persona? Regardless of your intentions, you need to be real with yourself and determine why you want this. Chances are, your reasons are not internally motivated. That’s okay in the beginning, but if you truly want to level up, you need to be in this for yourself. Create a list of at least 10 reasons that you want this.
2. CONSTRUCT HER PERSONA + LIFESTYLE.
What is her personality like? Are they more confident and boastful, or are they more humble? For this part, I find that it is best to envision yourself 5 to 10 years from now, and imagine that you are a fly on the wall just watching your higher self go about her day. Determine what kinds of people she interacts with, what she eats, how she responds to stress, what her hobbies are, etc. Create a list of every detail about her persona and lifestyle.
3. GIVE HER A NAME.
This isn’t the most essential step, but it can be fun. You can put a lot of thought into this, or get inspiration from your favorite movie character. Whether it has meaning or not is up to you, but be sure that it works well with the image that you are creating. Create a list of names that resonate with your most confident self.
4. SELECT YOUR ROLE MODELS + LIST THEIR CHARACTERISTICS.
Who do you idolize most? Is it a celebrity, a family member, a teacher? Consider the people that you admire and determine what it is that you love most about them. What about their character do you enjoy? What skills do they possess? What do they do for a living? How do they start their day? How is this person most like your higher self? Create a list of their skills, their characteristics, interests, etc.
5. CREATE HER SIGNATURE SELF.
Start gathering images that best represent your higher self. It is important to find images of women that you look most like you. Consider images of women’s makeup looks, fashion looks, hairstyles, etc. You will want to create a signature style for her. How does she wear her hair? What fragrance does she wear most? What do these things say about her? Create a list of every detail about her physical appearance.
6. BUILD YOUR BLUEPRINT TO BRIDGE THE GAP.
Create a chart that clarifies your current self and distinguishes it from your signature ego that you have created. Once you have determine who your higher self is and what her life is like, it will become more clear for you to determine the best way to channel her. For starters, you may find that you’ll wear your hair a certain way and put on your best makeup look to assume this role. Once you begin to vibrate with your higher self, you will find that your transformation will feel more natural as it moves from superficial qualities to lifestyle changes. Create a list of 5 milestones that you would need to reach to get closer to being more like your signature ego.
7. CREATE YOUR SIGNATURE SELF SHRINE.
This is my favorite part. Once you have your higher self acutely refined, start planning your Signature Ego Day. This day will be dedicated to you assuming your higher self in her entirety. You will look like her, talk like her, walk like her, and so on. Celebrate the woman that you have created in any way that you deem fit. You may be inclined to take yourself out to dinner and show up as your higher self. You may want to schedule a photoshoot and channel your inner goddess. You may end up dressing up in full gear and spending the day working on your business plan. Whatever goal you have in mind—whatever your why—dedicate this day to showing up as your higher self. Document as much of this day as possible. This will be the start of your Signature Self Shrine. Pick a place in your living area, and dedicate it to building a shrine to your higher self. You can use this to store images of yourself living as if, receipts from places that you love, text messages that prove feedback that remind you of how powerful your higher self is, etc.
What is the most recent way that you have showed up as your higher self?
X
originally made this plan for myself but all the Q&A sessions on instagram made me want to share it with you.
everyone, let's do our best and have fun. no pressure and don't take it too seriously. Come on ig if you want more action, details and examples.
I be cute for one day and then book ugly for weeks 🥴😭. Does anyone have a plan or routine to be consistently put together / cute every single day. It takes so much energy but I know it’s possible lol
✨ BOOKS TO READ ON YOUR HYPERGAMOUS JOURNEY!!! ✨
Stop using the pandemic as an excuse for not developing yourself and your social skills! It’s important to devote time to studying hypergamy, dating, social climbing, and femininity. Although nothing can replace real life interactions, reading books on the topic can help prime you for when these interactions do occur. Devote yourself to daily reading, ladies.
DATING
- Shanghai Girls: Uncensored & Unsentimental: How Formidable Chinese Women Use Their Feminity to Get Wealth and Power, By Lan Lan
- Ho Tactics, by G.L. Lambert
- The Geisha Secret, by Hanako
- How To Marry The Rich, by Ginie Sayles
FEMININITY
- Simply Irresistible, by Ellen T. White
- The Geisha Secret, by Hanako
SEDUCTION
- The Book of Courtesans, by Susan Griffin
- The Art of Seduction, by Robert Green
- The Seduction Mystique, by Ginie Sayles
- The Geisha Secret, by Hanako
SOCIAL CLIMBING
- Meet the Rich, by Ginie Sayles
- The Old Money Book: How To Live Better While Spending Less, by Byron Tully
- Modern Etiquette Made Easy, by Myka Meier
- The Social Climbers Bible, Dirk Wittenborn