Um Yea Hi!!! I Just Have To Say That First Things First I Love Ur Blog!!! Its Just So Aesthetic And Pretty!!!

um… yea hi!!! 🙈💓 I just have to say that first things first I love ur blog!!! ☺️ it’s just so aesthetic and pretty!!! you tie everything together really well. so kudos!!! secondly, um… I was wondering if you could do a post on how to stop self-destructing? or if you could give any tips on that? it would be most appreciated!!! thank u!! 😇

hello my love!!

thank you so so much for your kind words and my apology in getting back to you.

and here are my top tips to stop self destructing (but i'll make a longer post soon!)

practicing compassion with myself - it's okay to make mistakes, it's okay to not feel like you have it together. but you have to soothe yourself first and tell yourself that YOU GOT THIS, and it will only get better from here

making healthy habits & modifying my routine - i know we all say your routine should be rigid but sometimes it feels like it overwhelms me! whenever im in a self destructive mood i start with easy tasks and slowly build up my energy to get towards my bigger tasks

emotional outlets - finding ways to channel my emotions and honour them. i used to ignore my emotions off anger,frustration etc., and kept it all bottled up but that led to self destruction. journaling, praying, going to the gym or playing cozy games helps me redirect that energy towards something until it passes. then i can regroup.

i hope this helped!!

𝖥𝗅𝗈𝗐𝖾𝗋 𝖥𝖺𝗂𝗋𝗒 𝖻𝗒 𝖢𝗂𝖼𝖾𝗅𝗒 𝖬𝖺𝗋𝗒 𝖡𝖺𝗋𝗄𝖾𝗋

Becoming a ☆Dream Girl☆

Who doesn’t want to be a dream girl? Put together, always smells nice, radiant, confident, cute, and content. Where does one even begin when trying to embody that dream girl energy?! Well, with a few practical changes to my life and routines, I’m starting to feel more confident in myself and in love with my appearance and my own energy. Here’s what I’m doing to become my own dream girl!

- Overnight Curls and Wave! I’m going to start wearing my hair in braids or curlers when I go to bed so I can wake up with beautiful, dreamy hair.

- Wake Up Earlier. I need to build in time to my schedule to be able to properly get ready in the morning! I usually roll out of bed, do my hair very fast, brush my teeth, put on clothes, and run out the door. If I want to start doing beauty routines and investing more time into myself, I need to wake up earlier! My ideal routine is:

• Wash face

• Brush teeth

• Sunscreen & makeup

• Hair

• Outfit & accessories

• Fragrance

• Breakfast!

- Simple Makeup. Sunscreen, blush, highlighter, mascara, and tinted lip balm or lip gloss would make me look radiant and angelic everyday!

- Work Out 30 Minutes 6 Days a Week! I have a family history of high blood pressure LOL so I think I should begin experimenting with exercise and learning how to move my body in ways that I enjoy while I’m still young :)

- Body Care / Skin Care! I’m going to buy salicylic acid body wash and a fragrance free moisturizer to prevent acne, hydrate my skin, and make my body glow.

- Pick a Signature Fragrance! I want to pick a signature scent for everyday, and possibly a scent for special events! I think I prefer picking a scent that matches each season, so I can have some variation throughout the year. Here’s the perfumes I own so far:

• Love’s Baby Soft (Summer)

• Juicy Couture Viva La Juicy (Fall)

• YSL Mon Paris (Winter)

• Marc Jacobs Honey (Spring)

• Sabrina Carpenter Sweet Tooth

I wanna see what happens if I don't give up

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