Truly Disgusting - Tumblr Posts
i just realized how much i dislike this "hey" of theirs. this comforting "hey". especially in phrases such as "hey, it's okay not to do everything at once, hey, you did your best, hey, you deserve rest, it's okay if you don't do anything productive", i just HATE it, because IT'S NOT OKAY, and NO, i didn't do my best and no, i don't bloody deserve rest if i did absolutely nothing. because such comforts make me go mad and if you ever say those things to me, i'll think of you as of a person who doesn't care about me - well, in case you think you do - and just chose those everywhere-accepted words to comfort me, unable to see that i am being, in fact, a lazy, dumb, stupid and unproductive cow.
this "hey" is just... everywhere. hey. hEy. truly disgusting, it reminds me of cold tea with too much sugar, or that uncomfortable position in bed with lots of blankets on, or that cloudy horrible day when you've got dirty hair and no means to wash it. or vanilla things. i hate vanilla things. and vanilla hugs. hugs are not for me, unless they're strong and meant to be... real hugs.
those vanilla things, god how i hate them. this... "comfort wannabe" drives me mad. i want to slap someone's face when i hear those or have to accept that i won't hear anything but those.
yeah, and this hey has only one use for me: when you shout, "HEY NATH", or "HEY THOSE WERE MY CHICKEN NUGGETS", then i love you... and i'll be in lots of trouble by then so i won't even be bothered by whether you used that word or not.
Another crazy thing is Julie Plec saying Bonnie is too good for Kol and that he's too evil for her, then pairing him with a white witch.... (no hate to Davina, but if he's irredeemable for Bonnie, then he’d irredeemable for Davina, too)
It's crazy because she also paired Bonnie with Enzo, a vampire who if I'm not wrong did abuse/kinda terrorize her friends, maybe not to the extent Klaus or Damon did but regardless (only if my memory serves me right; I don't remember much from Enzo, hence why I'm currently rewatching season five.)
Kol literally killed Davina and we're supposed to buy he's the better choice for her? Whether you're mind controlled or not, having your blood sucked out of your body by your boyfriend would leave a scarr for sure and the fact that Davina never got any trauma from it is insane. Bonnie went through worse stuff every season, of course, but she was never allowed to show any emotion onscreen, especially if it was against her white friends.
Saying Bonnie is "too pure" or has "too strong morals" to be with any Mikaelson or Salvatore is just stupid and clearly wrong. Elena and Caroline hated Damon and Klaus, until they didn't, it's easy to see women are being constantly retconned to fit into this shows storylines yet no one ever bats an eye until it comes to the main black woman from The Vampire Diaries.
And this isn't just with romances either. Fans believe Bonnie would hate Rebekah, when there isn't literally any proof to corroborate this and they haven't even interacted, they think she would hate Hope for being a Mikaelson when Bonnie has never been that kind of person. They're desperate to prove she's an anti vampires or generally a prude simply because she's traumatized and rightfully so. She decides to not be nice to the Salvatore brothers in season one after they got her grandmother killed and she's turned into some sort of supervillain because of it.
If Bonnie's actress had been white, I'm pretty sure her character and bloodline would have been in Mikaelson level by the show and fandom.