Transmasc Butch - Tumblr Posts
'I support nonbinary lesbians!' motherfuckers when the nonbinary person in question is a man in any way: tells the person to kill themself, how they're invading lesbian spaces, how their identity doesn't exist and isn't valid, 'men can't be lesbians!', screaming and crying about how they're lesbiphobic and transphobic for existing, 'you just hate lesbians don't you, that's why you're pushing for acceptance of your own identity!', calls them disgusting and sickening, throws around blatant misandrist comments, claims they're the reason lesbiphobic straight men think they have a chance of 'fixing' lesbians, 'oh well you're not an ACTUAL man, so it's okay!', crosses into borderline TERF territory, becomes an actual TERF, etc.
Yeah, I can feel the support radiating off of my screen. /sarcasm
honestly I think it may be banned because of how reactionary of a topic it is, unfortunately. It's very likely a precaution to 'maintain the peace'. It still sucks though don't get me wrong, but I wouldn't jump to the conclusion that the mods all hold binarist expectations of orientation when they have a server to run
Are you kidding me. Imagine putting a marginalized identity on a "banned topics" list because it doesn't fit into your binarist expectations of orientation and gender.
I'm not going to pick between being comfortable in my body and being a lesbian because someone doesn't understand my identity. Trans lesbians don't owe you a look or a certain gender identity. Butches don't owe you womanhood either. Get over it.
'trans men have the lesbian label forced on them when they're heterosexual' and 'trans men can be lesbians' are concepts that do coexist. The point here, for anyone who may have missed it, is that identity is up to the individual and not what someone else decides for them, which includes forcing a trans man to identify as straight when they don't identify as such. You cannot be willing to dismantle the expectations of sex and gender without the will to let go of your little rules to sexuality. Things just happen that don't fit preconceived boxes, get over it.